Why do men.....

Is seeing the pleasure on a cammers face make the viewing experience more pleasurable?

3 Jun 2006

Let me start by saying that this isn't a moan or whinge as I'm genuinely interested to know about this and also guys may learn a thing or two to help them succeed.
My questions:
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'?
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure?
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My opinion - well I must admit to watching an attractive man pleasuring himself does arouse me. However when I click on cams whilst in chat (I'm just nosey!) I stumble upon guy after guy sitting alone playing with himself. Really all I see is a juddery image of a hand going up and down â€“ they all start to look the same.
Only once or twice have I seen a guy showing his face as well as his penis. I do understand that for some they donâ€™t wish to be identified etc but wouldnâ€™t it be much easier for me (and others) to pop a porn film in the DVD player where you see everything and get audio?
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3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam? Because they want to
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'? The same reason as others don't show their face anominity

3 Jun 2006

Sheddy!

I could have thought of those answer meself! Seriously I'm genuinely interested. :shock:

3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Let me start by saying that this isn't a moan or whinge as I'm genuinely interested to know about this and also guys may learn a thing or two to help them succeed.
My questions:
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'?
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure?
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My opinion - well I must admit to watching an attractive man pleasuring himself does arouse me. However when I click on cams whilst in chat (I'm just nosey!) I stumble upon guy after guy sitting alone playing with himself. Really all I see is a juddery image of a hand going up and down â€“ they all start to look the same.
Only once or twice have I seen a guy showing his face as well as his penis. I do understand that for some they donâ€™t wish to be identified etc but wouldnâ€™t it be much easier for me (and others) to pop a porn film in the DVD player where you see everything and get audio?

oh ohhhhhh good questions!!! lol

I've really quite taken to popping into the chatroom now when i'm bored and although i hated the idea at first when the cam facility first came in, I have to admit, I like seeing people on cam - but I mean their faces. If i stumble on a wank-cam i turn it off and go look at another one lol

I just dont 'get' why guys play on cam - or women either. I find no pleasure at all in cock/ pussy cam because there's nothing behind it so to speak. I'm one of these boring people who goes in the chatroom to chat redface

and to me, there's just nothing worse than close up, cam balanced on two books and a packet of biscuits wank-cam lol

I havent seen anyone yet on cam where they play and you can see their face at the same time - but If I did, that would definately keep me interested. I love seeing womens faces as they play, its horny as hell - guys too, but not as much as the women. I'd rather see it in person of course, but when needs must lol

3 Jun 2006

This baffles me too Kiss_Me.... I always show my face (to start) lol

Quote by Kiss_Me
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam? Because they are exhibitionists or have a big willy and enjoy the affirmation?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'? Because they are partnered, married or just damn ugly?
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure? Faces/facial expressions actually do more/as much for me than looking at genital shots... it's all about enjoyment and I've never seen a willy/foo foo (no giggling at the back please) smile :P

3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Sheddy!
I could have thought of those answer meself! Seriously I'm genuinely interested. :shock:

In all honesty I can't answer it seriously as it's not my thing so to speak, but it's a broad church is SH and what doesn't apeal to some almost certainly apeals to others biggrin

3 Jun 2006

flippin hell i think thats the shortest and most uninformative post ive ever seen from the shed! did you have a late night last night or something?
sort your head out and get back here with the usual response! :P
in edit....ah i see you already have lol

as for my opinion.....if i click on a cam and all i see is a cockrel i close it down straight away, im really not interested whats in a fellas pants until ive seen his face, smile, build and probably dress sense!
personally i go on cam quite a bit, face only as im not interested in people watching me play but i realise some peole like this so its each to their own!

3 Jun 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
flippin hell i think thats the shortest and most uninformative post ive ever seen from the shed! did you have a late night last night or something?
sort your head out and get back here with the usual response! :P
in edit....ah i see you already have

:lol2:
and yes it was late(ish) my last post on SH was at 11:45 so I guess that counts as late lol

3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'?
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure?

1) I have absolutely no idea whatsoever....... its silly isn't it......... especially when theres nothing really erotic going on to provide .......in my opinion............. anything to wank over.
2)I think there are a number of reasons for this..
a) because they labour under the misapprehension that someone wants to see their willy....
b)they are embarrased beacause they arent comfortable with their behaviour
c) because they know in any other arena other than a chatroom doing such things is infact illegal....(so therefore as not to be identified..)
3) of course the face would provide enjoyment... but i suppose that "beggars can't be chosers".............

3 Jun 2006

I'm off to sunbath and will be back later to see if Sheddy has woken up yet (kidding honey passionkiss

).
Darkfire: I totally agree with everything you said! :thumbup: hump

Bloke2005: Thanks for answering - you're naughty but I like it! :twisted:
sexkittenhfx: Yes that was an unsually short post from Sheddy - maybe we should ask him what kind of boobs he prefers? Bound to provoke a more lengthy response! wink

Ta ta for now!
xxxxxxx

3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
sexkittenhfx: Yes that was an unsually short post from Sheddy - maybe we should ask him what kind of boobs he prefers? Bound to provoke a more lengthy response!

Sadly the answer to that question is equally as short .............................................................
All of them lol

3 Jun 2006

1) Why do some men masturbate on cam? Because they get turned on by people watching ?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'? The moving cock shot but hard to see the face AND cock at the same time but then it's the element of anonimity too
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure? Personally, like Darkfire, I'd rather see her face than her pussy. There's nothing sexier than looking into a woman's face as she's getting there although some women ( and men ) don't like to be looked at as they climax.

3 Jun 2006

Quote by sheddy
Sheddy!
I could have thought of those answer meself! Seriously I'm genuinely interested. :shock:

In all honesty I can't answer it seriously as it's not my thing so to speak, but it's a broad church is SH and what doesn't apeal to some almost certainly apeals to others biggrin

I have to vouch for Sheddy here- (no surprise there !!) :smitten:
he isn't in to being a voyeur at all.... even when I offered and begged to put on a private show for him :shock: :shock: . He wasn't interested.
dunno

3 Jun 2006

Quote by splendid33
he isn't in to being a voyeur at all.... even when I offered and begged to put on a private show for him :shock: :shock: . He wasn't interested.

In all honesty you know full well I'd love for you to do so. But whilst I'm not shy at being a voyeur, I am cam shy I'll stick my ugly mug on cam as I think its nice to be able to put a face to the posts as such. But when it comes to viewing other peoples cams I always feel as I'm intruding and to be honest it's shyness that puts me off. Hell I sat in the chat room the other night with fook knows how many sexy ladies with there cams on and quite frankly I love a good perve the same as the next guy. But I just never know what to say or do and I feel uncomfortable just looking at someones cam redface

3 Jun 2006

Quote by sheddy
In all honesty you know full well I'd love for you to do so. But whilst I'm not shy at being a voyeur, I am cam shy I'll stick my ugly mug on cam as I think its nice to be able to put a face to the posts as such. But when it comes to viewing other peoples cams I always feel as I'm intruding and to be honest it's shyness that puts me off. Hell I sat in the chat room the other night with fook knows how many sexy ladies with there cams on and quite frankly I love a good perve the same as the next guy. But I just never know what to say or do and I feel uncomfortable just looking at someones cam

:therethere: Awwwwwww Sheddy you are so lovely!

3 Jun 2006

I have a post here on this subject
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/76715.html?highlight=
But basicly what i do on cam depends on several factors,

Who else is on cam
What are those i'm watching doing
My mood (physical and mental)
The object of the room (ie Title)

But on cam i've sat there like a lemon or masturbated (with or without face showing) again depending on the above.

3 Jun 2006

I have a thing about hands, nice sexy hands. They read like a book.
So I look at the hands as well as the obvious. lol

3 Jun 2006

expanding on sheddy's point . . .
why do some men wank on cam? cos it's a cam room, and some people get off on the idea that they're being watched, and some people actually get off on watching it! no, it's true! some people actually click into guys wanking! ;) now i know that might not float everyone's boat, but it floats some people's! each to their own, eh? noone is asking you to click in and watch it ((( which i believe you need to do to see it? ))) it's simply there for those that do want to see it?
why don't they show their faces? cos this is an open website, and if you look at just about every photo in the ad section, or many of those on cam, people ((( men, women, and couples! ))) tend not to show their faces where all and sundry can see it?
HTH! ;)
neil x x x ;)

3 Jun 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
expanding on sheddy's point . . .
why do some men wank on cam? cos it's a cam room, and some people get off on the idea that they're being watched, and some people actually get off on watching it! no, it's true! some people actually click into guys wanking! ;) now i know that might not float everyone's boat, but it floats some people's! each to their own, eh? noone is asking you to click in and watch it ((( which i believe you need to do to see it? ))) it's simply there for those that do want to see it?
why don't they show their faces? cos this is an open website, and if you look at just about every photo in the ad section, or many of those on cam, people ((( men, women, and couples! ))) tend not to show their faces where all and sundry can see it?
HTH! ;)
neil x x x ;)

Ello Neil - thanks for your reply! I've yet to chat to a woman (or guy) that gets really aroused just watching a hand bobbling up and down on a super-close shot so I'm still at a loss. wink

3 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
expanding on sheddy's point . . .
why do some men wank on cam? cos it's a cam room, and some people get off on the idea that they're being watched, and some people actually get off on watching it! no, it's true! some people actually click into guys wanking! ;) now i know that might not float everyone's boat, but it floats some people's! each to their own, eh? noone is asking you to click in and watch it ((( which i believe you need to do to see it? ))) it's simply there for those that do want to see it?
why don't they show their faces? cos this is an open website, and if you look at just about every photo in the ad section, or many of those on cam, people ((( men, women, and couples! ))) tend not to show their faces where all and sundry can see it?
HTH! ;)
neil x x x

Ello Neil - thanks for your reply! I've yet to chat to a woman (or guy) that gets really aroused just watching a hand bobbling up and down on a super-close shot so I'm still at a loss. wink

maybe i should introduce you to someone then? lol

;)
it's all a matter of personal choice isn't it? just cos it doesn't appeal to you, or anyone else you've chatted to, or anyone else who's posted here, well that doesn't mean a thing in the grand scheme of things? dunno

3 Jun 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
expanding on sheddy's point . . .
why do some men wank on cam? cos it's a cam room, and some people get off on the idea that they're being watched, and some people actually get off on watching it! no, it's true! some people actually click into guys wanking! ;) now i know that might not float everyone's boat, but it floats some people's! each to their own, eh? noone is asking you to click in and watch it ((( which i believe you need to do to see it? ))) it's simply there for those that do want to see it?
why don't they show their faces? cos this is an open website, and if you look at just about every photo in the ad section, or many of those on cam, people ((( men, women, and couples! ))) tend not to show their faces where all and sundry can see it?
HTH! ;)
neil x x x

Ello Neil - thanks for your reply! I've yet to chat to a woman (or guy) that gets really aroused just watching a hand bobbling up and down on a super-close shot so I'm still at a loss. wink

maybe i should introduce you to someone then? lol

even if it only appeals to a tiny minority ((( and i don't think that's the case ))) it's all fine and dandy,, cos it appeals to some, for whatever reason? as sheddy said, this is a broad church, and long may it remain so?
neil x x x ;)
Exactly and I couldn't agree more - hence why I am genuinely interested and I'm inviting open discussion. I do understand that people have other desires and things that turn them on.... yes it's a broad church and I would also hope that applies to being able to ask questions.
I think that saying people can do it because they can and that a few may actually enjoy is rather stating the obvious lol! wink

I am not adverse to people camming as I do it myself from time to time - I'm just asking about what seems to be the trend on here and wondering why it is so.
:twisted:

3 Jun 2006

sorry kiss-me. stating-the-obvious is my middle name! ;) well actually . . . well . . . no i won't tell you what it is really cos it's a laughable middle bloody name so it is! evil

i'm sure a lot just think it's the way forward? i'm sure for a lot it's just how they get their kicks? i'm sure some get off on it cos they get a response, and both parties get some kind of sexual reward from it? i'm sure some try it cos they know others get a response, and hope to get a similiar reward?
i'm sure some have bought into the whole SH product, and take it as it's sold to them? the emphasis, IMO, seems to be on chat and camming, which ((( again, IMO! ))) spectacularly misses the point?
we could be here all day on reasons, but personally i think it's a pointless discussion ((( which begs the question . . . why am i posting again? confused

;) ))) cos it starts with a personal preference, and could be misconstrued as a suggestion that it's all a bit daft, and those who engage in it are a bit stupid, and i for one don't want to see the suggestion that others preferences are any less valid than anyone else's, cos that's a massive can of worms?
neil x x x ;)

3 Jun 2006

If I had a choice between the two (and I don't normally do camming).....I would rather watch the expression on the guys face than him fiddling with his thingymabob!! :twisted: wink

4 Jun 2006

Quote by neilinleeds
sorry kiss-me. stating-the-obvious is my middle name! ;) well actually . . . well . . . no i won't tell you what it is really cos it's a laughable middle bloody name so it is!
i'm sure a lot just think it's the way forward? i'm sure for a lot it's just how they get their kicks? i'm sure some get off on it cos they get a response, and both parties get some kind of sexual reward from it? i'm sure some try it cos they know others get a response, and hope to get a similiar reward?
i'm sure some have bought into the whole SH product, and take it as it's sold to them? the emphasis, IMO, seems to be on chat and camming, which ((( again, IMO! ))) spectacularly misses the point?
we could be here all day on reasons, but personally i think it's a pointless discussion ((( which begs the question . . . why am i posting again? ;) ))) cos it starts with a personal preference, and could be misconstrued as a suggestion that it's all a bit daft, and those who engage in it are a bit stupid, and i for one don't want to see the suggestion that others preferences are any less valid than anyone else's, cos that's a massive can of worms?
neil x x x ;)

Ello again Neil,
I want to apologise to anyone who has taken my personal opinion as belittling in any way. I've just found that with previous posts where people ask questions and don't also give their own view get panned lol!
Due to my very broad tastes I am an advocate of each to their own - whatever sparks your plug and all that? Nor did I intend to open any "can of worms" simply to open a discussion. I would never suggest that other peoples desires or actions were "stupid" and I would hope that there are others on here that know me well enough to know that.
Just IMHO there is a rather large disparity cam/chat wise of what men 'think' women want and what women 'seem' to really want. What's wrong with trying to discuss that and hopefully all can benefit and learn?
Have we seen anything that would suggest to the contrary?
xxx

5 Jun 2006

Morning all! biggrin

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

5 Jun 2006

Morning, kiss me!

5 Jun 2006

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Morning, kiss me!

5 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Morning, kiss me!

5 Jun 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Let me start by saying that this isn't a moan or whinge as I'm genuinely interested to know about this and also guys may learn a thing or two to help them succeed.
My questions:
1) Why do some men masturbate on cam?
2) Why do they only show their manhoodâ€™s'?
3) Do people who enjoy watching women masturbate only look at the finger in the pussy or do they derive enjoyment from seeing her facial expressions of pleasure?

1) I do not.
2) see 1.
3) I like to see the whole lady. The view of a finger in a pussy does nothing for me. Sex is a two way (or more) thing for me. Giving pleasure is a part of pleasure.

5 Jun 2006

I'll agree with what's been said above - it's all about personal preferences and the beauty of this place being so big is that it's also so diverse.
In addition I'm going to speculate that maybe you won't get a full range of views in this thread because only a small minority of members actively use the forum.
And here's where the speculation comes in. I'm thinking that maybe the people on the forum are the ones who like to get to know more about who the're swinging with e.g. more of an insite into the personalities and the sense of community - hence a larger % on here would want to see faces/ expressions etc.