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BallouBear
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
0 miles · Bristol

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Quote by loveh4s
I would, but we were at an event that was nothing to do with SH, but lots of people knew we were there and it would totally give away our identities...
I will say that it involved some very unique costumes and lots of drinking...but that's all you're getting. cool
Holly
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Well, obviously I can't speak for Minotaur, but Holly, your avatar is enough to brighten up my weekend :eeek:
Wish I could mate, but after receiving some crap news on Saturday morning, I have really just spent the whole weekend working.
Fingers crossed we both will read something here soon that will brighten both our weekends biggrin
It's got to be the orange one.
Careful though, its more expensive than the blue.
Just a shame it doesn't come in yellow ........................ rolleyes
Quote by RedHot
It is not *the little hitler* as you put it rolleyes
It's the servers again and it's happened to most of us on line tonight. I've had it twice, once in op's room and once in a site room (Pool)
Live with it or log out until you feel the servers are more stable confused confused confused
TJ

Oohh I love it when you get all authoritive TJ :shock: lol
Is anybody opening this up tonight?
Don't look at me cos I would be rubbish with the eject button biggrin
Well the web link has me down as Bugs my favorite cartoon character. However, I am more akin to Ballou Bear, not just the body shape, but also because, if I hear a good song, I just have to sing along.
Maybe a bit odd, but my biggest tingle comes from a kiss on the cheek by someone I care about. Not like an ordinary here it comes kiss, but one totally unexpected.
It usually happened when I was talking, obvioulsy when I got boring she used to kiss me on the cheek, I would tingle, melt, and completely forget what I was talking about.
I have three
Delia
Mrs. Beatons
Ken Hom
I hate cooking the standard everyday stuff, beans on toast, etc etc, but I love getting in the kitchen and creating something. It's mainly dishes with an oriental theme. I tend to use the cook books more for idea's than anything else. Invariably I will add my own idea's to a recipe, sometimes they work, sometimes they dont.
Marmite with noodles doesn't work btw
I am contemplating one more cook book - The River Cottage Cookbook.
For years now I have fancied having a dragon done.
No idea if it would be black and white, coloured or indeed even where I would have it.
I have not even had the courage to talk to a tattoo artist about it, never mind actually having it done.
One day maybe.
Funnily enough, if they are directed at me, then I don't have a clue.
However, when indulging in one of my favorite pastimes of people watching I pick up whats going on with others quite easily.
I once sat in a hotel bar with someone, and we just watched a scene develop between two people. It was absolutely fascinating, although funnily enough the guy did not really pick up on the signals that were plainly obvious from an onlookers perspective.
I once bought a mate a subscription to Playboy for Xmas
4 months later he "came out" and announced he was gay ............. confused
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I find a necklace on a guy incredibly sexy redface I'm not talking raiding your mum's jewellery box here but one of those pendants on a leather strap like a choker, just peeking through an open shirt is an amazing turn on for me :twisted:

wave wave wave
Oohh, I wear one of those.
You only need ask and I can provide a personal viewing :rascal:
Quote by Shireen_Mids
Sorry but I thought he was a complete arse when he was alive.... His stupid stunts were bound to get him killed one day...
There is one Australian here who isn't in mourning despite what the media try to say rolleyes

This "complete arse" who did "stupid stunts" was an inspiration to my eldest daughter. She has an avid interest in wildlife and the environment and intends to become a vet. I also hasten to add that this is the first thing that has captured her imagination and held it.
She received two personal letters from this "complete arse", not typed, hand written, telling her about crocodiles and asking her what she wanted to do when she grew up.
It should be noted that this "complete arse" who did "stupid stunts" has captured a lot of people's imagination and shown them a world that they would never have been aware of.
Not bad going I reckon for a "complete arse". Shame the world does not have a few more of them .......
Quote by robhambledon
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as to de-sade`s other question about who should have more time....I notice that of the posts so far including de-sade is that a lot of us seem to be stuck in the cult of celebrity.
The most poignant being that of Missy and her cousin, I also agree that no one should outlive their children.

Maybe thats because De-Sade said
Quote by de_sade
It also prompted this question which I offer to you good folks out there... Family members aside, who - if it was within your power to grant it - would you grant a little extra time to see what might have happened, might might have been done, what could have been achieved.

dunno
You are stranded on a desert island, you are only allowed:
1 meal for the whole time you are there
Probably marmite sandwiches rolleyes
1 music album
Led Zeppelin - How The West Was Won
1 type of drink
Milk
1 book
Ray Mears Survival Handbook
1 TV program.
Top Gear
Logging on first thing this morning, it was in utter disbelief that I read about Steve's death. He certainly had his critics over the years, but for me, he was an iconic figure.
My eldest daughter is a member of his fan club, and I really am not looking forward to having to break the news when she wakes.
Steve had an amazing effect on all of my three daughters. They all have a deep interest in not only wildlife, but also the conversation of the planet. This interest is down to one man - Steve Irwin.
I will miss his antics on TV, sure he did some crazy stuff over the years, but his enthusiasm, his vitality, his passion about wildlife and the environment was a joy to behold.
Today, the planet lost a good friend.
I will ponder the actual question later.
I could not think of a nicer way to spend an evening, and possibly afternoon.
Count me in please biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin
Darkfire,
What can I say but:
worship worship worship worship worship worship
It truly was a night to remember. Looking round the room it was wonderful to see so many happy smiley faces, I think you spoilt us all rotten. :thrilled:
Also to all your helpers, wow guys you all made it a really special night.
The pre-munch drinks started the afternoon very well indeed, there certainly was a great turn out. Tux did make it back to my room, after two attempted kidnaps. No doubt he will make another appearance on another night.
Special thanks to Dawnie and Ian for carting me about and making sure I got safely back to the hotel. kiss
It was wonderful to renew old acquaintances and meet new friends. So many names, if I were to go through them all, I would be writing War & Peace. Anais, we never did get that dance – but I was waiting for a slow one, and I mean a really slow one. :doh:
Alex_Northeast, great to catch up and once again put the world to rights – mytheories still hold water though. :small-print:
Quote by Dawnie
I've probably got too many things to be able to pick one out.
I know when I was very young I asked my Aunty why her teeth stick out and she looked like a horse. Think I spent the rest of the evening in bed redface
Getting caught with a porno mag under my bed at 15 didn't go down well. I forgot my Dad needed to mend the leg of the bed I'd broken redface
Ians brother walked in on me wanking Ian once, yet again, I was only 15 redface
I don't have time to continue and probably best I don't but I'll leave you with a picture I've posted before which now makes me cringe

bolt

Oh hell Dawnie, no go on, please continue - I am in stitches here biggrin biggrin biggrin
Oh bugger - I will have to come back to this - I should have left 15 minutes ago!
bolt
Quote by angieyorkshire
I was a punk in the 70's, does that date me?

Ahhh the stuff dreams are made of .............. :shock:
Was it the complete thing - did you have spikey hair and safety pins
and do you pictures :rascal:
Quote by Dawnie
i am up showered and ready to dry my hair but its so bloody warm dont think i can cope with an hour of blowdrying so looks like its gonna be curly tonight

If it continues to rain, I'll have waves and curly bits rather than straight hair rolleyes
Having loads of hair is a nightmare, Earthy I am sure you will look lovely either way biggrin
:doh:
The trials and tribulations of being a lady
rolleyes
bolt
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OMG - That made me cringe even remembering the movie
I leave you lot alone for a few hours to discuss cringing moments and what happens - a thread about cringing turns into a discussion about pop bands!!
Sheesh guys
smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom
Can we get back on track now biggrin biggrin biggrin
Having been watching channel 5 tonight and the moments that made you cringe during the eighties, I have to say, so many things on the programme I remembered and god, did I cringe. That said, they had Mr Fish and the hurricane at number 1 with shell suits at number 2 – for me, shell suits definitely should have been number 1.
Anyway, it did make me think about stuff that I cringe about from my youth.
Does anyone look back and think – “why, why the hell did I do that” and that cringe moment comes on.
So come on, spill the beans, what was it.
Why on earth I am posting this just before a munch heaven knows, but I will tell you mine.
Back in the good old days, I was into rock music big time and when frequenting what was in those days disco’s rather than night clubs, often a rock song was played.
My cringe moment – Me, in the middle of the dance floor with my imaginary guitar, doing the head shaking bit with all those disco fever kids looking on bewildered.
Quote by earthchild
12 noon, ffs i have to leave here at 10am lol
see you soon
Earthy xx

In the words of the great Python mob
You lucky lucky b*******
For me - 9am
Now, what exactly did the Romans do for us confused:
Quote by Lindaxxx
My fave boots biggrin

Lindaxxx

Oh hell, where did I leave that box of tissues redface
Quote by fabio grooverider
So to celebrate my 32nd birthday smile.... I have decided to hold a social get together type thingey!!!!
Since my b'day is october 13th.... I have decided to hold it on Saturday October 14th...

32?????
Are you sure Mr Fabio - I was sure you said you were born late fifties ..............
bolt
I may try and get there if I work allows. biggrin
Quote by Abilene
Ok, I am seriously not going to mention names in here as I feel that shows no class but I do feel that a little something about this may need to be put out there. Also please do NOT try to play detective and guess who I may or may not be talking about because you WILL end up being wrong because it's not an obvious thing.
This is a swingers site right? Where people with all kinds of tastes, styles and kinks like to come right? Well, should it really be the place to come if you have attachment issues? In other words if you get attached TOO fast. If you get upset with someone if they are playing with others, flirting with others or heck just talking with others should you be here? As long as the person has been 100% honest with you and no expectations were ever laid out, no promises made and no misimpressions given then you are doing whatever may have happened now or in the future between you and that person a misjustice because you are likely to push the person away. Had there been any promises etc made then I could surely understand but this is not the place to put your toe in the water unless you think you can handle swimming. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, thats not what I am trying to say, all I am saying is that maybe if you have attachment issues then you need to figure those out before venturing into a place as openminded as this is.
Ok, I hope I put that all clearly, respectfully and with an honest heart.
Mods .. if you feel this is in the wrong place or that I am out of line please feel free to move it.
Abi xx

Just my two-penneth worth
Although you don't mention any names and you say for people not to play detective, there is one person that will know exactly who you are referring to, that person, being the one that caused you to write the thread.
Now if that person is hurt for one reason or another, imagine how they feel right now after reading your post and the replies to it.
If I were to read your post from a generalist perspective, then some points you raise are thought provoking.
However, it is not a generalist post, it is specific about an individual, whoever that individual should be.
Sorry Abi, although everyone would seem to agree with you, I do not. To me, it shows a complete lack of tact.
As I say, just my two-penneth for what it's worth.
Quote by BiWelshMinx
"Here I go again on my own, going down the only road I've ever known, like a drifter I was born to walk alone ......"
Can't remember the actual title of song.

"Here I go again" by Whitesnake I think confused biggrin
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Spot on, it was indeed.
Tawny Kitten mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :twisted: :twisted:
Or even Tawny Kitaen :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: