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Bassdude
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
0 miles · Dunblane

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Quote by artificer
Concur with all of above: meet somewhere SAFE and check the vibes. I wouldn't dream of asking a lady to 'cut to the chase' without -at least-a few prior words in a neutral environment. For the scenario you describe, maybe you could take a man that you trust with you? If the 'businessmen' are genuine, they shouldn't object. Artificer's 'tip for the day': If in doubt-don't.
Blimey, Im sounding like a Blue Peter presenter...
-or that cartoon cat that used to warn children of the danger of matches..anyone remember his name?
A.

That will have been Charlie, Artificer.
"Charlie says ........"
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Count me in Sarge!!
Why not make this a sticky so it doesn't disappear before the alocated date? Looking forward to this "Virtual Munch"!!
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My God Fred!!
After being reasonably quiet on the forums recently (perhaps due to recent polls) you're certainly back with a vengeance!!
Just to add my (Scottish) tuppence worth to the debate, with VERY limited experience I'd say that swinging and cheating are absolutely worlds apart. In my opinion, swinging is a recreational passtime or way of life which should involve both partners either physically or at least in knowledge. Cheating is a destructive approach to a relationship which ultimately can lead to break up and financial / emotional loss. In my opinion, cheating is also selfish and underhand.
I'd suggest that swingers have the moral high ground in this debate. From what I see, on the whole this is an activity involving both partners. Possibly a bit like a shared interest in, say swimming on a Sunday afternoon, but much more fun.
Dogging is a completely seperate issue. If anyone wants to have a wank in a car park, so be it. Maybe if I had known about dogging when I was playing with the band I'd have been an even happier guy. It's amazing how horny you get after a night on stage. I digress....
Anyway, 'nuff said....
Welcome back Fred!
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Hi Scotscpl,
This sounds like a brilliant idea!! Let's see if we can keep this post alive long enough for an Administrator to make it sticky.
If a Scottish McMunch was on the cards, I'm sure myself and Mrs Bassdude could be persuaded to come along.
Thanks for flying the blue & white flag Billy.
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Quote by mal609
Have a beer on me lads xx

I think they were hoping for more than a beer!! lol
redface surprisedops: :oops: :oops:
Steve what are you suggesting???
Love
Wilma
x x x x
It was done for no other reason than knowing it could bring a little pleasure to someone :wave2: - and it obviously worked :lol:
Any rewards in whatever shape they come are always welcome, but not expected.
Worth a chat at the NW Munch, though!!!
Mal
wink
Ditto Mal's comments. I just thought the lovely Wilma and Dawn would appreciate the gesture....
(Not that I'm scared of you or anything after my previous exploits Wilma!!)
Have a lovely Christmas Y'all....
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Sorry Wilma,
Here's your last two, although I was gonna keep them back and give you them personally.....
:rose: :rose: kiss
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To Wilma.....
:rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: kiss
To Dawn.....
:rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :kiss:
For the ability to put up with Fred and Ian!!
(Bassdude, in a rare exhibition of his feminine side)
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Mark, thanks for your comments. Hope my solution helps somebody...
Dawn, thanks for yours. You're a wee flirt, wish I was a bit closer to you....
Freddy Boy, LOOK OUT OR I'LL GET YOU IN REAL BARNEY RUBBLE!!
Cheers,
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OK, I cured the problem....
Just needed to clear my cookies and the cache.
Cheers,
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Hi everyone.
Is there a problem with the chatroom? I've been trying to log in for days now but can't get a connection with the server.
I'm missing talking to you all and would appreciate some advice.
Cheers
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bluexxx,
I'd just like to add my own thoughts to those that have gone before. I am absolutely disgusted that you had to endure this type of treatment. My wife and I are just at the starting point of checking out this scene and this disturbs me - not particularly from my point of view but from hers.
What you're talking about is basically "legalised ". Had you not had the bottle to deal with the lout the situation could have been even more horredous for you. I totally commend you for your actions and totally condemn the management of the club in question.
I do tend to agree that "naming and shaming" may not be a good idea - purely from your own point of view. I don't think the libel / slander laws differ too much between Scotland and England but should the club go after you it would simply add insult to injury. Better, as you say, to spread the word by PM and personal contact.
At the end of the day, bluexxx, I'm right behind you as are all your other friends - whether you've met them or not - on this site.
Take care.
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Quote by KitKat
*kat wanders in*
Fred?
oops missed him again
Wanders out humming
Lost boys Lost boys and golden girls
Down on the corner and all around, all around the world
It doesn't matter where they're going
Or wherever they've been
'Cause they've got one thing in common, it's true
They're never gonna make it through this night,
And let me tell ya' something, neither will you
Neither will you
Neither will you
Kat, you have just soared in my estimation!!
A quotation from Jim Steinman - Lost Boys & Golden Girls, I'm well impressed!!!
Keep it up...
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Lost boys Lost boys and golden girls
Down on the corner and all around, all around the world
lhk
Kat
What a bad Bassdude I am....
After all the "nice" things Fred has said about me in various parts of this site, here I am opening a great big can of whoop ass on him!!
I suppose it's time for me to slink off into a quiet corner and not wind anyone else up before I get all those Devil Women upset......
NOT!!!!
Come and get me then girlies!!
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Quote by Jags
Lets all watch the lovely Jags being, quite literally, eaten alive.

By a man in a kilt???????????????? Black leather kilt????????????????
Only one man I know who is macho enough to wear a black leather kilt and I would GLADLY be eaten alive by him!!!!!
x xx
Rest of you - go twist!
Right, off I go to trade my jaggy tartan kilt in for a nice sveldt black leather one!!
See you later Jags....
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Quote by Flintstones
Paul,
I do wish we could all be a little more inclusive to the ones that try! They do stand out in the chat room and can really add fun to it. People like Dweezil, Bassdude, Biker777 etc. are all good fun in there and enrich the environment I feel. I am not talking about inviting them to our next swing but including them more in the chat in the room! (Don't get your hopes up too high fellas - not just yet!)

Cheers Fred!
Although I've been in the chatroom for some time now, I've just started having a look at the forums. I appreciate your comments as I just enjoy a bit of friendly banter and fun.
Chat soon,
BD
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Quote by WilmaFlintstone
Where is Bassdude??
Starts a thread like this and then buggers off!!
Typical rolleyes
Wilma
x x x x

OH MY GOOD GOD!!!
What have I started here?? Never mind, Fred was looking for some male bonding support and he got it from me. So you think you'll get me back Wilma with another poll? Wrong, you're no match for the Bassdude....!!
Hope you're feeling a wee bit better..
Luv,
BD
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I'd just like to start a campaign to save Fred from a cruel fate!!
I'm sure it was an accident that you kicked Wilma out Fred, certainly not deserving of the options presented in the poll.
Wilma, please have a heart and take pity on poor Fred. Could I suggest the following options: (if I can get the poll to work)