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Bari

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5 Sep 2003

Just reading your post again and I guess I kind of assumed that by fake ads you were referring to women posing as swingers but actually charging.
Have I got the wrong end of the stick here? Are there people just posting ads for no reason and not responding or whatever? What an odd thing to do if so... confused

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Anyway, if thats what you meant then sorry, I misunderstood! D'oh!

5 Sep 2003

Sounds like a plan to me!
Other suggestion is it must be nightmare for you when people put ads in the wrong sections and you have to move them for people. Certainly it can be annoying when searching. So why not put a big message up during the posting process to the effect that any ads in the wrong section will quite simply be deleted, not moved. Maybe this would give people more incentive to get it right meaning less work for you and less ads in the wrong place annoying browsers. Just a thought there...
Last thing, on the basis that the site promotes a completely open and non judgemental view on sex and the who hows and whys, I suppose you could always consider a section for paid for sex, even charge a small amount for the ads? Or do you feel thats against the ethos of the site? Only thinking out loud really, don't know whether thats a good idea or not but presumably paid for sex works for some people...?
Top work otherwise though Mark, a really professional site! Nice one. smile

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Bari.

3 Sep 2003

OOoohhhh HEEEELLOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! biggrin

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Pass the Kleenex...!!!! redface

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20 Jul 2003

Oh get a room you too!
(Oh hang on.....!!) biggrin

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16 Jul 2003

HMMMMMMMMMMMMM..................!!!! biggrin

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16 Jul 2003

Hmmmmmmm..........
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14 Jul 2003

Mandy there are those of us that actively prefer big girls! smile

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30 Jun 2003

You and the rest of the world it would appear Jags!! biggrin

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29 Jun 2003

Who's had sex with someone new this weekend?
Tell us all about it and brighten up a dull evening...! smile

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Bari.

24 Jun 2003

Shhhhhhhh.........
I'm trying to sleep!! biggrin

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23 Jun 2003

Oh I absolutely agree with all of the above!
I just wondered whether people really honestly did, all the time....??
Bari.

23 Jun 2003

Just wondered, who uses condoms during play with new people and who doesn't...??
I know what the sensible answer is, I just wondered what the real answer is???
Bari.

21 Jun 2003

MMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmore tittie piccies pleeeease!! smile

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(And I haven't forgotten about pics, just need to remember me camera...!)

17 Jun 2003

Awwww dammit, I've been checking all week for these! biggrin

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3 Jun 2003

Strangely enough....
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1 Jun 2003

Very god advice from Jags and Enchamtress there.
Could I just add that this also applies to us chaps! I'm sure the vast majority of people on here and involved in this kind of thing are normal decent people just wanting fun and a good time, but there are weirdo's out there in all walks of life.
Better safe than sorry....
Bari.

1 Jun 2003

A bit away from Torbay, but according to the "dogging locations" section of this site I noticed Slapton Sands looks quite favourable.
Can't speak from experience I'm afraid, but might be worth a try?
Bari.

1 Jun 2003

I think the very nature of a site like this is going to bring on legions of time wasters, dreamers and pic collectors, nature of the beast I'm afraid.
There are some genuine people on here, but for each genuine person the are probably several who aren't.
God luck anyway!
Bari.

31 May 2003

Just wondered if any ladies on here fancied some phone sex tonight?
Just a thought...
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28 May 2003

Jags,
There are a few of us genuine BBW lovers (as opposed to sad git men who simply think a "fat bird" will be easy).
I love the soft voluptuous curves of an abundant woman, can't see the point of these skinny bints myself!
Maybe I've been lucky, but I've also always founds that fuller figure females have a serious appetite for fun and frolics! All of my girlfriends in the past have been at least a size sixteen, and more often than not size 20+
I adore BBW's.......!!
Pity you are in the North East, about as far away from me as is possible to get. If I PM you my email address any chance of some photos? (Clothed would be fine, unclothed even better!! biggrin

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27 May 2003

Hey, can I put my name down for some of these........???? biggrin

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27 May 2003

Must abmit, I got confused by this initially!
I think cos your pics are on the side bar we assume you are "The Mark" as in the Obi Wan of Swinging Heaven biggrin

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I replied to a post of yours recently and asked something about Linda, then later I saw "Mark and Helen" on the opening page and thought I'd got it wrong! redface

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Realised once I re read the post though but I can see how the mistake could happen (or I'm just thick!!)
Cheers,
B.

27 May 2003

Oooohhh helloooo sexy!!! :P
How about posting the bigger version for us all to appreciate properly!?
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B.

27 May 2003

Cheers Mark, thats very interesting indeed.
So when you meet strangers, do you usually all meet up in a pub or something first and see how you get on, or do you screen them as best you can over the net or phone or whatever and then just go for it when they turn up?
Does linda ever see people on her own and would that bother you if she did? I'm guessing the whole thing is a joint thing for you both to enjoy but I wondered if she ever goes out and fucks someone and then comes home and tells you all about it...?
Questions questions, but all terribly interesting! smile

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Best wishes to you both,
B.

27 May 2003

I'll look forward to seeing this, let us know where it'll be as soon as you can!
There was a really good and very positive article in Maxim a few months ago on the whole swinging thing and parties, very interesting reading.
I'll let you know the issue date if anyone is interested in getting a back issue of it.
B.

27 May 2003

Good news mate, I'm sure you'll love it! biggrin

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Let me know what you think!
B.

26 May 2003

Mark,
Excuse my curiousity, but do you just find guys for Linda, or do you find girls for you too? Or both together?
And when you and her are with a guy does she enjoy you both together or do you watch and play afterwards?
Have you ever had more than one other guy there at the same time?
Tell me to butt out if I'm asking anything I shouldn't, just very curious about it all... smile

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B.

26 May 2003

Very nice... Would love to see some of Linda with nothing on at all..! :P

26 May 2003

Cheers guys, appreciate your thoughts and kind words.
And don't worry, you'll be the first to know if we go for it (who knows it could even be with someone from here!!!)
Mark & Linda, I was interested to read about how you built up to it with flashing in pubs and other naughty stuff.
My girlfriend went out a few weeks ago and I said she should have fun (if you know what I mean!) without taking it too far too soon. She was in a nightclub having had a few drinks and was wearing a loose top and no bra and a couple of guys apparently pulled it down and kissed her bare nipples...
Lightweight stuff I know, but something of a turn on non the less (we were in bed together when she told me about it, certainly umm, helped proceedings shall me say!! biggrin

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Early days....
B.

25 May 2003

Good advice guys, thank you all.
I agree with both of your sentiments and I certainly wouldn't go for it unless we were both happy with the decision.
However it remains a fascination to me and a fantasy for us both. I suspect that this may well be as far as it ever goes for us and that is fair enough, but you never know....!!
In the meantime, I hope you don't mind me hanging out on your forum and chatting with you guys, it really does interest me!
Thanks once again for your thoughts and kind advice.
B.