FFS.. do I have to choose??
This is a wind up right??
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Ahabs
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
0 miles · Surrey
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Orgasminator
Quote by jaymar
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Just my honest opinion.
And my opinion Mr Ahabs is that you have the sexiest butt I've seen in a long time,
hwoar: you've not half made my morning! 
Well, I don't get to see it often, but maybe you can tell me again in person after you've had a better look.
Orgasminator
I had a gf for 6 years, and she knew sweet FA. I told her straight "its not a personal password" if "personal" includes two or three people.
Same with Personal Identification Numbers (PIN, as opposed to "PIN Number")
If I didnt tell a long term gf, who lived with me, met my family and, of her own volition, travelled with me a thousand miles for my mother's funeral and met my (extended) family,... why on earth should I give ANY playmate ANYTHING ?
n my view, if anyone gets upset I aint sharing personal info liek that, they can jog on.. otherwise I'd be sharing personal details like that with all and sundry that came along.
Same with Personal Identification Numbers (PIN, as opposed to "PIN Number")
If I didnt tell a long term gf, who lived with me, met my family and, of her own volition, travelled with me a thousand miles for my mother's funeral and met my (extended) family,... why on earth should I give ANY playmate ANYTHING ?
n my view, if anyone gets upset I aint sharing personal info liek that, they can jog on.. otherwise I'd be sharing personal details like that with all and sundry that came along.
Orgasminator
The funny thing about this all is some people think "I use condoms, so don't need to be checked" - accidents, risks, slips, "heat of the moment", "progressing to regular partners", leak/breaks in condoms happen ALL the time - it just sense, more than anything, to get checked regularly - no?
My thinking: If condoms offer 97% reliability, and I play 100 times (or with 100 different people) then it stands to reason that 3 times (ish) I've been prone to risk.
Or am I being anal about this?
Here's another perspective - if you KNEW someone (male or female) had something, you wouldn't play with them even if they were wearing the whole box of 12. But if you felt someone was clean, or they swore blind, or presented their most recent results as proof, you'd STILL wear something "to protect yourself" (from what? they're clean right?). So do these two cancel out then? Or am I overanalsing?
For me, I'd be more wary of the ones that DON'T get checked up, condom use aside - if they caught something in one of their "3% slips" and had been using condoms, I'd hate to be the one in MY "3% slips" when I met them and got it passed on even though "we were protected so its all okay!"
One lady I chatted to made it clear she wouldn't even entertain conversation with anyone remotely connected to any other person that plays/has played bareback. "Interesting" I thought, as her regular playmate is far from innocent with one or two women. It gets messy.
One lesson I learned to accept very quickly: "People will do what they want when they want and with whoever they want, irrespective of what they say".
In my experience on the swing scene I've observed there are three types of people (with regards to condom use):
The ones that do, or are more conservative;
The ones that don't, or are more liberal;
The publicly card-carrying, flag-flying "campaigners" for condom use, but in private... "oh well"
Just my honest opinion.
My thinking: If condoms offer 97% reliability, and I play 100 times (or with 100 different people) then it stands to reason that 3 times (ish) I've been prone to risk.
Or am I being anal about this?
Here's another perspective - if you KNEW someone (male or female) had something, you wouldn't play with them even if they were wearing the whole box of 12. But if you felt someone was clean, or they swore blind, or presented their most recent results as proof, you'd STILL wear something "to protect yourself" (from what? they're clean right?). So do these two cancel out then? Or am I overanalsing?
For me, I'd be more wary of the ones that DON'T get checked up, condom use aside - if they caught something in one of their "3% slips" and had been using condoms, I'd hate to be the one in MY "3% slips" when I met them and got it passed on even though "we were protected so its all okay!"
One lady I chatted to made it clear she wouldn't even entertain conversation with anyone remotely connected to any other person that plays/has played bareback. "Interesting" I thought, as her regular playmate is far from innocent with one or two women. It gets messy.
One lesson I learned to accept very quickly: "People will do what they want when they want and with whoever they want, irrespective of what they say".
In my experience on the swing scene I've observed there are three types of people (with regards to condom use):
The ones that do, or are more conservative;
The ones that don't, or are more liberal;
The publicly card-carrying, flag-flying "campaigners" for condom use, but in private... "oh well"
Just my honest opinion.
Orgasminator
Quote by boblisa
Heya guys!
Hope you're looking forward to your birthday Lisa - could I be pencilled down, will confirm what plans look like closer to the time.
Oh, and this time, DO take advantage to let your hair down. Its your party ;)
Hiya guys!
Just a quick shout requesting to be added to guestlist ;) Ta hun!
opps
ops:Ta hunny! (Psst ... And I'm on me own once more...) x x x
Orgasminator
Quote by Ahabs
Heya guys!
Hope you're looking forward to your birthday Lisa - could I be pencilled down, will confirm what plans look like closer to the time.
Oh, and this time, DO take advantage to let your hair down. Its your party ;)
Hiya guys!
Just a quick shout requesting to be added to guestlist ;) Ta hun!
Orgasminator
Quote by Hunnibabe
Hiya! Is it possible to add a female friend (BrightonGirl) to the list for tomorrow? Thanks in advance.
Thats ok with us Ahabs... the more the merrier lol...
Look forward to seeing you both there xxxxxxxxxxxx
:cheers:
Umm.. you might not believe this, but a mate of mine (Del, cool bloke!) off another site has asked if he can be kindly squeezed in (he has magic fingers which hypnotise! .. and that's feedback off one or two other ladies) ... if there's still time/room to get on list.
