Bloody hell - I wondered at first if it was a good idea arranging this... Looks like it was now! I've had tons of Emails, not gonna be able to keep up if it gets any busier.. I just hope you're all not gonna back out of it after all this lol.... And thanks for bringing your mates Linda and Mark - and yes you can if you dare ;) !
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AlphaMaleUK2003
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Quote by bluexxx
I was sceptical about this at first, but I do think your idea of a club venue could work if you'd have chosen a different night. As others have said, it is usual to give people plenty of notice to sort out work and kids, and a dog sitter etc. People from the site live all over the country, most have to stay over and this just doesn't give enough time for everyone to book a hotel, even if they didn't have to get up for work on Fri morning. Next time organise it for a Saturday night, and give us all about two months notice.
Also, Mal is right, a munch is a social gathering, limiting the amount of single guys makes it sound like a sexual thing aimed at couples - that is not what a munch is about, you would be gaining nothing by limiting the amount of guys.
That said, good luck!
Thanks Blue for your comments - We've still had a decent response so I can see this happening again. It might not be 2 months to the next one even yet! I originally intended this to happen on a Friday night but this has been arranged at a higher than you might expect level - In future I may be able to offer beer promotions / cheap hotel rooms etc but I won't let that happen if I think any integrity will be lost. You've reminded me now to mention hotels on the post header....
On your other point I just answered Mal about that - We're not limiting single guys at the moment - I did say that if this proves really popular and we have to choose between single guys and couples, couples will be given prefference.
Quote by mal609
In your opening post you mentioned limiting the number of single guys to couples ratio - why? A Munch is unrestrictive of whether you are a couple of single, that's the whole point. To be able to meet in an unthreatening vanilla environment. What are you hoping to achieve by limiting single guys? There are a hell of a lot more single guys on here than couples and it's never been a problem at any other munches as far as I know, unless someone can tell me different?
Mal
Yeah I did Mal - but I said we might have to do that in future, not for this one - Anyone is welcome to the opener of the Yorkshire Munch... If it gets too popular couples will get prefferential treatment on future nights.
So come along no problem mate!
Quote by Mark & Linda
We're definitely coming just a few qestions tho like how do i dress for it and will there be any tuchy feely inside the park or will ppl follow us to a carpark later if we let them? wot goes off at these meetings? weve been dogging a few times and get a rush from it how different will this be? do ppl dance sexily at these does or mainly talk? do u get a lot of ppl talkin to each otha or are ppl shy when they go? we both cant wait anway, c u thursday xxxxx
Linda / Mark
Hiya Mark and Linda,
Well you can dress however you like - Whatever arrangements you make with others will be your business while you're there. What goes off is whatever you like really as long as it doesn't turn into a mass orgy etc. Maybe people will dance sexy, I don't know - You can if you want.. I expect some will be quiet / shy and some will be extrovert but we're trying to make newcomers comfortable too
Thanx for the email and pics lol.. Yeah the people you mentioned will be OK to come, need as many couples as poss really
Anyone dogging this afternoon? I'm open to any suggestion! Single male, 29, straight, looking for fun today! Please PM / Email me if you're up for it... Couples and single women pleaase.... Also, I'd like to try somewhere new for a change so I'm open to any suggestions for a good dogging afternoon you may have.. Please get back to me - my tips on same in return! John.
Thanks Kat for that!
OK to all that doubt this is genuine and well organised... What can I do to convince you?
Bit about myself - I've been a pro DJ for 11 years so obvioulsy I'm no young teenage lad trying to get kicks on his doorstep. I'm not doing this to make money - I can do this munch, or get paid a lot more money to work in a different venue on the same night.
In my position I get to know a lot of club / pub managers / bouncers etc as friends and on business terms. I'm also into swinging and dogging. I know the manager of a private club who's also into the scene - and of course he'd like to take more money over the bar of his club too (anything wrong with that?). Chatting to him recently I suggested the idea of a munch night and he thought it'd be a brilliant idea - and not just because he might take a few bob over the bar - he's quite excited and very much up for it! I woudn't ask just any manager of any club about this - I know him personally and I know he's into the scene and the venue he runs is very suitable to this sort of event. The venue he runs has private functions on a regular basis and the room for these functions is off limits to 'joe public' completely during the function. Eg- Recently we had a ladies night with male strippers etc - Nobody but the ladies who had tickets would even get a glimpse inside the room of the function.. Just an example there...
The venue is very nicely decorated and comfortable, not near a town centre, has a car park and there's also safe parking on the road beside it. All preparations to allow only people on the invite list into the room have been made etc as have other arrangements to keep this an exclusive to SH event. I've been talking to the moderators about the arrangements and followed all the safeguards they suggested - I could've just named the venue on here if I'd wanted but I want to make this a good event where genuine people can feel at ease. Someone has said that because I've not been a member on here long, how do they know I'm trustworthy / serious about this / capable of organising such an event...
OK well if anyoine would like to come and check the venue or speak to me about this / meet me - no problem we can arrange that.
All I can say is that I am serious about this and so is the manager of the venue - Again, email me etc, you can have my phone number..
I'm in a much better position to organise such an event because I have the right contacts - and experience in organising similar events.. How many club managers / barstaff / bouncers / dj's do you know personaly? how many into this scene? I do!
Email me, phone me, meet me, see the venue etc... Any checks you'd like to do can be arranged. - If' I'm lying about this you can speak your mind if you see me out dogging around donny / nottingham in my big noisy car with dj cd boxes on the back seat... seen me around already? ;)
John
OK to all that doubt this is genuine and well organised... What can I do to convince you?
Bit about myself - I've been a pro DJ for 11 years so obvioulsy I'm no young teenage lad trying to get kicks on his doorstep. I'm not doing this to make money - I can do this munch, or get paid a lot more money to work in a different venue on the same night.
In my position I get to know a lot of club / pub managers / bouncers etc as friends and on business terms. I'm also into swinging and dogging. I know the manager of a private club who's also into the scene - and of course he'd like to take more money over the bar of his club too (anything wrong with that?). Chatting to him recently I suggested the idea of a munch night and he thought it'd be a brilliant idea - and not just because he might take a few bob over the bar - he's quite excited and very much up for it! I woudn't ask just any manager of any club about this - I know him personally and I know he's into the scene and the venue he runs is very suitable to this sort of event. The venue he runs has private functions on a regular basis and the room for these functions is off limits to 'joe public' completely during the function. Eg- Recently we had a ladies night with male strippers etc - Nobody but the ladies who had tickets would even get a glimpse inside the room of the function.. Just an example there...
The venue is very nicely decorated and comfortable, not near a town centre, has a car park and there's also safe parking on the road beside it. All preparations to allow only people on the invite list into the room have been made etc as have other arrangements to keep this an exclusive to SH event. I've been talking to the moderators about the arrangements and followed all the safeguards they suggested - I could've just named the venue on here if I'd wanted but I want to make this a good event where genuine people can feel at ease. Someone has said that because I've not been a member on here long, how do they know I'm trustworthy / serious about this / capable of organising such an event...
OK well if anyoine would like to come and check the venue or speak to me about this / meet me - no problem we can arrange that.
All I can say is that I am serious about this and so is the manager of the venue - Again, email me etc, you can have my phone number..
I'm in a much better position to organise such an event because I have the right contacts - and experience in organising similar events.. How many club managers / barstaff / bouncers / dj's do you know personaly? how many into this scene? I do!
Email me, phone me, meet me, see the venue etc... Any checks you'd like to do can be arranged. - If' I'm lying about this you can speak your mind if you see me out dogging around donny / nottingham in my big noisy car with dj cd boxes on the back seat... seen me around already? ;)
John
THE PARK (club), SOUTH ELMSALL, NR PONTEFRACT, W. Yorks
THURSDAY 1st APRIL, 7PM to 11PM
YOU'RE WELCOME TO COME - GONNA BE A GOOD ONE!
Use the main entrance at the front....
Full directions are given if you read this....
Thanks for all your interest and emails so far - Looks like being a good 'un !
If you want to come, just turn up on the night - I'd like if you could also send me a PM or Email - Maybe need more barstaff!
I've just been reminded about mentioning hotels etc - TH Forte & Travelodges abound just a few miles away (less than 4miles to the nearest) on A1 and theres a few of them close-by... I can also name other hotels, taxi services etc if anyone would like to contact me about this? South Elmsall also has a railway station 10 mins walk away. PM or Email me for any info you might need...
Directions:
From A1 Northbound - Turn off onto A638 towards Wakefield, Follow A638 for 5 miles to a roundabout, turn Left towards Sth Elmsall (dale lane), follow for 400yds to crossroads with traffic lights (pub called Barnsly Oak situated on crossroads), turn Left at crossroads onto Mill Lane - The Park is 400yds on your Left.
From A1 Southbound - Turn off at Barnsdale Bar junction (signposted Sth Elmsall - you'll see the flyover just South of the services), Over the flyover. Left at end of flyover, Immdiate right (to avoid returning onto A1 North) and onto B6474. Follow road for 2 miles to roundabout - Straight across roundabout towards Sth Elmsall, (Dale Lane) for 400yds, Left at crossroads onto Mill Lane - The Park is on your Left after 400yds.
OK, change of plan after talking to the moderators...
Originally we were not going to post details on here - You'd have to email me for them. After speaking to the mods on SH we've decided to name the time & place for this 1st event at the park to genereat interest for future ones.
This won't be your your usual 'munch' night - I'm hoping to make this a fairly regular event but to do that I've got to generate interest in the first place... Then maybe we can start limiting the numbers of single blokes etc who attend in favour of couples - That's what it's all about really.
To anyone not in the know about this, the night will be descibed as a private company's bash - The locals do not know about the event and no-one is being told... The only way to find out about this event will be from SH.
There will be doormen etc, undesirables i.e. young lads etc won't be allowed in.
The room will be shut off from the rest off the venue with no way for people not allowed into the room to see inside.
There will be a disco, there's a dancefloor at the front but it won't be too loud so you'll be able to talk.
Anyone harrassing others or creating a problem will be asked to leave ( or made to ! )
We will be trying to promote a friendly, relaxed atmosphere and want the night to allow genuine newcomers to the scene to feel that way but also for this to be an event of interest to experienced swingers.
Please register your interest with myself, either by PM'ing me or...
Email
Could you also please leave your thoughts on this in a reply to this post..
Thanx,
John
THURSDAY 1st APRIL, 7PM to 11PM
YOU'RE WELCOME TO COME - GONNA BE A GOOD ONE!
Use the main entrance at the front....
Full directions are given if you read this....
Thanks for all your interest and emails so far - Looks like being a good 'un !
If you want to come, just turn up on the night - I'd like if you could also send me a PM or Email - Maybe need more barstaff!
I've just been reminded about mentioning hotels etc - TH Forte & Travelodges abound just a few miles away (less than 4miles to the nearest) on A1 and theres a few of them close-by... I can also name other hotels, taxi services etc if anyone would like to contact me about this? South Elmsall also has a railway station 10 mins walk away. PM or Email me for any info you might need...
Directions:
From A1 Northbound - Turn off onto A638 towards Wakefield, Follow A638 for 5 miles to a roundabout, turn Left towards Sth Elmsall (dale lane), follow for 400yds to crossroads with traffic lights (pub called Barnsly Oak situated on crossroads), turn Left at crossroads onto Mill Lane - The Park is 400yds on your Left.
From A1 Southbound - Turn off at Barnsdale Bar junction (signposted Sth Elmsall - you'll see the flyover just South of the services), Over the flyover. Left at end of flyover, Immdiate right (to avoid returning onto A1 North) and onto B6474. Follow road for 2 miles to roundabout - Straight across roundabout towards Sth Elmsall, (Dale Lane) for 400yds, Left at crossroads onto Mill Lane - The Park is on your Left after 400yds.
OK, change of plan after talking to the moderators...
Originally we were not going to post details on here - You'd have to email me for them. After speaking to the mods on SH we've decided to name the time & place for this 1st event at the park to genereat interest for future ones.
This won't be your your usual 'munch' night - I'm hoping to make this a fairly regular event but to do that I've got to generate interest in the first place... Then maybe we can start limiting the numbers of single blokes etc who attend in favour of couples - That's what it's all about really.
To anyone not in the know about this, the night will be descibed as a private company's bash - The locals do not know about the event and no-one is being told... The only way to find out about this event will be from SH.
There will be doormen etc, undesirables i.e. young lads etc won't be allowed in.
The room will be shut off from the rest off the venue with no way for people not allowed into the room to see inside.
There will be a disco, there's a dancefloor at the front but it won't be too loud so you'll be able to talk.
Anyone harrassing others or creating a problem will be asked to leave ( or made to ! )
We will be trying to promote a friendly, relaxed atmosphere and want the night to allow genuine newcomers to the scene to feel that way but also for this to be an event of interest to experienced swingers.
Please register your interest with myself, either by PM'ing me or...
Could you also please leave your thoughts on this in a reply to this post..
Thanx,
John
Hiya... I'm John, 29, W. Yorks... I'd quite happily jump in my car right now to meet up with you lol... I've been working tonight before visiting a few local dogging sites - very quiet! I'm really up for it though ;) Won't be pushy if you fancy meeting! Anyone girl fancy some fun? John xxx
Hiya - I know all the places advertised on here... Been to most of 'em! But can you please let me know of other places and times of some good dogging sites? Any advice would be much appreciated !! In return I can advise you of times & places I know... No bullshitters please... Thanx in advance, I'll get back to you on receiving your emails if you like.
John
John
Edited by KitKat with modertors hat well and truly on.
AlphaMale, you have joined the site today and posted the EXACT location for a swingers munch. Regardless of the motivation for this posting, you have just invited every journalist and nutter for miles around to the club, as well as several dozen local testosterone driven youths who will pile up there shit faced expecting an easy shag - and be pretty damn pissed off when they do not get it.
I did have some sensible questions for you, but I've only got one left now:
Are you fucking stupid?
If you seriously want to suggest this venue as a swingers meeting place, then send an e-mail to the site admin, who can advise you how to do this without getting the place trashed in the process.
lhk
Kat
AlphaMale, you have joined the site today and posted the EXACT location for a swingers munch. Regardless of the motivation for this posting, you have just invited every journalist and nutter for miles around to the club, as well as several dozen local testosterone driven youths who will pile up there shit faced expecting an easy shag - and be pretty damn pissed off when they do not get it.
I did have some sensible questions for you, but I've only got one left now:
Are you fucking stupid?
If you seriously want to suggest this venue as a swingers meeting place, then send an e-mail to the site admin, who can advise you how to do this without getting the place trashed in the process.
lhk
Kat