Well, its a long long way off, but what the heck.
Could you possibly put me down as a provisional and also if there is a hotel list flying around could I possibly have a peek?
I have been having an interesting chat with a few friends this weekend where the topic got round to individuals perceptions about themselves and others.
During the conversation a lady was being honest by saying that as she was bi, she would not play with another woman if that woman was more attractive than she was, even if the situation involved 1-1 play or with a couple.
As the conversation progressed, a guy also admitted that he would prefer to play with a couple where his perception was that he was either better endowed, fitter etc than the other guy.
It came down to confidence in the end. One chap mentioned that he struggled with beautiful women purely because his perception of himself was that he was not handsome, so gained confidence when playing with a more unattractive lady.
The more we spoke, the individuals perception of themselves changed with one person now believing they were shallow having these thoughts, although what they wanted and what they looked for would not change.
To me, life is about perceptions, either of yourself or others. We have seen threads about what is beauty etc and at the end of the day we are all individuals with individual tastes.
I asked if they would mind if I put this up for discussion on here. Obviously they didn’t as otherwise I would not be posting this. :doh:
So, if we are completely honest with ourselves here, would you play with people where you perceive yourself as “the unattractive one” ?
No I aint going to hoover
Boo hoo
Boo hoo
Nothing but bright sunshine here.
Oohh how I could do with playing in the snow ..... :shock:
Happy Birthday to one of the most lovliest ladies on SH.
Have a great day H.
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are one's I say quite often along with Luv and Duckie which everyone else finds really annoying :lol2:
