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Every guy i've done it to has loved it big time, isn't it where your g-spot is?....lolx

Receiving it is ok but much more fun giving it & watching you groan...lolx

Kx

I love both, but yes, receiving was such a delightful shock the first time.

I went there once.

Having been on the site for a couple of months there are definitely couples who would do the running. Some of them are not to my taste, and it is a polite no thank you, but others are definitely interesting and warrant further conversation.

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We can make it closer

I'm looking forward to that being the case

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a smile 😇

Always a smile

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It is, but if you were close we may offer you a something

Unfortunately 256 miles away. That's quite a trek.

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I'm sure they will flood to you

I think i don't appeal to lots of people on this site, but I'd like to think that i have some attractive qualities to the right woman or couple.

Everyvtime ive given or received its been such a turn on. Would love to do it more.

Im still looking for the right woman to take my cock in her ass.

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Absolutely agree… the real turn on is when both give and receive with the same passion. Nothing beats that mutual pleasure, and I honestly enjoy it even more when I can make my partner melt in return.

I much prefer to give than to receive.

I've only been a member for a few weeks, but already have a number of promising contacts. I feel it's all about respect. One contact came from a post I put on the forum, others from respectful messages I sent them. I've sent a lot more messages than had replies, but I suspect most men will be in the same position. It's a buyers market so to speak, and you have to appeal to the other party before you get a contact.

I haven't worn anything in bed forever. If I'm camping I will usually keep my clothes on, maybe changing in the morning if it's warm enough. At home I couldn't imagine wearing anything. If I get cold, Mrs Alone is like a hot water bottle.

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I think a great deal of men think that if they find a naked man attractive or admit to it then they are gay. I don't think so, the human form is very pleasant to look at and has been designed to be so, question is do you look at a naked man and think what a lovely body, or what a nice cock he has, there is no problem with that, it's no different to appreciating beautiful art. maybe if you look at a naked man and get a throbbing dripping boner, you might consider yourself gay. I like to look at naked men, maybe to compare them to me, maybe just to see the incredible variations in us, but I make no judgment, I have straight friends on here who look at my pictures and say nice things, I have looked at naked men on here and said nice things, but I don't think that just because a man might be kind enough to say something nice about you because he noticed you on the gallery, it should immediately mean he wants to suck you or fuck you.

I think that sums up my feelings too. I don't generally look at men's profiles, but if they have looked at mine, then I might have a quick look. That's not so say I'm interested, but to see the variation in our bodies.

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Surely, that's the whole reason why we are on this site in the first place? Damn, if an attractive couple approached me and suggested I could join them, I wouldn't hesitate!!!

Absolutely, whether on this site, or in real life - up for it - hell yeah.

I've only been on the site for a couple of weeks, and already have some potential contacts. Once they see my body as I add photos, they may decide I'm not the right person for them, but the conversations have been respectful and I'm looking forward to making more contacts. I'm definitely interested in swingers clubs too, so will be looking into that option in the near future. I'm honest in my profile, and will add to it as I get more confidence in the type of swingers I would like to meet.

I'm reading all of the great advice from the more experienced members. Respect seems to be the key, as it is in real life.

Anal almost virgin here. Turns me on like fuck, and have tried it with my wife, but she is not keen as I am 'too big', even when we've used plenty of lube. Looking forward to my first meet where I can just let go and fuck the ass of some woman.

I've never tried it but am intrigued. Maybe I'll only try it once. Maybe its something that I'm really going to enjoy.

I love to see other men chatting up my wife. It's never gone further than that but she has my permission to go for it.

Love licking pussy. Love licking pussy. Love licking pussy.

Not so keen on getting sucked as I'm really sensitive.

Did I mention I love licking pussy?

Angela White without a doubt.

Have a thing for Deauxma

Natasha Nice

I never really considered a gang bang, but I suppose 3 M 1 F would be my definition. Of course if the men were bi then the attention would not be all on the woman, so 3 straight men and 1 woman is my final answer.

Each to their own I suppose.

Anything that gets the laughs going would be suitable. Cards against humanity is great. we also have 'Exploding Kittens', and 'Weird things humans search for'. I' sure they could be adapted to incorporate forfeits.

Never thought I would be into mmf, but really starting to get curious now.

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Joined when I was in my early 20s when the site and clientele were very different. What I expected? Absolutely nothing.

The forums were the main chatting area back then, as there were very little chat room functions and one to one message capabilities (I did love the old internet sometimes lol).

What I expect now? Again, absolutely nothing. Nobody owes me anything. You don't even owe me the courtesy of reading a reply in the forum. That is part of the beauty of Internet communication. What you put out here stays forever, and can reach so many different people that it is always best to ensure you put your best out there for others to read. They may like it and reach out to you. You may build up a reputation of being funny, kind, intelligent, so when you go to a social people are already eager to engage with you.

You can't show off a giant swinging cock on a forum post, but you can tantalise their mind instead. An often very reliable approach.

Great advice, thanks. I'm new to the scene and am looking to make connections, but i don't expect replies from the vast majority of the messages I send out. It only takes one connection that is genuine and respectful to make the whole site worthwhile. Here's hoping.

I'm new to the scene, so would definitely be interested. Would try to get to know them before anything physical happened.