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would any of you's be put off by a disabled women
Quote by teppic
disabilities come in many shapes and forms
welcome to S/H and have fun
I have a disability i am deaf and therefore have to wear a hearing aid. Whenever i have told anyone on here ( i havent told that many up til now) i have not been treated any differently
Im sure it will be the same for you lucylocket you will find the people on here very friendly and openminded about everthing. Thats why like it here so much :D
:welcome: to the site and i hope you find what you are looking for here.
Carol
Sexlightened
Hiyas and welcome to the site.
As I have said in my previous post.
Peeps that know me off of here know I am disabled.
It has never got in the way.
You will find you will, on the whole, meet really genuine peeps xx
I use a wheelchair at times and have gone to a large munch in it.
I definately found out who my true friends were.
In the case of the others well they really weren't bothering with in my opinion. xx
Have fun on this site the pair of you xx
As I have said in my previous post.
Peeps that know me off of here know I am disabled.
It has never got in the way.
You will find you will, on the whole, meet really genuine peeps xx
I use a wheelchair at times and have gone to a large munch in it.
I definately found out who my true friends were.
In the case of the others well they really weren't bothering with in my opinion. xx
Have fun on this site the pair of you xx
i take people as i find then, i wouldn't judge someone for there ability or lack of them!..
the way i see it, a wheel chair doesnt change a persons personality, and that in my book is the most important thing about a person.
so no, it wouldn't stop me meeting a person if they were disabled
Jiggle
Well said... same here.. my best friend from back home was in a wheelchair and she could get around better than i could most of the time... we used to bet to see who could get to a certain place first with the loser having to uhh lick the wounds so to speak (no pun intended) but it was normally me in the 2nd place.
:welcome: to the site... i am a new poster but have watched the site for about 2 1/2 yrs... since i came to the UK.. and as previously stated everyone here is pretty much above board.... just have a few that it doesnt take long for them to get the boot that you have to over look
the way i see it, a wheel chair doesnt change a persons personality, and that in my book is the most important thing about a person.
so no, it wouldn't stop me meeting a person if they were disabled
Jiggle
Well said... same here.. my best friend from back home was in a wheelchair and she could get around better than i could most of the time... we used to bet to see who could get to a certain place first with the loser having to uhh lick the wounds so to speak (no pun intended) but it was normally me in the 2nd place.
:welcome: to the site... i am a new poster but have watched the site for about 2 1/2 yrs... since i came to the UK.. and as previously stated everyone here is pretty much above board.... just have a few that it doesnt take long for them to get the boot that you have to over look
Quote by lucylocket
hi all
im actually a disabled girl 36 married with 1 son
we have always fancied swinging but thought people would be put off
i had a car crash in 1992 and has left me wheelchair bound but its only my back thats injuired not my mind
im finding it very differcult to find a suitable couple in the north east area
i dont no why
people tend to back away when they hear wheelchair
thanks for listening
varna xxxx
:welcome:
Hopefully people will want you for what & who you are regardless of your disability.
Perhaps they are embarrassed...but that is their problem not yours :!:
I do hope you find a suitable match.
Good luck & Best wishes
right i think i may get myself into trouble here but u know me speak my gob and spend half my life with my foot in it lol
to me theres two kind of people that use this site
1 Real genuine swingers
2 People after a quick shag
to me a real genuine swinger will always take time to meet for a drink and get to know u regardless, and no that does not mean they will have sex with anyone who they get to know, but the point i am trying to make is they will at least get to know you, ie at a munch etc
Where are many people after a quick shag seem to go purely on looks and if u don't meet their requirement will not even talk to u.
I guess the point i am trying to make is being in a wheel chair u may well find it harder to meet but anyone worth meeting will meet u
to me theres two kind of people that use this site
1 Real genuine swingers
2 People after a quick shag
to me a real genuine swinger will always take time to meet for a drink and get to know u regardless, and no that does not mean they will have sex with anyone who they get to know, but the point i am trying to make is they will at least get to know you, ie at a munch etc
Where are many people after a quick shag seem to go purely on looks and if u don't meet their requirement will not even talk to u.
I guess the point i am trying to make is being in a wheel chair u may well find it harder to meet but anyone worth meeting will meet u
Sex God
I guess I'm gonna swim against the tide on this one a bit. It would probably be easier to keep me gob shut, but I think the question you've raised warrents an answer and an answer thats as honest as I can make it.
Clearly I'm lucky cos I have no disability, I have no family members that have a disability and therefore have little conception of living with or being in contact with a disabled person. The previous posters for the most part have said that it shouldn't make two bobs worth of difference and that for them, it doesn't. I applaud those posters for that attitude and that level of understanding, however I can't hand on heart answer in the same way, because in all honesty I just don't know
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Now just to compound things and to make it sound even worse :doh: ....and like I said I don't really know.....I guess a lot would depend on the type and level of disability, I reckon that there would be a level of disability that would make me cautious, not because of an aversion to it, but more because I wouldn't know how to handle it. Someone else said on this thread that if someone is embarrassed or feels awkward about another person then thats their problem.....too fucking right it is, I take ownership of that and recognise that, but it still don't make it go away, I guess what makes it go away is regular contact with a disability, which then erodes any feelings of awkwardness and helps those of us not exposed to a handicap to better understand it and accept it for what it is.
This is a real difficult subject to be open and honest about because what ever you say it's a struggle to make it sound anything other than a prejudice, but it's the same type of prejudice I've got towards an apple over an orange, I'm happier with the apple cos it's simpler and easier to deal with, fuck all wrong with an orange other than my laziness and therefore unwillingness to deal with it. Now that strictly speaking is a preference, but lets face it a preference is a prejudice, it's just interpruted as being milder.
I would have loved to post the same as the other guys and say.....yep don't make a jot of difference to me, but that would be wrong and I have to say, a tad transparent and in my mind, a tad insulting to the thread starter, so I've made a shite attempt at giving my view as I reckon it would be, trouble is I still aint sure.
I'm trusting this post to you folks to read the lines, read between the lines and to take from it my dilema and my honesty.
..............davej who wanted to say far more, but getting hampered by himself......
Clearly I'm lucky cos I have no disability, I have no family members that have a disability and therefore have little conception of living with or being in contact with a disabled person. The previous posters for the most part have said that it shouldn't make two bobs worth of difference and that for them, it doesn't. I applaud those posters for that attitude and that level of understanding, however I can't hand on heart answer in the same way, because in all honesty I just don't know
.Now just to compound things and to make it sound even worse :doh: ....and like I said I don't really know.....I guess a lot would depend on the type and level of disability, I reckon that there would be a level of disability that would make me cautious, not because of an aversion to it, but more because I wouldn't know how to handle it. Someone else said on this thread that if someone is embarrassed or feels awkward about another person then thats their problem.....too fucking right it is, I take ownership of that and recognise that, but it still don't make it go away, I guess what makes it go away is regular contact with a disability, which then erodes any feelings of awkwardness and helps those of us not exposed to a handicap to better understand it and accept it for what it is.
This is a real difficult subject to be open and honest about because what ever you say it's a struggle to make it sound anything other than a prejudice, but it's the same type of prejudice I've got towards an apple over an orange, I'm happier with the apple cos it's simpler and easier to deal with, fuck all wrong with an orange other than my laziness and therefore unwillingness to deal with it. Now that strictly speaking is a preference, but lets face it a preference is a prejudice, it's just interpruted as being milder.
I would have loved to post the same as the other guys and say.....yep don't make a jot of difference to me, but that would be wrong and I have to say, a tad transparent and in my mind, a tad insulting to the thread starter, so I've made a shite attempt at giving my view as I reckon it would be, trouble is I still aint sure.
I'm trusting this post to you folks to read the lines, read between the lines and to take from it my dilema and my honesty.
..............davej who wanted to say far more, but getting hampered by himself......
Hi Verna
Anyone who thinks that a woman in a wheelchair doesn't have feelings, desires, and a sexual appetite is crazy
I bet you are a very sexy woman, who has a great time sexually
Have a great time on the site, and I hope you have lots of fun
if I was in your neck of the woods, I would certainly like to meet you
David
xxx
Anyone who thinks that a woman in a wheelchair doesn't have feelings, desires, and a sexual appetite is crazy
I bet you are a very sexy woman, who has a great time sexually
Have a great time on the site, and I hope you have lots of fun
if I was in your neck of the woods, I would certainly like to meet you
David
xxx
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
Dave. You can't be honest if you are not really sure what you want to say, Try again.
It should be able to to be said in one line.
I'm very clear about what I want to say Duncan.....I just said it and furthermore I thought hard about saying it, cos going against the flow ain't easy.
I don't understand your comment about it being said in one line, but if it's an inference that what I said is a screen for a more sinister set of beliefs or views then your way off the mark.
Hi there! and welcome to the site! :welcome:
i agree with dave on this as i myself have never come into contact with people with a dissability, though i am a very caring person, i wouldnt want to ebarrass myself or the person or make them in anyway uncomfortable.I hope i havent come across as offensive as it certainly isnt meant that way, good luck and have fun on here love peppsxxxx
i agree with dave on this as i myself have never come into contact with people with a dissability, though i am a very caring person, i wouldnt want to ebarrass myself or the person or make them in anyway uncomfortable.I hope i havent come across as offensive as it certainly isnt meant that way, good luck and have fun on here love peppsxxxx
Hi there, Welcome and happy swinging 
Having been out with a woman with a disability (deafness) for 3 years, I can honestly say that it wouldnt put me off. A disability is only a hindrance if you let it be. I for one am looking forward to meeting everyone at some point, and with 20000+ it's gonna be a busy time
Having been out with a woman with a disability (deafness) for 3 years, I can honestly say that it wouldnt put me off. A disability is only a hindrance if you let it be. I for one am looking forward to meeting everyone at some point, and with 20000+ it's gonna be a busy time
Hiya and welcome to the site.
I could never be a hypocrit and turn away from anyone if they were disabled. I am disabled myself , I had a very bad accident aboard a fisheries research ship 8 years ago which has left me with 2 compressed and prolapsed disks at the base of my spine , left cruciate knee ligament damage and right ankle tendon damage. I have not been able to work for almost 6 years now and my weight has gone up ( not grossly overweight but but still 4st heavier than I should be , i'm 6ft2 and built like the side of a house lol ) but since I got my dog i'm more active than ever.
I was a government scientist for 9 years , a biker , liked my fast cars lol , enjoyed going out getting drunk and was a bit of a player lol. I haven't changed inside ( ok I can't have a bike / fast car / drink too much due to painkillers but lol ) but a lot of people look at me as if i'm someone to look down on , ridicule or they think that i'm mentally disabled too.
The town I live in is still a LONG way short of being in the 21st century as far as people attitudes are concerned , the classic is that gay men are likely to be harrassed even attacked if they are open in public but lesbians are cheered by the same blokes that harrass gay guys ... go figure. We are all human ( well apart from me ... i'm half blue whale lol ) , we all have feelings and its who we are that counts not what we look like or what ever problems we have with our physical bodies.
I hope you find people that accept you for who you are 1st and I hope you have a lot of fun soon.
Davie
I could never be a hypocrit and turn away from anyone if they were disabled. I am disabled myself , I had a very bad accident aboard a fisheries research ship 8 years ago which has left me with 2 compressed and prolapsed disks at the base of my spine , left cruciate knee ligament damage and right ankle tendon damage. I have not been able to work for almost 6 years now and my weight has gone up ( not grossly overweight but but still 4st heavier than I should be , i'm 6ft2 and built like the side of a house lol ) but since I got my dog i'm more active than ever.
I was a government scientist for 9 years , a biker , liked my fast cars lol , enjoyed going out getting drunk and was a bit of a player lol. I haven't changed inside ( ok I can't have a bike / fast car / drink too much due to painkillers but lol ) but a lot of people look at me as if i'm someone to look down on , ridicule or they think that i'm mentally disabled too.
The town I live in is still a LONG way short of being in the 21st century as far as people attitudes are concerned , the classic is that gay men are likely to be harrassed even attacked if they are open in public but lesbians are cheered by the same blokes that harrass gay guys ... go figure. We are all human ( well apart from me ... i'm half blue whale lol ) , we all have feelings and its who we are that counts not what we look like or what ever problems we have with our physical bodies.
I hope you find people that accept you for who you are 1st and I hope you have a lot of fun soon.
Davie
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As someone who had a partner who was in and out of a wheelchair for a long time may I say It didn't bother us. We still found friends with the same interests and had a happy time together.
Welcome to the site and its true when they say :-
IT'S ALL IN THE MIND LOL
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:
As someone who had a partner who was in and out of a wheelchair for a long time may I say It didn't bother us. We still found friends with the same interests and had a happy time together.
Welcome to the site and its true when they say :-
IT'S ALL IN THE MIND LOL
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:
