Have tried on a number of occasions to meet up with people but always find ads are fake, or I just get rejected.
Can anyone tell me what the secret is??
I've got a huge sex drive that I can seem to fufill.
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Sex God
What do you mean by fake? if you can provide evidence that certain ads are fake, e.g. ads from prostitutes or links to porn sites etc, PM a mod and let us know the ad number.
Nothing we can do about the genuine people who chose not to meet you! All i can say on that is be polite, reply to those ads who want what you have to offer, and get yourself known on the forum. There is lots of advice available on the site so use it.
Nothing we can do about the genuine people who chose not to meet you! All i can say on that is be polite, reply to those ads who want what you have to offer, and get yourself known on the forum. There is lots of advice available on the site so use it.
Sex God
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Have tried on a number of occasions to meet up with people but always find ads are fake, or I just get rejected.
Can anyone tell me what the secret is??
I've got a huge sex drive that I can seem to fufill.
The secret is there is no secret. Don't try to develop a conscious "technique" because it'll always look contrived. Just be yourself and don't waste your time (or theirs) replying to ads by people who aren't looking for what you're offering.
Ice
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Can anyone tell me what the secret is??
I believe it helps if you're a single bisexual female.
Presuming you're not a single bi-fem, if there is a secret to success then I'm afraid nobody's willing to share it. This kind of topic has come up time and again and the best I can advise is to look back at some of these older threads:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11143.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11162.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/11691.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13315.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/12762.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13606.html
If you do a search in the forums, you'll find lots more postings that discuss this. Hope you find something helpful!
Sex God
Hmmmm maybe Rodgers post should be stickied so that all the newbies that come in looking for advice know where to go.
As a knock-on effect it might improve the quality of some of the ads as well.
Just a thought.
As a knock-on effect it might improve the quality of some of the ads as well.
Just a thought.
That was just a few recent threads that struck in my mind - there's probably better, more appropriate ones hidden in the mists of time.
Some kind of "advice for single guys" sticky would be good though. Did Mal get enough feedback to go ahead with creating one this time? If not, and nobody else wants to, I'm happy to have a go at writing some kind of basic-advice post, but it would be extremely odd for me to give advice to anothers, given that in orgasmic terms I was a wee bit, urrrrhh, unsuccesful.
Some kind of "advice for single guys" sticky would be good though. Did Mal get enough feedback to go ahead with creating one this time? If not, and nobody else wants to, I'm happy to have a go at writing some kind of basic-advice post, but it would be extremely odd for me to give advice to anothers, given that in orgasmic terms I was a wee bit, urrrrhh, unsuccesful.
Heather did write a piece a long time ago but it's tucked away in a little part of the site called 'Advice'. You can find it here:
Advice for single men
Steve
Advice for single men
Steve
Orgasminator
i heard that can be quite sexual Niceguy, not my bag but im sure ive read it somewhere
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but always find ads are fake, ....always ?????????? wow hold on here.
If I take your statement literally it means my add is a fake too which means you imply I am a fake. I am not and the people I know here are not fakes either. I would be obliged if you would reword your post. That way you will go a long way toward making friends and not enemies. Wars are started this way and we sure as hell need none of that.
JudyTV (on one)
I actually read as it was "another" single bloke moan Judy, which is why I didn't bother to respond..... What he probably meant was "I have replied to loads of ads but didn't get a shag so I reckon they are all fakes"
Shireen
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I'll apologise now if I sound out of line, but please read the message again. I say that ads are EITHER fake or I get rejected. The moderators know some ads are fake as they delete them. All I asked for was some advice, not to be talked about in the 3rd person. If you have something to say about me why not say it to me. If you don't want me to see why not PM each other.
I expect this will now mean even more rejections, but I had to have my say. I know I'm only a newbie on here, and that I may have upset some of the 'regulars', but in the end all I'm looking for is some fun, just like everyone else.
Sam
I expect this will now mean even more rejections, but I had to have my say. I know I'm only a newbie on here, and that I may have upset some of the 'regulars', but in the end all I'm looking for is some fun, just like everyone else.
Sam
single guys should realise that they are not the only one replying to any ad,we recently placed an ad,we were quite specific in what we were looking for,ie, age and area and what we wanted from any potential guys who replied,we had around 80 replies, 20 were deleted without even opening them,as no facial pic was enclosed.
another 10/15 were deleted because we asked for details,not one lined emails like "l got a big c--- and want to f--- you",anyway we were left with around 15 guys that were suitable,and we choose the guy nearest us.
l suggest you read the ads carefully,take note of the ad take sometime in replying in great detail to the ad.l reply as a single male now and then,and know how hard it is to even at times get a "no thanks",even though l have met all requirements and wrote a fully detailed mail,and sent a facial pic.
another 10/15 were deleted because we asked for details,not one lined emails like "l got a big c--- and want to f--- you",anyway we were left with around 15 guys that were suitable,and we choose the guy nearest us.
l suggest you read the ads carefully,take note of the ad take sometime in replying in great detail to the ad.l reply as a single male now and then,and know how hard it is to even at times get a "no thanks",even though l have met all requirements and wrote a fully detailed mail,and sent a facial pic.
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l suggest you read the ads carefully,take note of the ad take sometime in replying in great detail to the ad.l reply as a single male now and then,and know how hard it is to even at times get a "no thanks",even though l have met all requirements and wrote a fully detailed mail,and sent a facial pic.
In my experience "hard" doesn't even begin to sum it up.
I guess the best advice for Mr Samg - or anyone else in his shoes - would be to weigh up exactly how much you want to get their leg over, and how much hard thankless work you're willing to put in to get there. The end-reward is not automatically worth the price it costs.
And if you are a guy with a "huge sex drive", for God's sake don't rely on a swingers website to satisfy it, because it won't even come close.
