Quote by tweeky
solitude is very important as is the abilty to heal oneself.
Wow, my Mums a liar! She said that was called wanking. nice one tweeky, you had a wank lately?
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Solitude
Quote by corrie
I like my own company as I love to spend time reading and pottering around my home. Sometimes I do this too much and suddenly realise I havent seen anyone all weekend! However, thats not very often with my family always popping in and its always by choice when I am alone. I have never had a problem in solitude but I think its very different to feeling lonely. As the saying goes, you can be surrounded by people and be lonely. to chat oI am very rarely lonely as I can go into the chatroom if I feel the need r, more importantly, I can pick up a phone or go out and see friends and family.
So here's to solitude - a very under rated part of ones life
Virtual chat is something different, a form of companionship I agree, but not a full substitute for the real thing. Perhaps there ought to be meets for Chatroom regulars - not so much a Munch, but A CHUNCH.
Plim :lol:
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Quote by poshkate
I'm very comfortable being on my own. I lived on my own for a few years and even now spend quite a bit of my time on my own. I'm very comfortable with it and like having time on my own to do my own thing. I actually don't think I could have a relationship with someone who wanted to be with me all the time with no time to myself.
Cool. I'll take the bed tonight and you can take the car. :P
Just think ..... no nagging for cwtch. No more snoring. No more bed-farts. No more fidgeting.......... I'm gonna get a great night sleep tonight. :smug:
Oh and alone ...... really????
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Quote by easy
I'm very comfortable being on my own. I lived on my own for a few years and even now spend quite a bit of my time on my own. I'm very comfortable with it and like having time on my own to do my own thing. I actually don't think I could have a relationship with someone who wanted to be with me all the time with no time to myself.
Cool. I'll take the bed tonight and you can take the car. :P
Just think ..... no nagging for cwtch. No more snoring. No more bed-farts. No more fidgeting.......... I'm gonna get a great night sleep tonight. :smug:
Oh and alone ...... really????
OMG! How cute is that?! The bunny I mean! :giggle:
As for solitude... I like it. I'm very comfortable with it and indeed becoming more and more comfortable with it the older I get. I like my own company. Funnily enough someone said to me fairly recently that I have no idea just how precious it is. He doesn't get to spend a lot of alone time and is envious of my ability to please myself. I dare say the grass is always greener regardless of which side of the fence you're on.
Speaking of alone time... I'm off to bed... my big kingsize bed... alone!! :bounce:
Sex God
Soitude I have found can come in many different forms.
The solitude to enjoy something self indulgent. Time to read, or enjoy a craft, or hobby, or just to sit and reflect upon life. It can be quietly or enthusiastically indulged. Brings contentment, self satisfaction and a feeling of inner well being.
Then theres the solitude that may come in another form. For me it comes with the job, and being busy and self absorbd helps. I travel too and have vistied a number of towns, and cities, and enjoyed the varied landscape of this green and pleasant land.
I have found a solitude that I wish to share. An odd concept but let me explain. Last Autumn I was driving south through the Cairngorms and stoped for lunch in a layby. The sky was blue, and the sun bathed me in the last warming rays of the year. Before me a vista of rolling mountains dressed in trees coloured in a palette of autumnal colours. It was a solitude I would want to share with another human being. just the two of us alone, together
Finally there is the solitude of rejection. You are suddenly no longer part of the team, you no longer play due to the descission of another. Your stood on the sidelines watching others play. The years of lying awake at night, the darkness your companion. Whilst two feet away you can hear the soft breathing of a woman. A woman who constantly and consistantly rejects your advances.
The solitude to enjoy something self indulgent. Time to read, or enjoy a craft, or hobby, or just to sit and reflect upon life. It can be quietly or enthusiastically indulged. Brings contentment, self satisfaction and a feeling of inner well being.
Then theres the solitude that may come in another form. For me it comes with the job, and being busy and self absorbd helps. I travel too and have vistied a number of towns, and cities, and enjoyed the varied landscape of this green and pleasant land.
I have found a solitude that I wish to share. An odd concept but let me explain. Last Autumn I was driving south through the Cairngorms and stoped for lunch in a layby. The sky was blue, and the sun bathed me in the last warming rays of the year. Before me a vista of rolling mountains dressed in trees coloured in a palette of autumnal colours. It was a solitude I would want to share with another human being. just the two of us alone, together
Finally there is the solitude of rejection. You are suddenly no longer part of the team, you no longer play due to the descission of another. Your stood on the sidelines watching others play. The years of lying awake at night, the darkness your companion. Whilst two feet away you can hear the soft breathing of a woman. A woman who constantly and consistantly rejects your advances.
I love being on my own and I love living on my own. I don't miss people when I haven't seen any in a while. I love the solitude that the old cottage I live in affords me. I have hundreds of books and radio 4 and I have flora and fauna outside my back door. I don't feel any need to share it with anyone. The peace that comes with solitude is underrated. I might occasionally miss a naked cuddle but it doesn't impinge on my love of solitude.
