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Chaotic_Spirit
Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 40
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Orgasminator
I would like to get married one day, simply to go through that whole life experience.
Though if i was to marry i would perfer it to be arranged. I'm not one for hard work.
Though if i was to marry i would perfer it to be arranged. I'm not one for hard work.
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Glad your happy sweet xxx Couldnt think of anyone who would be more deserving xxx
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I've had my desperate moments...
I'm a lot older and wiser now though.
Short story even shorter, it's possible.
I'm a lot older and wiser now though.
Short story even shorter, it's possible.
Orgasminator
Quote by Sara_2006
get a limo red lol am sure we can pick up more on the way
Surely a limo would make this a good enough occasion for no knickers
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Ok, i just havent got any clean knickers to wear.
Quote by pickles
mmmmmmm now this sounds like my kinda nite of fun - what time you picking me up????
Quarter past vodka :twisted:
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Quote by redwine_lover
sara and pickles....taxi to minxie's......!!!!!!!!!
RWL
xx
room for a little one???
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I wonder if any foundations for future relationships were made last night???
Just curious.
Just curious.
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What a wonderful night!
After plodding around on the scene for so long it is fantasicly refreshing to do and be apart of something new and exciting. Last night is definately up there in my top five most favouite socials. It was different, amusing and a great experience. Thank you minxie for a great night, i know you got some shit organising this social simply because you have itgity to go against the grain, but it was fucking worth it.
Thanks again.
After plodding around on the scene for so long it is fantasicly refreshing to do and be apart of something new and exciting. Last night is definately up there in my top five most favouite socials. It was different, amusing and a great experience. Thank you minxie for a great night, i know you got some shit organising this social simply because you have itgity to go against the grain, but it was fucking worth it.
Thanks again.
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Quote by flower411
I`m not at all sure about this one
I`m not really sure that we are swingers...
We`ve both done all sorts of stuff for years....... seriously.......ever since we started having sex :shock:
We`ve even done stuff with the knowledge of other partners, but we`ve, never, ever, ever, been in the situation that we are now
We are both able to do whatever we like because we do not have hang ups about sex and we do not have jealousy problems.
But !!! Are we swingers ???
We do not want to be part of "The Scene"
We were not comfortable when we visited a club.
We don`t "let our hair down" at socials
We thought that Swinging was the way to go
But it seems that we`re just a couple of tarts !! :shock:
We would be comfortable popping down the pub and finding some bloke that`s looking for a quick fuck and I`m happy having gratuitous sex with a married woman that just fancies a bit of a change once in a while but is still 100% happy with her marriage.
So ....... I`ll get back to ya when we become swingers :lol:
I've always consider swinging as more of a mindset rather then something we do. Just like sexuality is a mindset, you don't suddenly become straight or gay overnight simply because of a physical act.
Then again swinging is defined as something different by each and every person. They is no right way nor wrong way, but we all play differently, and in turn all have different opinons on it.
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I think if i started swinging earlier they would be a few court cases to explain.
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Quote by mattius
too late again...
just like in a car park....four got there before me
have fun and stay safe
let me know how you got on
Shit being last isnt it lol
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Try can i please please please come to the cov social. ***puppy dog eyes***
and if so, would like to confirm too.
and if so, would like to confirm too.
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Wow, i decided i'm not going to drink at socials again. I had an awful headache at the moment. I must be getting old 
wonderful night cocksluts.
My plus one was very impressed.
wonderful night cocksluts.
My plus one was very impressed.
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Quote by cockslut
we go regulary to gum clinic, you don't need to be referred by your doctor you can either just drop in or ring for an 've always found the staff very polite and they seem to like our you get free condoms as well as the advice. with this kind of thread though its unlikely anyone will print their against such visits even though theres an increase in bareback / risk of pregnancy meets in the chatrooms on here i've noticed.
True enough, it will be practically swinging sucide. But the idea of this thread wasn't really to add debate to the forums, but to simply make people aware. Not everyone wants to admit they don't know everything, so sneaking a subject like this under their nose will at least put some knowledge into their head. Also it will make us wiser to ask certain questions to other people before playing.
I have noticed the increase of bareback activity, pregnancies and disease scares recently too. More reason for us all to trot along to the clinic.
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Quote by westerross
'Course Doggin' is a risk.
Yer never know whether yer gonna get a cold or an STD.
Too many cocks to suck so I'm told!!
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Suppose it depends how you play whilst out dogging :P
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Quote by Lost
hi guys brilliant thread...we use our gum clinic on a regular basis and have been quite open with our nurse that we are swingers..but we were surprised when he told us that they had seen a drop in swingers attending the clinic for reg checks in the last 3 yrs...perhaps there are less swingers in our area now or they go somewhere else,or just dont say they swing??we have never been made to feel uncomfortable with our sexual activity there and welcome the advice and resources they hav to offer if needed(loads of free condoms lol)..xx
I agree fired, it is a great thread cool chaotic :thumbup: and great to see you posting, even though your as mad as a hatter girl
I do try
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Quote by Try2
Wake up people if your meet don’t show or you feel used and let down, then it is as much your doing as theirs, you decided on that person. Maybe next time take a step back and get to know the person before you make any form of commitment.
extremely wise words, but also we need to remember we're only human and mistakes are allowed.
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Welcome to the dark-side of the scene. It's horrid when you get here, but forunately they is a light. We are not all the same and out there in this vast community, they are genuine people that will value your friendship. Chin up poppet, we got to take the good with the bad, otherwise when do you know you've got it good?
The scene has it pretence, like life.
The scene has it pretence, like life.
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I was thinking this morning about safe sex and began wondering, out of SH's community of swingers, how many had actually ever been to a G.U.M. Clinic? Better still, how many actually know what a G.U.M. Clinic is??
We often get the odd condom thread lerking around the Cafe forum which most of us have a good debate on what our risk levels are and what we do and don't agree with.
However, no matter how we play, how many of us out there can actually say, hand on heart, with a certificate dated in the last six months, that we are completely clean of any
I'm sure that 99% of the swingers out there have had more then one sexual partner in their lifetime and even if they have used condoms each and everytime, can be past via penertration, oral, needles (talking tattoos as well as drugs here!)and in some proven cases, via broken skin. So how sure are you that your completely clean, without some proof of testing?
At the clinic you will get free, confidential advice, testing and treatment. You can go to a clinic anywhere in the country, it doesn’t have to be your local one and you don’t have to be referred by your doctor.
Some people worry about being outed as a swinger (or having more then one casual partner)but the law guarantees your confidentiality. Your visit or any treatment that you may or may not need never gets placed on your medical record unless you consult your doctor and they put you forward to a G.U.M. clinic.
Anyways the reason for this post was to; (a) get some people to think and perhaps attend a G.U.M. clinic, and (b)Send an idea SH Staff's way about promoting safe sex within the swinging community by generating a G.U.M. clinic directory for SH's users to access at any time.
We often get the odd condom thread lerking around the Cafe forum which most of us have a good debate on what our risk levels are and what we do and don't agree with.
However, no matter how we play, how many of us out there can actually say, hand on heart, with a certificate dated in the last six months, that we are completely clean of any
I'm sure that 99% of the swingers out there have had more then one sexual partner in their lifetime and even if they have used condoms each and everytime, can be past via penertration, oral, needles (talking tattoos as well as drugs here!)and in some proven cases, via broken skin. So how sure are you that your completely clean, without some proof of testing?
At the clinic you will get free, confidential advice, testing and treatment. You can go to a clinic anywhere in the country, it doesn’t have to be your local one and you don’t have to be referred by your doctor.
Some people worry about being outed as a swinger (or having more then one casual partner)but the law guarantees your confidentiality. Your visit or any treatment that you may or may not need never gets placed on your medical record unless you consult your doctor and they put you forward to a G.U.M. clinic.
Anyways the reason for this post was to; (a) get some people to think and perhaps attend a G.U.M. clinic, and (b)Send an idea SH Staff's way about promoting safe sex within the swinging community by generating a G.U.M. clinic directory for SH's users to access at any time.
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I believe they will be several earthquakes this year. Thats my guess.
However i have had dreams that they will be another bombing in the UK that will happen around Jan, and it will lead to civil upset against race and policies of the present government.
However i have had dreams that they will be another bombing in the UK that will happen around Jan, and it will lead to civil upset against race and policies of the present government.
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Quote by woohoo
whooohooo who i think is a scream
FFs Furbs!!
It's not the first time that girls have screamed when they have saw me
Sorry but it was dark at the time! lol,jk
