Warming the Bed
Do most of you members use? I have looked arund but not seen any names I recognise on here in there, if that makes sense!
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Makes perfect sense to be.
A lot of people do use both the forums and the chat room.
Personally it's very rare I venture in there:
1) I'm too slow to keep up with it
2) It's too scary unless a few of the other forum uses come to hold my hand
3) When the screen changes really fast it makes me feel sea sick
A lot of people do use both the forums and the chat room.
Personally it's very rare I venture in there:
1) I'm too slow to keep up with it
2) It's too scary unless a few of the other forum uses come to hold my hand
3) When the screen changes really fast it makes me feel sea sick
I venture in from time to time but only normally hang around if there is some friendly names so to speak 
But forum users are finding there way over to chat more and more there was a fair few of us in one of the rooms last night and to be honest it was enjoyable to chat with people I already knew from over this side
But forum users are finding there way over to chat more and more there was a fair few of us in one of the rooms last night and to be honest it was enjoyable to chat with people I already knew from over this side I keep popping in, especially over the last few weeks when things are a bit slow over here, but
(1) I last about 10 minutes in any room before I get that 'Dark, remove yourself from this before you say something you'll regret' feeling
(2) I dont know many people in the chatrooms so tend to gravitate to the Mids or Derby rooms as they're local people usually
(3) I like the rooms set up by one of us forum lot because its easy to spot people you are familiar with, easier to start conversation and no one takes liberties by whispering uninvited etc
(4)I hate directors with a passion and the minute I'm in a room with that god damn single fem symbol up I can put money on it someone will say 'are you going on cam/ get ya tits out?'
(5) .........shall I shut up now?
Once or twice now I've caught myself saying 'bye' in the chatroom by announcing that 'right, i'm going home now' - meaning back to the Cafe :shock:
(1) I last about 10 minutes in any room before I get that 'Dark, remove yourself from this before you say something you'll regret' feeling
(2) I dont know many people in the chatrooms so tend to gravitate to the Mids or Derby rooms as they're local people usually
(3) I like the rooms set up by one of us forum lot because its easy to spot people you are familiar with, easier to start conversation and no one takes liberties by whispering uninvited etc
(4)I hate directors with a passion and the minute I'm in a room with that god damn single fem symbol up I can put money on it someone will say 'are you going on cam/ get ya tits out?'
(5) .........shall I shut up now?
Once or twice now I've caught myself saying 'bye' in the chatroom by announcing that 'right, i'm going home now' - meaning back to the Cafe :shock:
Sex God
I do my ironing in there on a Sunday morning!!
I started on this site using chat all the time but was finding it difficult to join in the conversations mid way etc. and also when joining a local room most folks seemed to know each other well and it is hard to become known. So i started posting in here more often aswell as using chat.
Last night was the first time i saw most of the regular forum users in a chat room and it was a good night, apart from being ribbed because my cam was either dark or orange depending on who looked at it and i get that in every room anyway
When i'm in the chat room i'm usualy in the TV/CD rooms as i found that though i'm straight the folks in them are a very good bunch who will chat to u happilly. I also frequent the midlands rooms and its still a bit difficult for the reasons i mentioned above.
Right i'm of to find PeteSW's post on the chat room icons to give them another request.
Last night was the first time i saw most of the regular forum users in a chat room and it was a good night, apart from being ribbed because my cam was either dark or orange depending on who looked at it
and i get that in every room anyway When i'm in the chat room i'm usualy in the TV/CD rooms as i found that though i'm straight the folks in them are a very good bunch who will chat to u happilly. I also frequent the midlands rooms and its still a bit difficult for the reasons i mentioned above.
Right i'm of to find PeteSW's post on the chat room icons to give them another request.
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(3) I like the rooms set up by one of us forum lot because its easy to spot people you are familiar with, easier to start conversation and no one takes liberties by whispering uninvited etc
I was getting quite ( well almost) good at keeping up in the old place, but that ^ ^ ^ is my biggest problem at the moment with the new setup - finding people I know. I had a look the other day, and I think there were different rooms on different servers
- so trawling round gets to be a bit of a bind, and apparently it's bad manneered to nip in and out of rooms without posting Quote by Darkfire
Once or twice now I've caught myself saying 'bye' in the chatroom by announcing that 'right, i'm going home now' - meaning back to the Cafe :shock:
It's where the heart is
The chat room behaviour or lack of it, is one of the reoccurring gripes on the site.
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker
Sex God
Went in there earlier>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.
But following you in.............
But following you in.............
Sex God
Quote by Darkfire
may I suggest a forum outing to the ' Bareback Fucking - Whispers OK' room (yes, seriously )
i'm going in armed :twisted:
Bloody hell! :shock:
Warming the Bed
AND ANOTHER THING!!
We like to go into chatrooms seperately but at the same time. (have 2 pcs you see ) however it will only allow one person at a time to get in. is there any plans to change this, otherwise I got to sit on a stupidly little stool next to her instead of my big comfy chair!
We like to go into chatrooms seperately but at the same time. (have 2 pcs you see
) however it will only allow one person at a time to get in. is there any plans to change this, otherwise I got to sit on a stupidly little stool next to her instead of my big comfy chair! Quote by foxyandbeasty
AND ANOTHER THING!!
We like to go into chatrooms seperately but at the same time. (have 2 pcs you see
:confused:
We have two machines, but don't have that problem. Maybe they're different setups
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Is it because you have one shared account ?
Sorry - blonde bloke moment :doh:
Sex God
Quote by foxyandbeasty
AND ANOTHER THING!!
We like to go into chatrooms seperately but at the same time. (have 2 pcs you see
Do you only have one username? If so, I'd say that's why. You'll probably have to get another username to go in as separate users.
There's a chatroom problems thread, why don't you ask on that?
Sex God
Quote by dambuster
AND ANOTHER THING!!
We like to go into chatrooms seperately but at the same time. (have 2 pcs you see
:confused:
We have two machines, but don't have that problem. Maybe they're different setups
Do you have two usernames though?
Warming the Bed
we do share the username, but to have two would mean paying more which is ridiculous. 
Think we will stay with another sites chat, at least on there you can share the username.
Think we will stay with another sites chat, at least on there you can share the username.
Sex God
we have never been in the chatrooms as yet, a bit :scared: for first timers
Sex God
Ok Darkfire, RWL and I are in and working hard to be nice
Sex God
Your fault room closed, no room host 
And on a cafe outing to the chatroom as well
And on a cafe outing to the chatroom as well
Warming the Bed
Quote by firelizard
>>> going for a shower with scouring pad and dettol soap. back later
*shudders*
Can I do your back for you?
Stormwalker :inlove:
And can we d your front
Sex God
Quote by firelizard
The chat room behaviour or lack of it, is one of the reoccurring gripes on the site.
At the moment there are three servers and umpteen rooms, would it be so hard for the powers that be to turn over one of the servers to a totally non directing, non showing one. The server could have a few extra Opps volunteers maybe to police it with a zero tolerance policy on the directors. Admin could pm all members telling them about the rules on this server, and about the consequences of breaking the rules.
The chatrooms and the forums have to coexist, but the present confusing state of the chatrooms makes it very hard for new people to know just where the boundaries are drawn. Clear lines and simple rules are probably better for the uninitiated to understand. We all I imagine want this site to prosper so let’s give those who want to chat in peace a safe place to do so.
Stormwalker
Not the worst idea in the world...in fact was talking to someone about exactly the same thing the idea.....and i can't see why it wouldn't be workable as long as people are told how to change from chat server to chat server when they 1st enter chat....
maybe that would solve a lot of issues.....
sean ccccc
Warming the Bed
Oh stormwalker, we wanted dark for AGES and just as we are getting there you ruin it for us
Sex God
Quote by foxyandbeasty
we do share the username, but to have two would mean paying more which is ridiculous.
Think we will stay with another sites chat, at least on there you can share the username.
Depends how much you want to chat at the same time, I suppose.
