â€œSwing It Babyâ€: Being a swinger, or maybe just being

18 May 2005

well, considering my head now hurts at reading all the post :P (as good as they all were), I'm going to keep my answer and silly views short wink

I always felt that life was an ongoing journey, constantly involving the wrong maps, wrong directions, leading you every which way. Exploring new things, lviing different styles, living life so to say....
so I only find it natural for people's views, habits and lifestyles to be changing over time.
However, as much as that may be respected, find it always silly when people are put into categories!. Never understood how you can define the rather large number people inhabiting our planet, into so few categories!!!.........everyone is different, everyone does different things, just so happens we cross paths occasionally from time to time :P....
But anyhooooooos, enough of the rambling, just like to wish you all the best blue, we all find different paths at different times, and they change, a lot!:P..............nice bum by the way (says me mate:P) :twisted:

18 May 2005

Quote by little gem
If someone finds out what I am can they send me the answer on the back of a postcard please?
Gem. x

I am man. Hear me roar! lol

19 May 2005

I can see the arguments for and against 'labelling' and whether it is necessary is up to us in the end. If you train for years to learn how to heal people you are happy to be known as Dr. ....... It's when prejudice gets in the way that we think more closely about what labels we want connected with us. It's when you start getting people looking on your 'label' as being a negative thing that it becomes a problem, eg. gay people being labelled perverts (NOT my opinion I hasten to say!), females who enjoy sex being labelled 'slags', disabled people who are labelled and taunted because of the negative aspects of their disability instead of as a human being with thoughts and feelings and talents, people of other races/religions being discriminated against because a minority of people who come from the same race/religion may have done wrong. The list goes on.......
I don't know how much of this has affected my current introspective mood, or Blues for that matter, and how much it is about exploring our own psyche and knowing what we want from life. IMO, if you don't try something you'll never know if you like it, so what have you got to lose? There are things I have enjoyed and things I haven't liked as much but I've been giving it a go because I wanted to find out! Nothing wrong with that, nobody got hurt along the way.

19 May 2005

Quote by MQ
I can see the arguments for and against 'labelling' and whether it is necessary is up to us in the end. If you train for years to learn how to heal people you are happy to be known as Dr. ....... It's when prejudice gets in the way that we think more closely about what labels we want connected with us. It's when you start getting people looking on your 'label' as being a negative thing that it becomes a problem, eg. gay people being labelled perverts (NOT my opinion I hasten to say!), females who enjoy sex being labelled 'slags', disabled people who are labelled and taunted because of the negative aspects of their disability instead of as a human being with thoughts and feelings and talents, people of other races/religions being discriminated against because a minority of people who come from the same race/religion may have done wrong. The list goes on.......
I don't know how much of this has affected my current introspective mood, or Blues for that matter, and how much it is about exploring our own psyche and knowing what we want from life. IMO, if you don't try something you'll never know if you like it, so what have you got to lose? There are things I have enjoyed and things I haven't liked as much but I've been giving it a go because I wanted to find out! Nothing wrong with that, nobody got hurt along the way.

Couldn't agree with you more MQ as someone once said "On your death bed its better to regret the things you did, rather than the things you didn't" smile