If a couple picked you up, would you be shocked. Would you say yes!
I would say from my cpl (cough) of years experience of being on the site,that lots of single guys would not only be shocked,but would run away. 😀
A lot of people join here thinking its for them but when push comes to feck,they go all shy and realise its not the fantasy they had in their head.
And i dont mean just singles but couples to.
Ok.. some do join and swing and some even continue it for years.
I joined as a couple a few years ago,then split up with that partner to be a single guy.
Had great fun as one,going to socials etc and made life long friends and didn't bottle it when I got lucky.
Then I met my present partner on here a good few years ago and have been a couple since then.
This site isn't for everyone but if everyone took the same outlook in life as everyone else,it would be a boring world.
Many years ago, I was staying in a pub whilst working away, I was in my late twenties, and there was a couple who used to come into the pub every early doors after work. We were on nodding terms at first, but then the husband asked me to join them for a drink. Wether by chance or purpose, the conversation turned to fantasies, and his wife said she'd always fancied a threesome, he turned to me and said ' You'd be up for that wouldn't you?' Your first reaction having never had this happen to you before, is to panic, but looking at his wife, [she was fit] and knowing that you were being given the chance to 'sample her delights' I had to say yes. Needless to say we had a very enjoyable Saturday afternoon. A few years later, I had another encounter with a very nice couple, who I'd been chatting to on the internet for a while, and of course now, it wouldn't bother me at all if a couple picked me up. Hence why I'm here!
It happened to me - sort of. The guy did all the running, with a purpose in mind. I re-tell it in the story which is as accurate as I believe it happened.
https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/stories/threesome/the-odd-couple
For bi-sexual fans
I had a couple come onto me as I walked past their campervan which was parked up on one of the roads off Berwick St, I was a bit cautious but our fun was interrupted by the police walking down the end of the alley.
We ended up going to a dogging site near Forest Gate.
First but not the last time, lol
I would be very flattered to be asked, wouldn't it be a wonderful world if women could just say to a guy, I find you very attractive would you like to fuck, the stupid courtship dance has always done my head in and if you don't want a relationship then there is only sites like this, but as a member above said, there are a great deal of time wasters on here and other sites, who just want to flash and be told they are lovely or who want to play a stupid run around game. at my age I have seen it , done it and got the T shirt, but now I watch all the younger people doing the same, because at my age no one would want me anyway.
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I would be very flattered to be asked, wouldn't it be a wonderful world if women could just say to a guy, I find you very attractive would you like to fuck, the stupid courtship dance has always done my head in and if you don't want a relationship then there is only sites like this, but as a member above said, there are a great deal of time wasters on here and other sites, who just want to flash and be told they are lovely or who want to play a stupid run around game. at my age I have seen it , done it and got the T shirt, but now I watch all the younger people doing the same, because at my age no one would want me anyway.
Lisa will happily say 'we need a bed'
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I would say from my cpl (cough) of years experience of being on the site,that lots of single guys would not only be shocked,but would run away. 😀
A lot of people join here thinking its for them but when push comes to feck,they go all shy and realise its not the fantasy they had in their head.
And i dont mean just singles but couples to.
Ok.. some do join and swing and some even continue it for years.
I joined as a couple a few years ago,then split up with that partner to be a single guy.
Had great fun as one,going to socials etc and made life long friends and didn't bottle it when I got lucky.
Then I met my present partner on here a good few years ago and have been a couple since then.
This site isn't for everyone but if everyone took the same outlook in life as everyone else,it would be a boring world.
It would be a boring world. That first step is a scary one.
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It would be a boring world. That first step is a scary one.
That is 100% correct. My wife and I did some serious swinging for about three years over ten years ago now, and maybe one in ten actually worked, we got sick of people asking to go out for a meal first to see if they were comfortable, or inviting us to their homes and then they wanted to talk about anything but why we were there. I saved many situations by just getting naked and once they saw me nude they joined in, but god it was always hard work. The fantasy is never the same as reality, and I believe that for a lot on here it's the fantasy and the pretence that is the big turn on, a lot are just on here to be told how lovely they are, but in the real situation we found the bigest turn off was it was always what they wanted and never any consideration for what we may want. We found couples treated us as their playthings and that's not good. I think all meets should start with an honest and frank talk about what every person involved is looking for and only when everyone is comfortable it's good to go. Does anyone agree or disagree? I'm not talking about anyone on here, as I said this was years ago. Unfortunately, our health has not been good enough to play since we joined here, but I have chatted with some nice people and People have been very kind with their comments and likes of all our pictures and videos.