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Chaotic_Spirit
Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 40
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Orgasminator
anyone traveling from Derby to the social and back again???
I could do with scraping a lift.
donation to petrol for the favour if anyone can.
I could do with scraping a lift.
donation to petrol for the favour if anyone can.
Orgasminator
yey, im coming!
Not telling you if i mean literally or not!
Anyways will see you tomorrow in my new boots that i brought today!
chaos x
Not telling you if i mean literally or not!
Anyways will see you tomorrow in my new boots that i brought today!
chaos x
Orgasminator
i'd love to go if they is an invite and some help with transport. oh, and perhaps a sofa to pass out on.
Orgasminator
i'm really sorry but me and munch_69 will have to cancel, we've been given free tickets to this year's Derby panto which just happens to be dated on the same night.
I have sexy notts number anyways, so if it finishes before ten we might hop on a bus and still see you all, but otherwise it's not looking good.
I have sexy notts number anyways, so if it finishes before ten we might hop on a bus and still see you all, but otherwise it's not looking good.
Orgasminator
Not a man, but i would love to come if i can find a lift!
Anyone from Derby will a car space willing??
Anyone from Derby will a car space willing??
Orgasminator
What a fab night! I've never been so drunk before in my whole life, so i really let down the glamourous dress, but fuck it! It's christmas!
The Venue was lovely, as i'm sure all the ladies that attended would agree, walking in made you feel like a princess being welcomed into a castle. I loved it!
I would like to apologise for my drunkness, also if i offered shags out, remind me they may still be available
Only messing.
Thanks cocksluts!! Your amazing!
The Venue was lovely, as i'm sure all the ladies that attended would agree, walking in made you feel like a princess being welcomed into a castle. I loved it!
I would like to apologise for my drunkness, also if i offered shags out, remind me they may still be available
Only messing.Thanks cocksluts!! Your amazing!
Orgasminator
One more sleep!
God i'm so excited. It's been a while since i've walked into a room where the majority of guests are strangers!
Butterflies!
God i'm so excited. It's been a while since i've walked into a room where the majority of guests are strangers!
Butterflies!
Orgasminator
Quote by theboogetman
id like to put my name down if theres room its my first one would love to meet others if thats possible
^^^^^ oooowww :twisted:
Decided to confirm! Got to say hello to this guy and chase his blushes!
:twisted:
Orgasminator
Quote by flower411
Introduce me to a male wanking on cam who DOES NOT :
Assume I am female,
Whisper me immediately I view their cam,
and I`ll refrain from taking the piss !
if they whisper u uninvited u should copy and paste and have them removed. its not your place or your right to abuse anyone.
I go into the chatrooms to chat !!!!! I`m certainly NOT going to report every unwanted whisperer !!! :shock:
I`d spend the whole evening copying and pasting
It`s not my place to police the chatrooms.
AND I definately do not abuse anyone !!!!!
If an uninvited whisper does happen thats constant and annoying then you should report it rather then take it on your own shoulders, it points out maturity and using the facilities that are there to be used and keep a peaceful atmosphere.
sorry about including admin, ops and room host facilities, nothing personal i promise, but you are all there to provide a service afterall.
Constant and annoying whispers will be reported !
I simply said I would not be reporting every unwanted whisper, which is what the previous poster had suggested ! :shock:
For some reason they also accused me of being abusive, which is just weird !!!
Sorry i mis-read your post in the wrong context, easy mistake. I'm sure the poster (who i'm sure didn't intent to offend you) did to.
Orgasminator
Quote by Corrie2007
This shouldnt be a telling off thread? I posted on here to express a view as did Flowers and people wont post on a thread if they think they will be told off for their way of handling things? I now ignore paople who whisper rather than say in main room please dont whisper as they get bored very quickly if you ignore them.
So let people express their views openly and hopefully somewhere in the middle minds will meet.
If i came across in my posts in this fashion then i apolgise, wasn't my intention.
Orgasminator
Quote by flower411
Introduce me to a male wanking on cam who DOES NOT :
Assume I am female,
Whisper me immediately I view their cam,
and I`ll refrain from taking the piss !
if they whisper u uninvited u should copy and paste and have them removed. its not your place or your right to abuse anyone.
I go into the chatrooms to chat !!!!! I`m certainly NOT going to report every unwanted whisperer !!! :shock:
I`d spend the whole evening copying and pasting
It`s not my place to police the chatrooms.
AND I definately do not abuse anyone !!!!!
If an uninvited whisper does happen thats constant and annoying then you should report it rather then take it on your own shoulders, it points out maturity and using the facilities that are there to be used and keep a peaceful atmosphere.
sorry about including admin, ops and room host facilities, nothing personal i promise, but you are all there to provide a service afterall.
Orgasminator
Wakey, quick question! Am i confirmed?? If not i'd like to do that now please!
Orgasminator
Quote by FurbyHug
I do agree with tolerance 1000% and i dont mind watchiing men wank in fact i find it quite erotic .. if im give the choice to watch them.. i have been guilty of going off on some guys that are doing that.. but only for the reason that im bombarded by whispers asking me to watch them wank.. there looking at my pics an coming on them and somedays its so much i will leave a room.. so i can see both sides of it.. tolerance is the key to swinging but they also need to respect that if i wanted to watch i would.. and if i click on .. an move off straight away its not an invite for 10 to 15 whispers in a row sometimes sayin the filthest and sometimes nasty things to me if i choose not to watch that particular person......
i feel your anger an i see why you feel that way, but sometimes i will shout at them to stop it from my side.. if ive done that an you not realised why then i appologise.. i never intend to hurt anyones feelings..
ive been chased away from many a room by the quite blokes who dont look like there doing anything but playing with themselves.. but sometimees theres more to my bark than just barking...:-(
kisses an hugs dares loves you lots.. xxxxxxxx
Interesting post, and first off, they is no need to apolgise, usually when posts like this are made it's normally to make us all think and the more various opinons and experiences put into this topic helps us all not think one sided.
Sometimes they is no room host, and the only way to defend ourselves is to be a tat abusive to get rid of a constant pest thats breaking the room rules. But then i suppose the blame then also lands on ourself for not thinking on our toes, starting another room with a room host that can remove the wanking whisperer.
Fab post furby, made me rethink my postion on this topic.
Orgasminator
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Well it's nice to see u have addmitted 2 being an arse
Ummm .... but I didn't! I'm not "an arse"*, thanks and that's just your opinion anyway just like my comments are mine. No amount of "lol" is gonna change that.
, but how u can stereotype single males like that is beyond me.
very easily - ONE - they do it themselves and TWO I've been here long enough to see that, as a generalisation, it's TRUE! If they don't want to be treated like the single male stereotype then maybe they shouldn't act that way? BTW, I didn't stereotype the individuals, I said their behaviour at that time was stereotypical.
A good tip 4 ya......Think how u would feel if people were to take the P out of you, or someone you know or like.
Treat others the way you would like to b treated.
Thanks for the "tip" - think I'll pass, though as yes, I have had the piss taken out of me and a helluva lot worse abuse than a few jibes about wank-cams.
thank's 4 your response xxxxxxxxx
* btw, isn't that abuse? Albeit in jest 'cos you stuck a :lol: on the end but since you don't know me, anything about me or even seem to fully comprehend my posts I could take that as a personaly insult - just like the guys I poked fun at in the chatroom?
what's your point?
If you seriously wish to talk about it my mailbox is open.
Orgasminator
Quote by Suede-head
As i responded to Chaotic my views are some what selfish in that i believe the "action" cams, be they wanking (male or female) or otherwise change the tone of the room.
I have to admit, it sometime does get on my nerves when you can't get into a room simply because a male/female/couple are playing on cam as all the voyeurs take over and fill up the room,esp if its a cpl, but like you its on a selfish level and not because it shouldnt happen.
Nothing to say that they can or can't be there and i have happily lived side by side with such on the swinging heaven chatrooms for god knows how long, not everyone is in to what i'm into, nor am i into what most others are into, so sometimes you have to compromise or simply find another room to chat in.
Orgasminator
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Well it's nice to see u have addmitted 2 being an arse
Ummm .... but I didn't! I'm not "an arse"*, thanks and that's just your opinion anyway just like my comments are mine. No amount of "lol" is gonna change that.
, but how u can stereotype single males like that is beyond me.
very easily - ONE - they do it themselves and TWO I've been here long enough to see that, as a generalisation, it's TRUE! If they don't want to be treated like the single male stereotype then maybe they shouldn't act that way? BTW, I didn't stereotype the individuals, I said their behaviour at that time was stereotypical.
A good tip 4 ya......Think how u would feel if people were to take the P out of you, or someone you know or like.
Treat others the way you would like to b treated.
Thanks for the "tip" - think I'll pass, though as yes, I have had the piss taken out of me and a helluva lot worse abuse than a few jibes about wank-cams.
thank's 4 your response xxxxxxxxx
* btw, isn't that abuse? Albeit in jest 'cos you stuck a :lol: on the end but since you don't know me, anything about me or even seem to fully comprehend my posts I could take that as a personaly insult - just like the guys I poked fun at in the chatroom?
Orgasminator
Quote by Suede-head
I still don`t see why they have to come into the regional "chat" rooms when there are numerous wank rooms to accomodate their needs.
Valued input, but we could say the same about the sex cams, tit cams, party cams and pussy fiddle cams too. Yet these don't tend to get the same treatment as wank cams do.
They is nothing to say in the mids room title or the occasional mids room rules that get posted every now and then that wank cams aren't allowed or unwelcome. So why can't they wank there?
Orgasminator
Quote by Mallock2006
I'm not sure if i should post on this thread, but what the hell, lambs to the slaughter!
The deal with the midlands room is it has become very close-knit, which has it pro's and con's.
One of it's con's is when a strong character from that room disagrees with something, then the sheep usually follow suit. Why i hear you ask? i can't be really sure, perhaps it has something to do with acceptance or admiration or longing. Like i said i'm not sure.
You cant be wrong as thats exactly what I think.... :-)
Careful Mallock, If we start agreeing on something people will talk
Orgasminator
I'm not sure if i should post on this thread, but what the hell, lambs to the slaughter!
The deal with the midlands room is it has become very close-knit, which has it pro's and con's.
One of it's con's is when a strong character from that room disagrees with something, then the sheep usually follow suit. Why i hear you ask? i can't be really sure, perhaps it has something to do with acceptance or admiration or longing. Like i said i'm not sure.
I have seen the 'tuggers' comment been made on several occasions, i know some members of the room agree with the objections to it, yet i also know that when some of those exact same members are actually mere sheep and will confess in different enviroments that they have no problem or even enjoy watch such.
I sometimes love to see a good wank on the screen, so i support wankers everywhere. However i don't enjoy it when it's voiced publicly by the gent enjoying himself that i am watching, if i'm hounded with invites to watch or if i'm blasted with whispers saying 'do you like?' or 'talk dirty to me.' etc. I like cams cause it gives me the chance of being a secret voyeur, so chit chat kind of ruins the whole 'wow this is hot!' moment.
The deal with the midlands room is it has become very close-knit, which has it pro's and con's.
One of it's con's is when a strong character from that room disagrees with something, then the sheep usually follow suit. Why i hear you ask? i can't be really sure, perhaps it has something to do with acceptance or admiration or longing. Like i said i'm not sure.
I have seen the 'tuggers' comment been made on several occasions, i know some members of the room agree with the objections to it, yet i also know that when some of those exact same members are actually mere sheep and will confess in different enviroments that they have no problem or even enjoy watch such.
I sometimes love to see a good wank on the screen, so i support wankers everywhere. However i don't enjoy it when it's voiced publicly by the gent enjoying himself that i am watching, if i'm hounded with invites to watch or if i'm blasted with whispers saying 'do you like?' or 'talk dirty to me.' etc. I like cams cause it gives me the chance of being a secret voyeur, so chit chat kind of ruins the whole 'wow this is hot!' moment.
Orgasminator
Quote by Lilmiss
I don't think anybody is being judgemental or assuming anything.
If hes here asking advice of how to get his wife into it... they i would at a good guess say she does't know.
:? Is it just me that would class that as an assumption. Only asking out of personal interest.
Orgasminator
Quote by Mallock2006
Seems a lot of you are more judgemental then you like to think you are.
They are different forms of swinging and swingingheaven does accomadate for such, whether it be dogging, cruising, bareback, soft swing, BDSM as well as so many other activities. BUT Just because YOU don't agree with it doesn't neccerily mean that YOU are right!
At any point of this thread have i seen the gent once mention that his wife didn't know about him swinging, his sexuality or what he gets up to. He simply asked for some advice of how to get her to be more included in this part of his life.
I find it amusing how everyone jumps in without thinking. You can never assume anything in this game so please put a bit more thought into what you say in future!
So who's to say that it is in fact you who are right ????
Just another sweeping generalisation I suppose eh
Didn't say once i was right!
Was just pointing out all these assumptions have come out of thin air, cause not once did the orginal poster say his wife didn't know about his life style nor sexuality. People can re-read this thread as physical proof that i am right on that note, nice to have something to back up your claim isn't it!
Regarding some of the other things that have been said on this thread, i couldn't help but point out that no two people are the same and what some consider right and normal, isn't in someone else's eyes. All i ask for is an open mind when it comes to such matters, and thats up to every indivdual that reads this to take my request into consideration or not.
Orgasminator
Seems a lot of you are more judgemental then you like to think you are.
They are different forms of swinging and swingingheaven does accomadate for such, whether it be dogging, cruising, bareback, soft swing, BDSM as well as so many other activities. BUT Just because YOU don't agree with it doesn't neccerily mean that YOU are right!
At any point of this thread have i seen the gent once mention that his wife didn't know about him swinging, his sexuality or what he gets up to. He simply asked for some advice of how to get her to be more included in this part of his life.
I find it amusing how everyone jumps in without thinking. You can never assume anything in this game so please put a bit more thought into what you say in future!
Dorsetguy, my advice would be simply find the right moment, if it be in bed or over a coffee in the evening when your both relaxing, to discuss fantasies. It will nomally give you some hints on if she'll want to or not.
They are different forms of swinging and swingingheaven does accomadate for such, whether it be dogging, cruising, bareback, soft swing, BDSM as well as so many other activities. BUT Just because YOU don't agree with it doesn't neccerily mean that YOU are right!
At any point of this thread have i seen the gent once mention that his wife didn't know about him swinging, his sexuality or what he gets up to. He simply asked for some advice of how to get her to be more included in this part of his life.
I find it amusing how everyone jumps in without thinking. You can never assume anything in this game so please put a bit more thought into what you say in future!
Dorsetguy, my advice would be simply find the right moment, if it be in bed or over a coffee in the evening when your both relaxing, to discuss fantasies. It will nomally give you some hints on if she'll want to or not.
Orgasminator
Quote by HotTart_and_Mr_D
can we come again please??
we had such a good time last week
Thats her wife included as well as Mister D.
Chaos is coming to Bristol
Orgasminator
Fab Night and it was grea to see some of you after so long!
Chaos
Chaos
Orgasminator
Quote by Stuart_Tanina
This may come as a bit of a disappointment to some of you, but.....
we'll definitely be there
Only 10 sleeps to go
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Yey
