i really should give yorkshire dogging a go.
Can you put myself down as provisional, My man pkrams65 is going so i might as well use the same tank of petrol and say hi to you all too. we'll confirm at the weekend when we've decided on a hotel.
Thank you.
Another call out to see if anyone will be out tonight???
wow christmas already??? Only November, i've just got rid of my fireworks!
I have been in many situations where i have suffered from Single blame sydrome. When things go wrong it's usually the single female or male that tends to get the blame, people that have seen this type of treatment or been subjected to it will know exactly what i mean.
I agree with the above posts that rules should be set out first to avoid trouble, but i also know that these rules are not always voiced, or kept to by the people that issue them.
I will give some examples of Single Blame Sydrome...
I once met a male that i then went on to play with and have an emotional relationship with on the vanilla scene. After several months we split up and i found out he had a wife and kids. The wife turned out to be a friend of a friend, and before long it was my fault that this man had an affair with me and i was subjected to a difficult time of being called a 'homewreaker' etc. Now surely, if we look carefully at the situation, its the married man that betrayed, broke a vow, and did wrong. But how often have we seen the single female get the blame!!!
Another situation.
A Friend of mine, had contact with a couple that they had played with prior to this situation and got on well with. They all went to a club with a bunch of friends, and as agreed this friend went along as the sub for the night. Cutting a long story short, the male from this cpl broke the rules that himself and his partner had agreed on when traveling up to the club. The male was not allowed to play seperately from his partner on this night (but had done with this friend on several other occasions with permission). Now if i'm wrong then please point it out to me, but surely if the male part of this couple knew the rules, then shouldn't he be to blame?? Instead, as typically always, the single friend does.
It's a horrible fact, but it's something that has become more popular to see on the scene now days. Not everyone has their head screwed on.
thats my view anyways.
Just out of passing curosity, and an extra added urge to be out myself. Is anyone going to be out in the derbyshire area tonight???
Sorry couldn't find a red Head ^^^^
Have a Fab, Wicked, Awesome, Sexy Birthday Staggy!
Chaos xx
I have long since decided that the cold winter months has always been the best time for dogging. Sure its cold and there is always some poor man freezing his bollocks off trying his luck to get in some woman's knickers. But darkness falls early, Vanillas' stay indoors and more of us doggers come out to play!
I'm not entirely sure why this is, and i wouldn't want to guess. All i do know is, myself and some other regular doggers, look forward to winter.
These past two nights i have gone out in the cold to enjoy myself in the sport of dogging. What i have noticed this year is that more people are reluntant to get out their cars and make that first social 'hello', and i have come to start wondering why.
It could be quite simply be that i'm now known and no longer a novelty to Derby doggers, but at the same time i havent seen the local doggers converse amoung themselves either. Has they been some serious police activity that has shaken everyone up. Or have we all decided that dogging is where we simply park up in a carpark and watch the other cars enter and leave?? If anyone has any news then feel free to post and let me know.
Anyways other then that, i wanted to make a quick post to say that i will be on the main Derby circuit over the next few weeks taking semi-erotic pictures of myself and a few others for profiles and private collections. I will point out that if you do spot me getting snappy happy then feel free to come and chat and at the same time be reassured that no one or their car will be in any pictures without permission. I'm a lady of my word.
Also, I will be out dogging over the winter too so if any cpls, single fems and maybe the odd single male would like to meet in a carpark for a polite chat and see where things go, you can either contact via this forum thread or my mail box.
It has happened, SH has seen a few marriages now.
Sometimes it has worked, other times it hasn't!
However it is frowned upon to actively seek relationships off the scene, esp if your not honest about your intentions. I'm sure you have prob heard some single women and men being given a wide berth for such reasons, simply cause they are actively seeking and 'sometimes' entrapping other swingers to engage a long term relationship with them.
I think some single men and women really should be on dating sites rather then on the scene, as many have no intention of swinging at all. In the midlands room we often call them SWONGERS, or if any of us feel brave, bunny boilers lol.
Saying this though, i have seen some fantastic relationships blossum on the scene. But these couples were never actively seeking each other, its simply a case of them finding something they never intented to find and taking that risk that they never intended to do. I'm very happy for them xx
Happy birthday
Hope you have a fab day and have everything you wish for!
Chaos xxx
Put me down please xxx
Oh and the delightful Wrats Too!! xxx
Unforunately i won't be able to attend this event now. You know how things you don't expect tend to pop up when you least expect them.
My apolgises xxx
Hope the night goes fine and you all have a fab time xxx
I love camping, and i have to admit, this one sounds interesting!
Depending on the distance and the final cost per a person, will you stick my name down???
Can you stick me on the list please! I got a lift!!!
Cock, Because you love me... (hehe, what a joke!) could you please put me down for Friday. Miss Slut wants someone to hold her hand, and i'm quite happy to give support, esp with her breasts!
Ta Chickens ! xxx
Yes, you read correctly! Chaos has returned home and will be dogging in Derbyshire tonight. This is just a heads up for all you doggers out there!
Tonight i will be dressed to impress, playing with my toy and showing affection to my driver. I'm happy for people to approach, chat to us, play along side, etc. Though i do expect everyone to follow the rules, (ie. not touching without permission, etc)or quite frankly the show is over!
Loved to meet another couple out tonight, so if they is anyone out there dogging as a couple tonight, my mail box is open and they are no expectations.
All Carparks that i visit tonight are mentioned in Swinging Heaven's Dogging Locations. There's your clue to find me!
Chaos xxx
I will make another trip up to blidworth hopefully before december and see if i can be advised of other locations before blidworth is closed to us all :cry: 
), shame you were so shy, i know for a fact they were a few females in the room pining for you. :twisted: If i wasn't so shy i would of lured you into a trap of horny women (not the prettiest sight i assure you!) :lol: 
I won't mention your name just incase you get embrassed, but i would just like to say a big Thank you! I've liked you for so long, but behind this hard faced cow, i can be quite shy and never let on. If your interested in meeting outside a social sometime, my mail box is always open!!! 
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