I would just like to throw myself upon the mercy of others in these rooms and ask for either acceptance or admonishment from my peers for my actions (or potential ones… wishful thinking as they may be).
Am I wrong in wanting to join some of you guys in here even though I have a partner?
If I may explain, my partner is in NO WAY interested in these kind of activities and thinks this is perverted and wrong to the point of sadness!! I've tried to argue the case of "each to their own" but to no avail!! Obviously she has no idea I come in here and would probably kill me if she ever found out. I have a somewhat higher sex drive than her and (trying desperately to not sound offensive to her) find myself wanting more stimulation than the "Sunday morning fumbles" and craving the excitement these activities could offer.
Even though the likelihood of me encountering like-minded people in my area are somewhat slim (my only encounter to date being at a motorway services where a couple appeared to be getting it on in the car beside me in the car park. However despite my interior light flashing like a demented lighthouse, they simply got out and went into the services apparently… or obviously… unaware of my interest!!) I still hold the slightest hope that I will meet someone willing to let me taste this pleasure.
So? Am I wrong in my search and should be banished to the pits of depravity for "cheating" on my girlfriend or am I accepted for wanting to realise my hidden desires before I die (so as to speak)?
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ChameleonGary
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by postie
I was under the impression that i wasn't getting any shags because I was a boring, ugly feck... I now realise this is because I am a Newbie and it is all part of the initiation ritual. Phew... there's hope for me yet
in your case you were right first time!!!
Ok... did I say NOT intimidated??? Erm... let me rethink.......
Aaaah I was only joshing matey!
Keep on posting, nice to see someone who can string a sentence together...
Ok... Good... erm.. I think... I'll get to grips with this... erm... friendly banter... one day I'm sure.... All part of the initiation eh?
Quote by postie
I was under the impression that i wasn't getting any shags because I was a boring, ugly feck... I now realise this is because I am a Newbie and it is all part of the initiation ritual. Phew... there's hope for me yet
in your case you were right first time!!!
Ok... did I say NOT intimidated??? Erm... let me rethink.......
Well... as a newbie... I'd like to just take the opportunity to thank postie for helping me realise.. so eloquently.. where I am going wrong. I was under the impression that i wasn't getting any shags because I was a boring, ugly feck... I now realise this is because I am a Newbie and it is all part of the initiation ritual. Phew... there's hope for me yet 
I'd also like to add my twopenneth worth (while I've actually summoned the bottle to post) that, as little interaction as I've had, I have never felt intimidated by anyone in their replies (quite the contrary with some of the advice I have received)... If anything I've learned that, as well as needing a great deal of patience in this endeavour, there is also a necessity for a bloody good sense of humour.
I look forward to passing my initiation in the next 12 years and then... well... hold me back :lol:
I'd also like to add my twopenneth worth (while I've actually summoned the bottle to post) that, as little interaction as I've had, I have never felt intimidated by anyone in their replies (quite the contrary with some of the advice I have received)... If anything I've learned that, as well as needing a great deal of patience in this endeavour, there is also a necessity for a bloody good sense of humour.
I look forward to passing my initiation in the next 12 years and then... well... hold me back
:lol: 
)Quote by McCloggie
Sorry;
Ms Amber - could well be!
Chameleongrey - wellcome to the asylum and hang on in there.
McC
well I may not yet have been picked for the footie team.... but at least I'm noticed..... It's a start...Now I just have to work on getting people to get my name right
:lol: I'm here
Ok... technically you don't know me... in fact... technically... no-one probably does... but what has a guy gotta do to get introduced into here???
It's like waiting to get picked for the footie team at school :lol: :lol: :lol:
Perseverance is the key I heard a wiseman once say
Ok... technically you don't know me... in fact... technically... no-one probably does... but what has a guy gotta do to get introduced into here???
It's like waiting to get picked for the footie team at school :lol: :lol: :lol:
Perseverance is the key I heard a wiseman once say
I've heard there is an increased use of Bluetooth when people are dogging.... setting your mobile to search for other bluetooth devices in the area and contacting them that way... This sounds like a pretty excellent idea to me (avoids the embarrassing paranoia about hanging around waiting for someone)
Has anyone else heard of this? Is it common practice amongst the more experienced crowds?
I'd be really interested in people's views on this and whether it is common practice or simply heresay??
Has anyone else heard of this? Is it common practice amongst the more experienced crowds?
I'd be really interested in people's views on this and whether it is common practice or simply heresay??
Quote by Shadow6969
whats your situation
I'm a guy looking to experience the joys that this may behold. I must admit I'm new to this game (although I've probably fantasised about it for most of my life
)I hope this helps but if you want more info or have any questions, please let me know.
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I hope I'm not overstepping the mark here but would just like to say that it is inspirational to see a girl, in the face of such adversity, still enjoying the delights of shagging :P
They build 'em out of strong stuff on SH, ChameleonGary
And then they throw away the mould by the looks of it... I can only look forward to getting to know you guys more.
Quote by bluexxx
Is there any ways of ensuring you read any signs right and not just get accused of looking seedy sitting in the Services car park?
If you're doing it right, then it's seedy hehehehehehehehehehehe
But following the advice on the site will help you not to get a punch in the mouth off some angry non-dogger
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:OK... I now have some indication of what not to do and also what to do (to some extent)... now it's just the erm.. small issue of where to do it and with whom... God this is a wide virtual world :lol: :lol:
Quote by wolvie_dude
Call me Naive
Ok.. your Naive
:D (It's early and my humour hasn't woken up properly yet)
:lol: :lol: :lol: I can see I'm gonna have to sharpen up in here to survive :P
Thanks for the links to the helpsites... Now I just need to find someone who likes to indulge and then the bottle to go and hang around without feeling paranoia about sitting in my car watching the world go by
Hiya... Yet another newbie enters the arena humbly hoping for everyone's acceptance 
I know that is probably a pretty naive thing to say but I'm new in here and beg your understanding... being 42 allows me to be cynical about something I've often dreamed about but was too shy to ever experience.
I know that is probably a pretty naive thing to say but I'm new in here and beg your understanding... being 42 allows me to be cynical about something I've often dreamed about but was too shy to ever experience.
I know this is probably a silly question but I'll ask anyway.... As a completely new guy to dogging (this is my first venture outside the realm of fantasy) Is there any ways of ensuring you read any signs right and not just get accused of looking seedy sitting in the Services car park?
Sorry to sound so basic but I have to start somewhere
Sorry to sound so basic but I have to start somewhere