I've only been on the site for a couple of weeks, and already have some potential contacts. Once they see my body as I add photos, they may decide I'm not the right person for them, but the conversations have been respectful and I'm looking forward to making more contacts. I'm definitely interested in swingers clubs too, so will be looking into that option in the near future. I'm honest in my profile, and will add to it as I get more confidence in the type of swingers I would like to meet.
I'm reading all of the great advice from the more experienced members. Respect seems to be the key, as it is in real life.