Why are so many people BI?

24 Sep 2008

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Im not sure this is a question that can be answered.
IMO, everyone is at the very least a little bit curious and those who say they arent are telling porkies

I have the curiosity to find out about it, but not the curiosity to act upon it!
Does this mean I am telling porkies then? :lol:
Yep! :lol:

24 Sep 2008

Thanks Drnwalls
Understand what your saying, it was the way some come across as basically saying its ok to use other men for sexual gratification, but not women, whereas in most fem - fem encounters there’s usually an attraction involved or who they are as a person rather than what’s between there legs (pardon the pun) that’s what was confusing.

24 Sep 2008

Why am I bi? Because I can be! As with men though for me to has to be about mutual attraction and fun!

24 Sep 2008

Quote by Drnwalls
I would say that it's a bit like using a vibrator. Fortunately there isn't a label in the same way as 'bisexual' for people who gain sexual satisfaction from using one.
If you use a vibrator, does that mean you are 'attracted' to vibrators??
Do you see where i'm coming from??
Just because you've fu@#ed yourself with a cucumber it doesn't make you a vegetarian!!!

Oh eck… I am so glad that there isn’t all them you…would it give us letters after our names???? Lol….
‘Willow ” lol……
rolleyes

:roll:
Sorry I am in one of them moods again!….. wink

But yes to be honest I got a little confused with what the posts were saying but then you went on to say….

Quote by Drnwalls
I think your confusion perhaps stems from mis-understanding the two different things, bisexual sub men and bisexual dom men.
From what I have said here and earlier does that make sense?

Yes it did help this lady too thanks ;)
kiss

:kiss:

24 Sep 2008

Quote by Sassy-Seren
What's selfish about it? I wanted to try it for the first time in private without feeling like I was putting on a show just for him. I never said if I liked it that he wouldn't be involved at any future meets, just the first one.

Now I can agree with this as this is something i've always said. I would want to take time to get comfortable with doing something new for the first time without being 'gawped' at. We've not yet got to the point where we've found someone to do this with but *Him* completely understands why I would want to do it that way.
Of course it's not cheating if you have your partners consent. It's exactly the same as swinging if you prefer to swing seperate to your partner. As long as everyone knows what's going on and gives consent then why the hell would it be cheating?
*Her*

24 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven
Im not sure this is a question that can be answered.
IMO, everyone is at the very least a little bit curious and those who say they arent are telling porkies

I have the curiosity to find out about it, but not the curiosity to act upon it!
Does this mean I am telling porkies then? :lol:
Yep! :lol:
O heck :lol:
I had better stem my curiosity in future! :lol:
I had better not start the new thread I was going to ask would you have sex with a rugby team, you might think I would like to! redface

24 Sep 2008

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Im not sure this is a question that can be answered.
IMO, everyone is at the very least a little bit curious and those who say they arent are telling porkies

I have the curiosity to find out about it, but not the curiosity to act upon it!
Does this mean I am telling porkies then? :lol:
Yep! :lol:
O heck :lol:
I had better stem my curiosity in future! :lol:
I had better not start the new thread I was going to ask would you have sex with a rugby team, you might think I would like to! redface

Why not? It might be fun but then you'd not know unless you tried it!

24 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven
Im not sure this is a question that can be answered.
IMO, everyone is at the very least a little bit curious and those who say they arent are telling porkies

I have the curiosity to find out about it, but not the curiosity to act upon it!
Does this mean I am telling porkies then? :lol:
Yep! :lol:
O heck :lol:
I had better stem my curiosity in future! :lol:
I had better not start the new thread I was going to ask would you have sex with a rugby team, you might think I would like to! redface

Why not? It might be fun but then you'd not know unless you tried it!
My motto is never say never! :twisted: :lol:

24 Sep 2008

I'd say I'm bi-curious cos I've not 'experienced' a woman... yet :twisted:
I find girl on girl V V sexy and have often found myself playing due to the thought of it.
I can't say that I am bi until I've experienced it though as you never know.... watch this space lol

24 Sep 2008

I'm bi cos i like boobies :inlove: :inlove: :inlove::inlove: :inlove:
silly

hwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar:
Maz xxxxxxxxxxx

24 Sep 2008

Quote by mazandden
I'm bi cos i like boobies :inlove: :inlove: :inlove::inlove: :inlove:
hwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar:
Maz xxxxxxxxxxx

can we check this out..... next time wor lass and I are in Edinburgh ?

24 Sep 2008

Quote by splendid_
I'm bi cos i like boobies :inlove: :inlove: :inlove::inlove: :inlove:
hwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar:
Maz xxxxxxxxxxx

can we check this out..... next time wor lass and I are in Edinburgh ?
I thought you'd never ask!!!!
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm boooooooobies.........
:inlove: :inlove: :inlove::inlove:

24 Sep 2008

Minxy,
Best of both worlds for me ....... because I fancy men and women. But, there does have to be an attraction ... quality, not quantity if you see my meaning.
Unfortunately, there are some women who will do it to please their men and we did end up with a couple like this. It was instantly obvious and not nice. How would you feel going down on a women, whilst she's laying there looking at hubbie saying 'Look at me I'm doing it'!!! Instant killer of the moment and evening!
Having said that, we've not found that to be the norm.
As to why I'm bi .... who knows, but I do know that I have the freedom to be me, and that's fantastic!
Mrs 777 xxxxxxxx

24 Sep 2008

LOL!!!!
Both men and womens bodies are marvellous in their own way! mmmm!!

Quote by mazandden
I'm bi cos i like boobies :inlove: :inlove: :inlove::inlove: :inlove:
hwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar: :phwoar:
Maz xxxxxxxxxxx

24 Sep 2008

Personally I just thought it's because you've just increased your options by 50% and that's a great improvement in the odds by anyone's money biggrin

25 Sep 2008

Quote by Bjlips2008
Both men and womens bodies are marvellous in their own way! mmmm!!

You wouldn't be thinking that if you saw this old busted up, knackered thing I have!
As for the topic,
I don't think there is one single definite reason 'why' people are bi, it's very much an individual thing, some just are, some think they should be, some are because they can be and it improves the options.
I'd be interested if a hypothetical situation arose where bi-sexuality was banned, which gender would be chosen...would it be the same or the opposite?
I have always wondered (and I mean no offence here, it's just the meanderings of my tortured mind) how many of those who are bi-sexual (especially male bi sexuals) are using it to be 'socially acceptable' (marriage, kids, etc etc) whilst still indulging their true sexuality as well.
Of course, being a hetrosexual man, I could have no real understanding of bi-sexuality, I have no problem with it as I'm very much for personal choice, that's my stance really.....whatever rings yer bell.