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Blondeandbrown
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
Bi-curious Female, 52
0 miles · Somerset

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Quote by funlovi-cpl-nw
no one gona be in the costa del sol by the look of it cry cry

torrevieja is in the costa blanca costa del sol is down south about 600 km away maybe you should try the swingers club in guadamar beach called Amour,its on the N332,you cant miss it ,dont go too early it gets busy about 12pm used to live in the area but moved back now.
I used to be a body piercer in time gone by (gave it up when i sold the company) all i can say is that having the hood and labias done are no problem but to have the actual clit pierced in some rare instances can lead to loss of sensation,when the whole experience is to lead to hightened pleasure this can be a bit of a knock back.
It is rare but can happen due to the formation of scar tissue.
Hope this has been of some help
im really pleased with the replies we ve had,it s good to know that although we have had only a few meets it s good that we can get really good advice of you kind folk.
I just think we are a little nervous still and a little new ,im sure everything will be fine,,,and yeah we are gonna give the club scene a little go.
thx
all
b and b
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We love the swinging thang,what we hate is the chit chat of emails and msn to arrange a meet and all taht goes with both went out on the weekend with the intention of bringing someone home with us whether it be a male a female or a couple but how do you bring up the question to people who may be offended,we would also like to go to the clubs but had a really bad experience before and have kinda been a bit put off.
Any suggestions
thanx
B and B
Quote by LadyFeeBee
You've just shattered my illusions of going to a club in Spain and being confronted by a fab selection of beautiful Spanish guys and girls confused
Hope they're not all like that over there!
Sorry it was such a let down for you.
Fee
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lmao i wish,imagine it being bad then times it by 10
really strange and very off putting,We felt like the fresh meat in the mear market
Quote by Mallock2006
We are in Spain spending some time here and decided to have a go at the local Spanish swingers club.
OMG
We arrived at 1 am and the party had seriously not started,on entering this very lowly lit building we entered through into the main "bar" about the same size of a small lounge where we were immediately eyeballed by everyone one there, about 6 cpls and a few single men in felt so uncomfortable,now we like people and we arent bad on the eye but the thought of letting these people ,mostly german pensioners and some really seedy guys near us made us run for the was we were trapped in the building,they would not let us leave.
5 minutes of negocaition and we were in the safety of our car.
So wheres the best club in the UK to go to where we arent gonna feel uncomfortable and the clientele is nice and relaxed.
blondeandbrown

I would suggest that NO club in the UK would do that :shock:
Any club we have been to/heard of doesnt operate those kinds of policies...
Sounds appauling to me to be quite honest.
Check out the club review section on the left hand side of your page.
thx my friend
We are in Spain spending some time here and decided to have a go at the local Spanish swingers club.
OMG
We arrived at 1 am and the party had seriously not started,on entering this very lowly lit building we entered through into the main "bar" about the same size of a small lounge where we were immediately eyeballed by everyone one there, about 6 cpls and a few single men in felt so uncomfortable,now we like people and we arent bad on the eye but the thought of letting these people ,mostly german pensioners and some really seedy guys near us made us run for the was we were trapped in the building,they would not let us leave.
5 minutes of negocaition and we were in the safety of our car.
So wheres the best club in the UK to go to where we arent gonna feel uncomfortable and the clientele is nice and relaxed.
blondeandbrown
Quote by Jags
This is the relevant extract from the site AUP
NOT acceptable:
Posting a telephone number, email address or other contact information anywhere within the forum, stories section, chat room, member profile, photo ads, or any other public area. Contact details can only be exchanged through Private Messages.

AUP is to be found at the very bottom of your screen and it's the thing you should have read before you agreed to abide by it! Better late than never.
:P
So am i right in saying that i can send my email adress to a person if i reply to a message in my inbox?
Now dont think were stupid but we recently got a wrap across the knuckles by the administrator reguard our emails.
When you reply to an email that you have in your swingers heaven mail box are you allowed to let the person have your msn address?
Please can someone let me know?
Why oh Why do so many people pretend to be something are so many Single guys we presume ,on here saying that they are a couple ,single woman ,bi fem when push comes to shove and we want some proof of who these people are they come up with all types of excuses,"oh my cams not working " or "my compiuters crashed"....its so annoying we are genunine and honest all we want is the same in return.
Sorry to moan but its starting to wind us up.
just moved to spain does anyone know about the swinging een here and are there any good clubs that speak help as we want to keep the swinging in our lives.
trying to use chat room all day, but keep getting cut ofand part grey screen appears every 5 mins any idea how to solve this sad
its no good im still going mad with this cyber i wrong or right,i have never done cam to cam before and only have one person in my contacts(sad arent i)does this person have to be online for my cam to work,im reqally sorry for all this messing around but im think this old computer is finally making me go loopy :cry:
I think im going to go mad,i posted earlier on today at work to see how i can cam to cam someone through msn and it worked fine on my site but when i got home and used my other email all i get is messenger beta mail,theres nowhere on the page that i can see where i can turn the msn cam on,please help im going nuts. :cry:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Sign into your account and click the download for msn messenger. It's straight forward and very easy to use, even with a cam. You can have a messenger account for each address you have and with the new version, you can sign into all of them at the same time. Very handy for chatting to SH pals and vanilla pals at the same time
Be careful NOT to get them mixed up though :shock: ( no prizes for guessing who did that recently redface )

Thanks sassy,ive sorted it out,im gonna have some fun now..... lol
We had great fun last night with some well nice people that we met using web we have been asked to cam to cam using msn and to be honest i m a bit both have accounts so what do i do?
How do we get in touch with them and them to us,i m usually pretty good at things but im have a bit of trouble understanding all this.ç
I know you good folk can help me out. rolleyes
Quote by creampie123
Hello all,we are blonde and brown and we need your help,and im sure you nice people can help us.
A couple of things have come to our attention,firstly when we arein the chat room people ask us to whisper,can you tell us why and how.
Secondly as we are new to this we would like the situation to become real,but feel to meet some one blind would be to much for us so is it better to go to a club and see how things go,but we dont want to be put under any pressure,is the club scene more pushy than the 1 2 1s.
cheers all wink

to whisper someone when in the chatroom....click on there names which is in the chatter list on the right off your screen...at the bottam left of your screen there name will appear....you are now whispering them....but always remember to ask first in the open room and get a positive reply....
some ppl like to meet at clubs....some like to play at home...if you are going to play at home get to no them first,chat on here in the chatroom...or chat on msn.....and always chat on the phone.....we've only ever been to one club and found it very very non pushy...and this is probs the case with 99% of the clubs........
hope this helps in some way....
Thank you for your help,much appreciated unlike some people that seem to go outta their way to be sarky.
Quote by blonde
:welcome: ....................... but I am blonde :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yeah very helpful;anyone else? :cry:
Hello all,we are blonde and brown and we need your help,and im sure you nice people can help us.
A couple of things have come to our attention,firstly when we arein the chat room people ask us to whisper,can you tell us why and how.
Secondly as we are new to this we would like the situation to become real,but feel to meet some one blind would be to much for us so is it better to go to a club and see how things go,but we dont want to be put under any pressure,is the club scene more pushy than the 1 2 1s.
cheers all wink