After over 25 years of happy, vanilla marriage my wife and I have decided that we are secure enough to open up our marriage and explore new horizons. We both enjoy flirting online with others, and are looking to make deeper connections. Online conversations are great too, and they don't necessarily mean that I want it to lead to a meet. I'm often found in the chat rooms, so come say hi to me there.

Because of our circumstances we are unable to meet as a couple, but are happy for the other to meet with whomever they choose. I would love to meet single women (or those in an open marriage), or couples to try to establish bonds, which will hopefully lead to physical meets.

I am very tactile and love to use my hands to 'wander' over a woman's body. Touch is important to make the connection real. The second thing I love to use is my tongue, and would use it everywhere you would like me to use it, giving you pleasure from toes to tits, and everything in between. I like a little pain (but not too much) and would love to meet a woman who likes the same. My private pics will show the other part of my body that I like to use... You won't be disappointed.

My meets need to be carefully planned, often a couple of months in advance and as much as I would like to, I cannot be spontaneous. My meets would have to be at your place, or in a hotel. I would be available for a full weekend for any meets, but they would only be able to take place on a weekend. I am available about once per month, but do have other interests apart from sex that I have to fit into those times.

Turn offs for me include smoking, and anything with too much pain. I am also not interested in connecting with married women unless your marriage is open and your husband is aware of what you are doing.

If you have managed to get to the end of this tome, then you should have an idea if I can press your buttons, and you can press mine.

I have a professional job and therefore would expect, and would guarantee discretion.