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what do you look for first in a swinging partner/partners?

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Quote by Dawn_Mids
Someone that makes me laugh, with nice eyes and a smile. Possibly a bit cheeky but that makes me feel good rather then just another boring old shag confused

Well, I'm cheeky!
I've never noticed dunno
:rascal:
no course u ain't bolt
Someone who is as honest as they claim to be ........ too many fookin liars in this game .... seemed to have lucked out now though. Got a lovely sexy lady who lives nearby and is honest and up front about things. It's like a breath of fresh air!!!
Quote by Wishmaster
Got a lovely sexy lady who lives nearby and is honest and up front about things.

another one? :shock:
After much careful consideration of all the possible options, I think the first thing on my list is a willingness to shag me. lol :shock:
I look for energy, enthusiasm , imagination and a brain.
It also helps if they live within a 100 mile radius. Unfortuantely anyone who has the bove attributes usually lives at leats 300 miles away!!!!
The only exception to the above rule is when I need someone who lives in Dublin or Malta, both of which seem to only contain men who are firigid or cant read
sad
some one who gets a shower before and after using the sauna or jacuzzi
:love: xxx and a big cock lol
[do people have a particular something that they look for
I would like someone who enjoyed some laughs, had an interesting personality, I know there are a lot of intelligent women on this site so one of them as I like to chat ....there there would be someone who did endless amounts of charity work as well, put flowers in all the places of worship of the different faith communities within a 20 mile radius, helped aged persons across crossings, picked up litter and was concerned about the enviroment...and of course a women who really, really, enjoyed a good shag....
A PULSE !!!! dunno
Seriously though personality good sense of humour lol
Someone who is funny, who I can talk to after the sex bit.
Also helps if I find them attractive.
And for me it's smaller boobs rather than big ones, but form is more important than size.
Anyone thats up for it really smile
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Anyone thats up for it really smile

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Well we will have to get over to chameleons sometime for some unemotional sex lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by seagull69
Anyone thats up for it really smile

There should be more honesty like this around!!
Quote by lancyuk
lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'

Cock size ;) :rascal:
Quote by lancyuk
lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'
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Here just kidding its only 1 of the things i ask rolleyes
Quote by treasurechest
Anyone thats up for it really smile

There should be more honesty like this around!!
Great new avatar Treasure! Makes it difficult to think... what one looks for is....
Quote by debz4u
lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'
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Here just kidding its only 1 of the things i ask rolleyes
I like your new avatar as well Debz !
Thanks Cheetah xx
Quote by Ice Pie
Intelligence and sense of humour are absolute musts for me. I just can't be turned on by anyone I don't connect with mentally... if we can't laugh together, it's difficult to see how we can become good friends, and if I can't be your friend, I don't want to shag you, frankly.

I haven't read the rest. I just read this and went "yip - that's my definition".
aRSexx :color:
Like Seagull says, I'd go for anyone who's up for it.
well, as it stands, i'm currently looking at a pair.. sillyhwoar: of what i look for... wink
Quote by JudyTV
Big Tits and a big Cock ............................................. preferably on the same body.......

now your talkingwink
Ok here goes people that say looks don't count lie as if that is so then why do so many guys that are a good laugh not get a shag. Second you have to be able to comunicate while take a comes personality if they can make u laugh its half the battle so to speak, Fouth is foreplay if its short & sweet it doesnt work as its a known fact most women take longer to come then guys ( though some guys can hold out till a woman say me now) Finally If a guy isnt the right size & the foreplay doesnt make up for it then for get it.
Then again we are all individuals & have different tastes so as long as we allhave fun & find what we are looking for that is allthat counts so HAVE FUN GUYS & GALS
Quote by JudyTV
Big Tits and a big Cock ............................................. preferably on the same body.......

now your talkingwink
Kinky sod :wink: ..................God I wish I had bigger tits.
Judy

small tits will do......i'm not fussy :twisted: ask anyone who knows me :lol2:
anyway what do you mean kinky sod? you bought it up i just agreed lol
Ummm found a great swinging partner and im shocked to say i love a mans nipple peirced and someone i can have a good giggle with wink .....oh and he can please me none stop redface
Quote by givemeahug
Ummm found a great swinging partner and im shocked to say i love a mans nipple peirced and someone i can have a good giggle with wink .....oh and he can please me none stop redface

what a very lucky man he must be?????? :twisted:
Ok, I'll answer this one sensibly now..........
cock size! :giggle:
Nah, personality is the most attractive thing to me... engage my brain and you'll turn me on. I agree with Ice Pie's posting. I can do random but the best times are with some I click with socially.
Good foreplay and a tender approach do wonders in the build up to bed time. I can't shag someone who is a complete idiot once I have realised they are a complete fool because it's just a huge turn off. If I like someone for who they are then it really doesn't matter what they have in their pants and if they don't know how to use it then I'm more likely to spend time exploring until its fan-bloody-tastic! And occasionally there's someone who you tease about being crap but really he was very very good but if you didn't consider him a friend you couldn't do that. ;)
passionkiss
Gem. x
i agree with little gem here.....
to me i would rather play with people that i have had chemistry with and that means both socially and being attractive to.
I have done one offs but i must admit i havent enjoyed them as mutch. I prefer the cheeky flirting and then see what goes from there.
i didnt know you women were looking for small cocks smile
MikeC