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17 Sep 2006

Quote by Manolishi
Certainly for me, I have only ever met one person who gave me that confidence and it wasnâ€™t anything that was said, it wasnâ€™t even actions â€“ I have no idea exactly what it was, but I know when I was with that person I believed I could achieve anything.

I don't believe anyone can "give" you confidence. I personally believe that confidence, as well as happiness, comes from within. Maybe it was how that person made you feel about yourself inside. Affection and tenderness, to care and to be cared about, I think, can affect how we feel about ourselves inside, which will in turn effect our self esteem and confidence levels.
Alex xxx

17 Sep 2006

Quote by petal24
True, but my self confidence is so low, I can't take rejection!

If your self confidence is low, then it would be best not to put yourself in a situation where rejection may be a possibility. Socialise with peeps, and when you feel confident enought to handle a situation, whichever direction it may take, then arrange a meet.
Alex xxx

17 Sep 2006

Yay!! I am sooo looking forward to it.
Alex xxx

14 Sep 2006

Bump

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13 Sep 2006

Thank you to all for your helpful comments kiss

kiss

. I will let you know next week how it went.
Alex xxx

11 Sep 2006

Hi Sarah
Can I be certified as the "North East Flirt" as I do try my best at munches lol

lol

11 Sep 2006

That Frosties advert is truly annoying, along with the "Challange" Churchill advert that grates on me. Maybe I'm just watching to much tv cool

cool

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I think I'll try some of that Rescue Remedy stuff I'll let you know Thursday if it worked

Thanks Sassy-Seren please let me know. Good luck for yourself on Thursday :therethere:

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Manolishi

In the meantime to help with your pain you can rub some oil of cloves on the poorly tooth. Only a little bit mind as it tastes horrid but you soon get used to it. Again perfectly safe and you can get it at a local chemist. Really works too, numbs the sore bits!

Ooohh errrr, for some reason I do have a thing for oil of cloves. Possibly I just have odd taste buds confused

confused

No, thats just because your weird biggrin

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11 Sep 2006

Quote by Manolishi
I have a phobia of the dentist, which is why I have left my toothache go on for weeks without visiting the Dentist. I attended a consultation last Friday, which left me with the shakes, stomach cramps, nausea and insomnia. The result is I have to have an extraction (with the aid of conscious sedation) and I have exactly 9 sleeps to overcome my fear before my appointment, otherwise I will .
Yes I know I am 30-something year old grown up with two children, but I am petrified .
Any suggestions peeps?

I reckon you just need an distratction Alex :twisted:
innocent

innocent

Mano, I think her mouth will be a little full already smackbottom

smackbottom

Bet it doesn't stop her talking though :eeek:
:bolt:

Luv ya really Alex kiss

kiss

Too right, I even talk in my sleep lol

lol

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Manolishi
I have a phobia of the dentist, which is why I have left my toothache go on for weeks without visiting the Dentist. I attended a consultation last Friday, which left me with the shakes, stomach cramps, nausea and insomnia. The result is I have to have an extraction (with the aid of conscious sedation) and I have exactly 9 sleeps to overcome my fear before my appointment, otherwise I will .
Yes I know I am 30-something year old grown up with two children, but I am petrified .
Any suggestions peeps?

I reckon you just need an distratction Alex :twisted:
innocent

innocent

Really, what kind of distraction do you have in mind?
:angel: Alex
Oh hell, you mean you want me to think of something as well rolleyes

rolleyes

Give me some time Alex, i may have to do some research .............. :shock:
Along with your previously unfinished research of psychoanalytical behaviour analysis, specifically male gender, of selective hand usage, in masturbation techniques and their dominating writing hand, you will be a very busy man!!!!! :giggle:
I expect a full written and oral report by the close of business tonight wink

wink

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I have a phobia of the dentist, which is why I have left my toothache go on for weeks without visiting the Dentist. I attended a consultation last Friday, which left me with the shakes, stomach cramps, nausea and insomnia. The result is I have to have an extraction (with the aid of conscious sedation) and I have exactly 9 sleeps to overcome my fear before my appointment, otherwise I will .
Yes I know I am 30-something year old grown up with two children, but I am petrified .
Any suggestions peeps?

I reckon you just need an distratction Alex :twisted:
innocent

innocent

Mano, I think her mouth will be a little full already smackbottom

smackbottom

pmsl

rotflmao

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I can so sympathise with the needle phobia as I've got the same :scared: which doesn't help being a nurse
If it's the sight of the needle, do as I do and just close your eyes as soon as you sit in the chair and don't open them again until dentist says rinse.
If it's the actual jab then ask dentist to use a local on your gums first, that works too.
*note to dentists*.......it's NOT a sharp scratch ! :giggle:

Too right its not a sharp scratch, it bloody hurts. BTW, what is midazolam, that is what they will give to me for sedation?

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Manolishi
I have a phobia of the dentist, which is why I have left my toothache go on for weeks without visiting the Dentist. I attended a consultation last Friday, which left me with the shakes, stomach cramps, nausea and insomnia. The result is I have to have an extraction (with the aid of conscious sedation) and I have exactly 9 sleeps to overcome my fear before my appointment, otherwise I will .
Yes I know I am 30-something year old grown up with two children, but I am petrified .
Any suggestions peeps?

I reckon you just need an distratction Alex :twisted:
innocent

innocent

Really, what kind of distraction do you have in mind?
:angel: Alex

11 Sep 2006

Thanks Sassy-Seren for your comments. During my consultation with the Dentist, they apparently sedate you to a level where you are at ease, but I also have a needle phobia too, which just adds to my stress. The only other alternative is waiting a year for a NHS hospital appointment, but would have to suffer the nagging toothache until then redface

redface

Sob sob.

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Lindaxxx
Try this :-
Apparnetly i am Tweety :-
You are cute, and everyone loves you. You are a best friend that
no one takes the chance of losing. You never hurt feelings and
seldom have your own feelings hurt. Life is a breeze. You are
witty, and calm most of the time. Just keep clear of back stabbers,
and you are worry-free.

Me too

lol

, but much prefer the idea of being Jessica Rabbit cool

cool

11 Sep 2006

I have a phobia of the dentist, which is why I have left my toothache go on for weeks without visiting the Dentist. I attended a consultation last Friday, which left me with the shakes, stomach cramps, nausea and insomnia. The result is I have to have an extraction (with the aid of conscious sedation) and I have exactly 9 sleeps to overcome my fear before my appointment, otherwise I will bolt

bolt

.
Yes I know I am 30-something year old grown up with two children, but I am petrified redface

redface

.
Any suggestions peeps?

3 Sep 2006

Can you please put mine and Dave's name on the list.
Many thanks
Alex xxx

3 Sep 2006

Can I please put mine and Dave_Nott's name down for this munch. Can we also have a hotel list please?
Many thanks
Alex xxxx

3 Sep 2006

A big thank you to Darkfire and her helpers for making last night a fab one. Thank you for my birthday pressie and card, it was a very welcomed surprise.
Thank you for Huxley_Pig & Susie for the use of your hotel room.
More thank you's to Marcuso for taxing us half way around Derbyshire.

Quote by Manolishi
Alex_Northeast, great to catch up and once again put the world to rights â€“ my theories still hold water though. :small-print:

Ahem, we will see about that, I think some field research is needed :notes:, statistical inferences made before you can make generalisations based on your personal habits :moon: Sooo Manolishi (softie southerner and traitor to the cultural North East), the next time you visit your homeland, feel free to drop me a pm and we can discuss the matter further.
Roll on the Halloween Munch, yay!!
Alex xxxx

2 Sep 2006

Quote by HarryJones
I have the same problem too Dawn, corsets look lovely but can be uncomfortable to wear after a while.
My corset broke once when I was drinking around the town with a mate, I bent over and the corset fell off ffs :shock: A quick visit to the ladies, a few strategically placed knots and wallaaa ... the girly night out continued.
If you need any assistance during the night, give me a shout :rascal:
Alex xxx

OK cancel anything I've said, corset is staying in the draw and I'm wearing something I can't embarrass myself in rolleyes

rolleyes

Although, it Alex is going to help, maybe I should wear the corset confused

confused

Now I don't know what to do dunno

dunno

Wear the corset, wear the corset.
Quick Alex offer to help biggrin

biggrin

Regards
Harry Jones
Wear the corset dawn, it would be my pleasure to help you lol

lol

Alex xxx

31 Aug 2006

Quote by HarryJones
I know we have left it really late and therefore there are no local hotel rooms available. If anyone, for any reason, decides that they no longer require their hotel room, I would be grateful if you could let me know by pm, and if possible, take over the booking.
Thank you in anticipation.
Alex & Dave xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Short of offering me two thousand quid I think that a very unlikely prospect lol

lol

Regards
Harry Jones
Since I am a student, the prospect just got more unlikely.
Alex xx

30 Aug 2006

rotflmao

omg I laughed so much at that emoticon I nearly fell of my chair.
Alex xx

30 Aug 2006

Quote by Darkfire
good god, it gets worse :shock:
:giggle:

I take it Flip n Fil aren't your favourites then? lol

lol

Alex xxx

30 Aug 2006

I know we have left it really late sad

sad

and therefore there are no local hotel rooms available. If anyone, for any reason, decides that they no longer require their hotel room, I would be grateful if you could let me know by pm, and if possible, take over the booking.
Thank you in anticipation.
Alex & Dave xxxxxxxxxxxxx

30 Aug 2006

How about some trance/dance music, that will get the house da rockin!! lol

lol

Alex xxxx

30 Aug 2006

Quote by earthchild
Will anybody be around early evening before the munch for a drink? One of us will be driving so we could give two people a lift.
Alex xxx

is that so Dave doesnt get lost???? rolleyes

rolleyes

Earthy xx
Too right Earthy lol

lol

30 Aug 2006

Quote by Dawnie
Ladies I have a dilema
I have tried to wear my corset at home but I can't find an easy way to go to the loo. It is just me or is it bloody hard work when you can't bend in the middle
Does anyone else have a fear of the cord breaking and everything they own bursting out all over the place or is that just me as well :dunno:

I have the same problem too Dawn, corsets look lovely but can be uncomfortable to wear after a while.
My corset broke once when I was drinking around the town with a mate, I bent over and the corset fell off ffs :shock: A quick visit to the ladies, a few strategically placed knots and wallaaa ... the girly night out continued.
If you need any assistance during the night, give me a shout :rascal:
Alex xxx

30 Aug 2006

Will anybody be around early evening before the munch for a drink? One of us will be driving so we could give two people a lift.
Alex xxx

29 Aug 2006

Quote by twos_company
but whose car got soaked?????

Not mine

lol

Alex xxx