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Chaotic_Spirit
Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 40
0 miles · Derbyshire

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Quote by Stuart_Tanina
This may come as a bit of a disappointment to some of you, but.....
we'll definitely be there biggrin
Only 10 sleeps to go
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:

Yey smile
Quote by wild rose and the stag
ill get some provisions in then

lol :lol:
I'm not that bad, i can bring my own batteries! jk
biggrin
Seriously though, i'm not that bad surely :shock:
only because your worth it....
I feel like doing a Lor'el advert now :D
Quote by wild rose and the stag
ill get some provisions in then

lol :lol:
I'm not that bad, i can bring my own batteries! jk
biggrin
Seriously though, i'm not that bad surely :shock:
Quote by clitfondler
CHAOTIC
I SEE YOUR STILL EXCELLENT AT MAKING FRIENDS!!
PLEASE KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOURSELF!!
CLIT!!

Sore Point Perhaps rolleyes :twisted:
Quote by Freckledbird
hi Minx,
I see Im not welcome, what will i do know?
xxxx GUD LUCK xxxx

Take a spelling/grammer course??
:twisted:
lol Sorry i couldn't help myself biggrin :lol:
Or even a grammar course?
Sorry, I couldn't help myself either :lol:
hehehehe :lol:
Quote by clitfondler
hi Minx,
I see Im not welcome, what will i do know?
xxxx GUD LUCK xxxx

Take a spelling/grammer course??
:twisted:
lol Sorry i couldn't help myself biggrin :lol:
Quote by chris_notts
hi there. i have been to 888888 twice in last frotnight but not seen anyone there! am i going to the right place? when are you next out? i would definitely say hi!! xxx

Can someone delete this post.
It's against the unwritten laws of dogging never to name locations on open forums, who knows who is reading...
I also believe it's against SH rules too.
Smacked Bottom for you
I'm out as a couple tonight with a regular playmate, and hoping to find at least another couple out tonight. If your in the area let me know!
Oh and if you see us out, at least come and talk to me. Had a strange day at college so the last thing i want is to be surrounded by more Gorms!
Quote by robbiem
If i may say that anyone who meets this enchanting young lady is in for a thrill of a lifetime
Not only is she sexy but witty and fun to be with
One hopes that the lady ventures a little futher south on the odd time
xxx

Flattery gets you everywhere!!!
Quote by cooper956
how far north in derbyshire do you come would love to come across you

I assume your talking to me????
Depends on petrol and what i'm looking for.
You were fab willbe, well done! Always knew you be a top bloke and always up for a laugh, and this past weekend you proved my point! So big thank you!!!
Also Thank you to the wrats x
Quote by Try2
Minx I’ve already told you what I think of your idea and reading the thread I have noticed that most of those who have expressed an interest in attending are male and very few females. I also know that some who have responded have regular partners though they class themselves as singles.
There seems to be two types of singles i.e., those who are single and those who are single with a partner.

Simply because a someone has a regular playmate does not make them a couple or a single with a partner. In my eyes a person is single if they hold no bond, be it emotional, marriage, children, relationship, etc.
Roger Rabbit - Clumsy, funny and amusing even though attracted to bad luck. Oh and a fuckable wife!
Quote by Kandleman
If you use that system can I have all 3 coloured badges so as to force Chaotic to talk so she can find out which category i fit in!

lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Clubs have singles nights, couple nights, bi nights, girl nights, guy nights... i dont see why we can't have socials in the same way.
After all we already have BBW Socials and Black on White Socials. Why should any of these ideas be any different.
Sure some people are going to be unhappy, thats life, none of us can please everyone.
Here is a radical thought, forget about causing someone unnecessary work in making different coloured badges, which will only serve to pigeonhole people who might like a bit of variety, and actually TALK to people at a social
OK, I know, I went too far

I love it when you negative towards me! :twisted:
Quote by Try2
.... I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin: rotflmao

well that me out the running then... lol but good idea for the lucky ones
I think it should be arranged on the basis of first come first served, Minxie idea of fit may not be to everyones taste.
Also i think it should be arranged in colour codes, ie, different colour badges for what your looking for. Red could be used for singles looking for straight liasons. Blue for bi and Yellow for gay. I know thats using labels, which i know for a fact i'm going to be drawn and quartered for, but i would also be interested in the single women as well as men at this social and wouldn't want to offend or waste valued chat up lines :lol:
Now feel free to murder my post and idea, as i know some of you can't resist :lol:
Quote by Mallock2006
Official Munches arent ratio'd in any way..
Its a first come first served basis.

My Mistake, Socials then.
Quote by deancannock
only problem i see with this....is the ration of men to women....i can see it being at least 25:1.. now you ladies might not see that as a problem...but have to say..I think i would..lol

I'm sure the singles night will be ratio'd as other socials and munches are. smile
Quote by newcastledave
Ohhhhh Newcastledave, Im sure that Northeastcouple didnt mean any harm in their post and were just having some good old fashioned banter with you.
As for the loads of views, a good percentage of them will be the ones who are checking if you are advertising a female for them to come and play with and the rest are just like me, bloody nosey lol
So just cause you didnt get the response you expected, please dont take it personally, it happens that way sometimes. Keep posting and please, keep the location just for the ones you trust wink

Thank you Naughty, what a nice answer :lol: I feel better already
Yey! :lol: :lol:
Quote by adamgt
I've never had any luck at all! Think I must be going to places that have long since been abandoned. sad
If you know of any good places and meeting someone new, do reply or PM...

You have to be patience, and never expect anything from anyone. Sometimes nothing can happen on the Dogging scene for some nights, then they comes the night everyone is waiting for and a lot of impatience people miss this as they expect things to happen as soon as they turn up in a carpark.
CEDAR TREE (Confidence) - of rare beauty, knows how to
adapt, likes luxury, of good health, not in the least
shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident,
determined, impatient, likes to impress others,
many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waiting
for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.

lol Rubbish!! :lol: :lol:
Quote by newcastledave
79 views and no replies, does this mean that dogging in Newcastle is now officially dead!!!!!!
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
no not at all ,just means either to cold for people or they have a meet sorted or people dont want to come out just to suit you.
You were right,its alive and well biggrin
Did you have a rough day yesterday? I didnt ask people to come out just to suit me, I asked people to contact me so we can discuss it further. Maybe you should read your own profile again because on it you say "we welcome new cummers to the scene as we know what its like ". Although I have been on this site for a while, I am a newcomer to Dogging and your reply was a little was just a nice surprise to discover somewhere new that wasnt overun.
I'm sure it wasn't suppose to sound like that. I believe what naughty meant was that a lot of doggers, myself included, don't like pre-arranged meets and aren't fond of new locations which we can only find out about by meeting yourself there.
If you have a suitable location you'd like people to use, i greatly recommend that you post it as a location under the SH doggin directory which can be found here: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/dogging/index.html
chaos x
Quote by Ms_minxie
Hi
I know this is a late addition but chatroom went down so browsed forums n found this thread!
Furby.. I so agree with you about being single, sometimes it sucks when you need a hug, or for the 'last dance' to feel special. But then there's the times when you hear/see couples arguing and you think TF that Im single!!! Is it really worth the grief?
I had always wondered about swinging, the idea always excited me but never had the guts to follow that.... Until I met someone who chewed me up & spat me out over 2yrs. He hurt me badly. I couldn't bare the thought of bein hurt again so decided to swing casually at clubs---go in, get fucked, leave--- it worked for a while but over a year on I too miss certain things that one special person brings. Im still excited by swinging but feel I should wait a while to see if I can find a partner 'that fits' and hopefully continue swinging with him. It'll make going home afterwards a little less lonely cos I'd have someone to re-share it with & make it a more positive experience.
And Chaotic... A singles night?... I'd certainly be up for that. Maybe I should look into organising one????

Need help you know where my mailbox is biggrin
Quote by sheff4fun
hiya chaotic...
ur probably out having fun now....just seen ur message..strongly suspect i'm 2 late..story of my bleedin like biggrin .but am/was willing to have some outdoor fun 2nite...

lol Typical! Don't worry, it's usually me that notices things last minute too.