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Bisexual Male, 53
Bisexual Female, 41
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Sexpert
Alex would say mine
I like Cherrybuttons the best.
If someone doesnt have a face pic, well, I can't really say they look great, but then I do tend to look for more than tits and arse (Even being bi) :shock:
I like Cherrybuttons the best.
If someone doesnt have a face pic, well, I can't really say they look great, but then I do tend to look for more than tits and arse (Even being bi) :shock:
Sexpert
God Louise,
Can't believe I forgot The Untouchables, that should be in my top 5.
Can't believe I forgot The Untouchables, that should be in my top 5.
Sexpert
Johnjo
We are always unbaised and as honest as we can be in our reviews. They are long and detailed and based on our experience of the club on that night and not as a collective feeling of several nights.
We will always give a detailed account of all the facilities and the layout of the club as well as such things as cleaniness, which is as the top of alot of people's lists and atmosphere, though as some people have rightly pointed out, different clubs can be different on different nights, as even a club with the best facilities in the world is not much good without any people in it.
We have heard that Utopia has suffered in this way in the last year or so from several people though will state we have not been there yet ourselves.
People are right to say your expressing your own opinion. Some people really like the fact that Chams is a towel/sauna enviroment but we like a club that has that as an option but also allows us to dress up (Having said that we do like Chams)
At the end of the day its always different strokes for different folks. We just outline the experience we had at the club and what it had to offer, and hopefully that will be useful for some people.
Some clubs can also be in inconsistant in their standard of service or the experience you have. Sometimes that can be down to the people present and how you find them, othertimes it can be down to the owners or staff. We have given a good review to one venue only to find our experience differed greatly when we returned on other ocasions.
We won't review a club on a second ocasion until at least a year has lapsed from the last time we reviewed it.
We are always unbaised and as honest as we can be in our reviews. They are long and detailed and based on our experience of the club on that night and not as a collective feeling of several nights.
We will always give a detailed account of all the facilities and the layout of the club as well as such things as cleaniness, which is as the top of alot of people's lists and atmosphere, though as some people have rightly pointed out, different clubs can be different on different nights, as even a club with the best facilities in the world is not much good without any people in it.
We have heard that Utopia has suffered in this way in the last year or so from several people though will state we have not been there yet ourselves.
People are right to say your expressing your own opinion. Some people really like the fact that Chams is a towel/sauna enviroment but we like a club that has that as an option but also allows us to dress up (Having said that we do like Chams)
At the end of the day its always different strokes for different folks. We just outline the experience we had at the club and what it had to offer, and hopefully that will be useful for some people.
Some clubs can also be in inconsistant in their standard of service or the experience you have. Sometimes that can be down to the people present and how you find them, othertimes it can be down to the owners or staff. We have given a good review to one venue only to find our experience differed greatly when we returned on other ocasions.
We won't review a club on a second ocasion until at least a year has lapsed from the last time we reviewed it.
Sexpert
I love you.
Not just after, but before and during.
To each other.
If we played with someone else and we clicked, hopefully it be something along the lines of
That was great.
or Wanna go again?
Not just after, but before and during.
To each other.
If we played with someone else and we clicked, hopefully it be something along the lines of
That was great.
or Wanna go again?
Sexpert
We go every sex months, we never have unsafe sex with anyone as our profile states (Except with each other)
We would never take that risk.
If other people want to do so, that is their affair and they may have their reasons. No doubt there are people on this site whom are hiv positive and others whom are less concerned about catching it, as we note from the regularity that bareback rooms pop up.
That is their decision, but we won't be breaking our rules. Condoms all round.
We would never take that risk.
If other people want to do so, that is their affair and they may have their reasons. No doubt there are people on this site whom are hiv positive and others whom are less concerned about catching it, as we note from the regularity that bareback rooms pop up.
That is their decision, but we won't be breaking our rules. Condoms all round.
Sexpert
We like to play regulary if possible, sex getters better with people you already know as there isn't first nerves to overcome and you already have some idea how to push each others buttons.
We aren't always in the mood to play with single guys, though we would rather if possible play with someone we knew already but then its always a case of if all parties are free at the right time.
Also some people aren't always truthful about their situation with their partners and claim they're free when they really are not.
Hence some single guys play only once in a while.
We aren't always in the mood to play with single guys, though we would rather if possible play with someone we knew already but then its always a case of if all parties are free at the right time.
Also some people aren't always truthful about their situation with their partners and claim they're free when they really are not.
Hence some single guys play only once in a while.
Sexpert
We can recommend La Chambre,
Our complaint was the lack of toilets for such a large venue, but overall we thought it was very good.
We haven't been since 2004 and understand its had some areas added since then, but we hope to go back soon.
Infusion is Blackpool is nice too but sometimes a little quiet. Call them ahead and find out what is the best night to go. Saturdays is the best night for both venues for couples. (Couples only) We also quite like Euphoria in Blackpool, its a hotel and its different to most other clubs, but if dancing is your thing, you will like it, plus they now also have a jacuzzi.
Our complaint was the lack of toilets for such a large venue, but overall we thought it was very good.
We haven't been since 2004 and understand its had some areas added since then, but we hope to go back soon.
Infusion is Blackpool is nice too but sometimes a little quiet. Call them ahead and find out what is the best night to go. Saturdays is the best night for both venues for couples. (Couples only) We also quite like Euphoria in Blackpool, its a hotel and its different to most other clubs, but if dancing is your thing, you will like it, plus they now also have a jacuzzi.
Sexpert
Totally agree with all the points made by x fanny x on this issue.
We like to come on to chat and say hi to friends, some of whom we have met and some of whom we have yet to meet.
If we are free we will arrange to meet someone, but the rest of time its a social thing as we wind down before going to bed.
If the rooms were just totally sex orientated, no we wouldn't use them.
We also goto clubs too and sometimes we play and sometimes we dont, we dont always plan.
We like to come on to chat and say hi to friends, some of whom we have met and some of whom we have yet to meet.
If we are free we will arrange to meet someone, but the rest of time its a social thing as we wind down before going to bed.
If the rooms were just totally sex orientated, no we wouldn't use them.
We also goto clubs too and sometimes we play and sometimes we dont, we dont always plan.
Sexpert
Impossible to mention just one:
Dead Poets Society
Magnolia
Open Range
A Bridge Too Far
12 Angry Men (The orginal black and white version)
The Wild Geese
JFK
Where Eagles Dare
Hillsborough
The Shawkshank Redemption
American Beauty
Dog Day Afernoon
Scarface
Scent Of A Woman
Frequency
Its A Wonderful Life
This Is Spinal Tap
The Lord Of The Rings Trilogy
Alien
Aliens
The orginal Star Wars Trilogy
Back To The Future Trilogy
Cocoon
Better Off Dead
Toy Story 1 and 2
Cars
We Are Marshall
Hoosiers (Called Best Shot in the UK)
Thunderball
You Only Live Twice
The Spy Who Loved me
American History X
And The Band Played On
The Fog (The orginal version, not that shite remake)
Big Trouble In Little China
Diehard
Goodfellas
Glory
Gross Point Blank
Midnight Run
Oliver Twist (The musical version)
Missisipi Burning
Bugsy Malone
To name a few..... lol
Dead Poets Society
Magnolia
Open Range
A Bridge Too Far
12 Angry Men (The orginal black and white version)
The Wild Geese
JFK
Where Eagles Dare
Hillsborough
The Shawkshank Redemption
American Beauty
Dog Day Afernoon
Scarface
Scent Of A Woman
Frequency
Its A Wonderful Life
This Is Spinal Tap
The Lord Of The Rings Trilogy
Alien
Aliens
The orginal Star Wars Trilogy
Back To The Future Trilogy
Cocoon
Better Off Dead
Toy Story 1 and 2
Cars
We Are Marshall
Hoosiers (Called Best Shot in the UK)
Thunderball
You Only Live Twice
The Spy Who Loved me
American History X
And The Band Played On
The Fog (The orginal version, not that shite remake)
Big Trouble In Little China
Diehard
Goodfellas
Glory
Gross Point Blank
Midnight Run
Oliver Twist (The musical version)
Missisipi Burning
Bugsy Malone
To name a few..... lol
Sexpert
Yeah we heard the councils up north and in Scotland cane be quite tough about opening clubs.
Sexpert
We didnt make comments on the type of people there, or who we might be going with because, every week at a club is different in that respect, there's always different people there - its just something you can never gurantee or expect. (In fact its always better to go a club with no expectations of who you might meet, you will generally have a better time that way)
Liberty's has probably got one of the best chill out areas that we have seen, including a working fireplace.
Liberty's has probably got one of the best chill out areas that we have seen, including a working fireplace.
Sexpert
Your number 5 would be the next one on our list,
Which club was that Freckle?
Bad experience?
Which club was that Freckle?
Bad experience?
Sexpert
Hi guys,
We will be going to Liberty Elite next weekend, booked in for Friday and Saturday to celebrate Alex's birthday. Friday is free for members as part of their opening of the newly designed play areas.
We have some other friends from London joining us on the Saturday.
Be lovely to see some of our friends from the chatroom if anyone can make it. Should be a good weekend.
A and A xxx
We will be going to Liberty Elite next weekend, booked in for Friday and Saturday to celebrate Alex's birthday. Friday is free for members as part of their opening of the newly designed play areas.
We have some other friends from London joining us on the Saturday.
Be lovely to see some of our friends from the chatroom if anyone can make it. Should be a good weekend.
A and A xxx
Sexpert
lol,
ten views and no one has responded yet?
Except you of course Freckly
1) Clean
2) Friendly and helpful staff
3) Layout condusive to creating a good atmosphere
4) Wet facilities (Showers, Jacuzzi, if there's a pool, fab too)
5) Good music, as we do like to dance - appreciate that is less important to some people, but works for us.
ten views and no one has responded yet?
Except you of course Freckly
1) Clean
2) Friendly and helpful staff
3) Layout condusive to creating a good atmosphere
4) Wet facilities (Showers, Jacuzzi, if there's a pool, fab too)
5) Good music, as we do like to dance - appreciate that is less important to some people, but works for us.
Sexpert
If your visiting a Swingers Club / Party either as a newcomer or a veteran what are the most important things to you about the club, what it has to offer, facilities etc.
We know everyone likes different things from their nights out.
What are your 5 most important things, in order of importance?
Fire away!
Alex and Asha
We know everyone likes different things from their nights out.
What are your 5 most important things, in order of importance?
Fire away!
Alex and Asha
Sexpert
Pending Asha's rota we will go, if she is on an early the next day it might have to be a flying visit from us. Have to play that by ear.
Be good to see you all.
Be good to see you all.
Sexpert
Happy New Year from both of us to all SH members,
We hope you all have a good one.
Especially
Biblackpanther
blckgirlwhteguy
Furball Hug
SexyToni
Snaz
Snaggles
Hj
wrats
roxy
Sweetpea
and lots of others xxxxx
Love ya xxxx
We hope you all have a good one.
Especially
Biblackpanther
blckgirlwhteguy
Furball Hug
SexyToni
Snaz
Snaggles
Hj
wrats
roxy
Sweetpea
and lots of others xxxxx
Love ya xxxx
Sexpert
:D :D :D :D :D :D Awwwwwwwwwwww thanks guys, very touched by all your messages, both here and to our profile. It is really good to be home and wasn't the best trip.
Big thanks to Kippo and Furby (or furball as Alex likes to call her) for acting as communications link the morning of my flight - I made the plane depart 30 minutes late! So everyone was well happy with me!
See you all soon, in the room xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Snaz big hugs and kisses to you especially, oh and John thanks for the poems - lol
Sexpert
we dont know Mrs B ourselves but in the true spirit of the Site we would like to pass on our sincerest best wishes for a speedy recovery and hope you both have a happy xmas, just take it easy on the booze!
Asha and Alex xxxx
Asha and Alex xxxx
Sexpert
We would like to give a non stop licking good quality Xmas deep sea snorkinling session to the following people (slight name changes have been used for comic effect)
wht4black
biblackpanther (snopolopocus)
Furball hugs your hard bits
Louise
Toni
Kentswingers
mrlovecourier
blkcat
Honourable tit licking goes to:
Cherry Tree
wht4black
biblackpanther (snopolopocus)
Furball hugs your hard bits
Louise
Toni
Kentswingers
mrlovecourier
blkcat
Honourable tit licking goes to:
Cherry Tree
Sexpert
It saddens me to read that an obviously popular event was married by this persons actions.
I don't think blanket bans on pictures at parties and socials are the answer, the simple soloution is always ask whoever your taking a picture of if its okay to take it, and where it might be used (the later not always easy to define)
Back when swinging was all about ads in the back of loot, which is how I first got involved in it with an ex, god, years ago. Myself and my then partner met up with a couple whom owned a pub in Lecesiter. After asking us if we were up for being videoed. To which we gave a resounding no to. I discovered that later we were actually being filmed, even though the guy in question tried to maintain the camera was off. Well knowing something about Cameras, I put the lens cap on it, rewound the tape and then camera blacked the whole thing from the beginning.
We were very young and somewhat naieve back then, but jesus that was a horrorfying experience and I didnt come back to the scene after that until some ten years later.
To hear of anything similar, I always find very disrespectful.
Has this person even apologised??
I don't think blanket bans on pictures at parties and socials are the answer, the simple soloution is always ask whoever your taking a picture of if its okay to take it, and where it might be used (the later not always easy to define)
Back when swinging was all about ads in the back of loot, which is how I first got involved in it with an ex, god, years ago. Myself and my then partner met up with a couple whom owned a pub in Lecesiter. After asking us if we were up for being videoed. To which we gave a resounding no to. I discovered that later we were actually being filmed, even though the guy in question tried to maintain the camera was off. Well knowing something about Cameras, I put the lens cap on it, rewound the tape and then camera blacked the whole thing from the beginning.
We were very young and somewhat naieve back then, but jesus that was a horrorfying experience and I didnt come back to the scene after that until some ten years later.
To hear of anything similar, I always find very disrespectful.
Has this person even apologised??
Sexpert
This one is for anyone who has ever been in a lonely place, I wrote this before I met Asha, its not exactly a poem, but its close enough..
from Jerichos Walls Are Falling:
Love. I always thought I would have found it by now. I am not just talking about an emotion shared between two people. I mean something greater, an unparalleled connection, something so pure, something so soulful; something that transcends any other experience that you ever shared with anyone in your life.
I know it is hard to find but I just thought I would have reached with someone, in that way. Now, now the road ahead is so uncertain and I have been touched by the dark and it wants to keep me there, it doesn’t want to let go, it surrounds me, isolates me and then it try’s to suffocate me.
But the more it try’s to do that, the stronger I must become, with each obstacle it throws into my path it will cover me with a coat of new resilience. I cannot let it turn my fears into bitterness, my failures into depression, my hopes and dreams must live on, as they always have and I will take this evil and I will turn it around, against itself because what does not kill me will make me stronger and on the days when I can no longer walk, those will be the days when I learn to fly and if that love does not seek me out in this lifetime then I shall find it in the next when all those who have gone before us will be re-united with their soul mates and we will stand together so pure of heart that our strength will never die.
And those who looked down upon us, who tried to isolate us, whose contempt for us was always made so clear, I will pity them, for such a love they could never have, for they were the ones who were consumed by their own fears and ignorance and as we rise up they will look up towards us but we, we will no longer see them as they just fade away.
Then our hearts will be triumphant when the angels hold our hands and fly with us through this life, or the next.
By Alex
from Jerichos Walls Are Falling:
Love. I always thought I would have found it by now. I am not just talking about an emotion shared between two people. I mean something greater, an unparalleled connection, something so pure, something so soulful; something that transcends any other experience that you ever shared with anyone in your life.
I know it is hard to find but I just thought I would have reached with someone, in that way. Now, now the road ahead is so uncertain and I have been touched by the dark and it wants to keep me there, it doesn’t want to let go, it surrounds me, isolates me and then it try’s to suffocate me.
But the more it try’s to do that, the stronger I must become, with each obstacle it throws into my path it will cover me with a coat of new resilience. I cannot let it turn my fears into bitterness, my failures into depression, my hopes and dreams must live on, as they always have and I will take this evil and I will turn it around, against itself because what does not kill me will make me stronger and on the days when I can no longer walk, those will be the days when I learn to fly and if that love does not seek me out in this lifetime then I shall find it in the next when all those who have gone before us will be re-united with their soul mates and we will stand together so pure of heart that our strength will never die.
And those who looked down upon us, who tried to isolate us, whose contempt for us was always made so clear, I will pity them, for such a love they could never have, for they were the ones who were consumed by their own fears and ignorance and as we rise up they will look up towards us but we, we will no longer see them as they just fade away.
Then our hearts will be triumphant when the angels hold our hands and fly with us through this life, or the next.
By Alex
Sexpert
Xmas Day
Asha is working in the morning, while I prepare Xmas dinner.
At some stage I will call my mother for advice on cooking something I have forgotten about.
Asha back around 3pm, we shall probably eat around 4pm, lots of pressies for her under our new fake, silver, xmas tree.
Go for a short walk to walk off dinner. ome back, open pressies, watch some TV
'Ah mr Bond, I've been expecting you....'
followed by rudies...
New Years Eve,
Suppose to be in Rotterdam, but where ever we are, I will be getting down on one knee and asking the big question.
mmmm I hope Asha doesn't read this forum before then. Fortunately she just tends to use chat.
Asha is working in the morning, while I prepare Xmas dinner.
At some stage I will call my mother for advice on cooking something I have forgotten about.
Asha back around 3pm, we shall probably eat around 4pm, lots of pressies for her under our new fake, silver, xmas tree.
Go for a short walk to walk off dinner. ome back, open pressies, watch some TV
'Ah mr Bond, I've been expecting you....'
followed by rudies...
New Years Eve,
Suppose to be in Rotterdam, but where ever we are, I will be getting down on one knee and asking the big question.
mmmm I hope Asha doesn't read this forum before then. Fortunately she just tends to use chat.
Sexpert
I didn't comment on the chatroom Ops myself, previously and we have never made a complaint about someone personally, but I know how hard to job can be having been one myself on a different site back in the days of the old forums. (Not on here)
We think they do a good job.
I think our thoughts on this subject have come a close, any the future will tell what people want, as I said before, you will always find us predominantly in the main chatrooms anyway.
We think they do a good job.
I think our thoughts on this subject have come a close, any the future will tell what people want, as I said before, you will always find us predominantly in the main chatrooms anyway.
