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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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what a load of old tosh! never did i expect to see such ill informed complete bollox on a swinging site? however, since it's a serious question about a complex topic, i'll do my best to give a straight answer.
once upon a time, it was generally felt that male bi-sexuality was caused when smallboys were forced to play with their little sisters barbie dolls, when all they really wanted was an action man with eagle-eye action and those grippy bendy hands, preferably in a tank, or a hanglider, or some other piece of macho machinery that barbie wouldn't be seen dead in, even if it was all pink and sparklified . while i can understand the thinking behind that one, i don't give it all that much credence, and these days such glib explanations are out of favour.
nowadays, it is generally accepted that male bi-sexuality is almost exclusively the consequence of a public school education; more specifically, the kind of public school that makes you play rugger even though you are patently rubbish at it. all that a-scrummaging and a-rummaging, faces pressed against eachothers arses, hands up between eachothers legs, full body contact between hot, sweaty lads before they all pile naked into a one ginormous bath together is only ever gonna have one outcome, isn't it? it may take years, but it will come out eventually.
the reason they do this is so that the higher echelons of the Civil Service can maintain their traditional quota of camp, foppish, slightly limp-wristed types, in the mode of Quentin Crisp for example.
hope this helps? :?
neil x x x ;)
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hmmmmm...so bi-males are rugby players...ok
c'mon Neil, you're not giving us many options here...!
:P
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Firstly my (slightly tipsy) take on it....
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Firstly my (slightly tipsy) take on it....
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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Girls seem to enjoy it so much ... don't you want to know what your missing out on?
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Straight ((( irony!? :P ))) answer alright
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Why is it that some normal hetro men suddenly decide that they want to suck and play with another man and have one on one sex ..is it boredom or something else ??
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this topic title really makes me feel uneasy.....
because I think if you had substituted the word "bi" for "gay" and said the same thing..... the person would have been flamed up to the high heavens
:wink:
sean xxxxxxxx
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isn't it is really not a case of "becomming" as such, but more a case of just "being and never realising"..
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Does anyone really GIVE a shit anymore.
Anyone other than those sad b'stards who are so hetero that beating a guy with a pink shirt into hospital gives them a hard-on.
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For me it was more a result of years of coming to terms with the fact that whenever I was trying to identify as staright I'd be fancying men, and whenever I was identifying as gay I would be fancying women.
Bisexuality was frowned upon my everyone I talked to - to some of my straight friends it was queer and that was bad, to my more enlightened gay friendly straight friends bisexuality just meant you were undecided or greedy, and to my gay friends, particularly during the time I was an out and proud gay man, bisexuality smacked of undecided, greedy and being a traitor to the cause. They were only casually bi-phobic, but enough so I would never admit to it.
So, I was gay, but started to fancy women, so I became straight, but that didn't work out and I was obviously in denial so I started to identify as gay again - this patternn repeated itself a couple of times until I finally decided enough was enough - I obviously fancied both genders and it was time to face that and my friends would have to accept it if they were going to accept me for who I actually was.
It was a lot easier than I thought it would be - the people who had made the casually bi-phobic comments in the past were ok about it - perhaps times had changed or perhaps I just read a lot more into thier comments than was actually there.
I ran wild and became very promiscuous for a short time, sleeping with girl after boy after girl after boy, but I think that was more to do with the 'kid in the candy store' syndrome than anything else - I could, so I did - there were a couple of years when I would be snogging at least three or four different people everytime I went out, and would be bringing a different person home at the end of almost every night out, too. I have settled down somewhat since then, though.
So, it's not about the MMF fantasy for me (though any offers would be accepted... :twisted: ) - it's just about the fact I fancy both genders. I have the hots for Johnny Depp as well as Angelina Jolie, so to speak. It's just a part of who I am, same as if I was still identifying as gay.
I do admit to referring to myself as 'queer', but that's another topic, I think.