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nudist beaches not really for us, we're thinking of trying Beverleys club in Port D'es Torrent, just the website is a bit poo and doesnt really give much away!
Sexlightened
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Sexlightened
Anyone going to Partners tonight? We're thinking of going, havent been on couples night before so we're wondering if many actually go?
Cheers
Cheers
Sexlightened
Anyone else in Ibiza on these dates?
We'll be staying in Playa D'en Bossa if anyone fancies maybe meeting up one night?
We'll be staying in Playa D'en Bossa if anyone fancies maybe meeting up one night?
Sexlightened
MrsC is very straight forward with her mum (our main babysitter) and tells her who we're going out with and where to.....in the last few months we've stayed in verious different hotels in different cities, various peoples houses and met various different couples, all of which her mum knows about!!!
I'm sure she knows what we're upto, MrsC isnt sure if she knows but doesnt care if she does!
In that respect the only person we have to lie to is my mum but she doesnt babysit all that often and when she does we just dont tell her anything
I'm sure she knows what we're upto, MrsC isnt sure if she knows but doesnt care if she does!
In that respect the only person we have to lie to is my mum but she doesnt babysit all that often and when she does we just dont tell her anything
Sexlightened
Quote by wild rose and the stag
4 weeks of no bin being emptied ffs..it was bad enough when they decided last summer that it would now be the norm to have our bins emptied fortnightly all in the name of recycling..
i know about health and safety issues although its getting past a joke imo.. this isnt about that its about the council not making other arrangements since the snow went and just saying stuff the people, we will empty the bins as we always do..let them wait another couple of weeks..rant over
To be honest i can see why you're pissed off, even though our roads were atrocious last weekend our bins still got emptied. We live on a road that is a hill on both sides of my house to get to the main road and our binmen managed....therefore why cant others?
It's plain as day though that some council's are a lot more H&S mad, PC etc than others.
Sexlightened
Ordinarily i would say "bunch of pussies - just get on with it"....however i attended a management development course on Monday regarding H&S at Work Act and how, as managers, we have a 'Duty of Care' for our employees.
Taking this duty of care into consideration and also depending on what road conditions are like down your way, then the managers have got it right. All it takes is for 1 of the operatives emptying bins to slip, fall into the path of an oncoming car and get hit and die, and said managers suddenly become liable under the 'Corporate Manslaughter & Homicide Act' and end up facing a sizeable fine and/or prison sentence.
This duty of care issue has certainly opened my eyes to what i will, wont & cant ask my lads to do now at work, its just not worth the risk!
Taking this duty of care into consideration and also depending on what road conditions are like down your way, then the managers have got it right. All it takes is for 1 of the operatives emptying bins to slip, fall into the path of an oncoming car and get hit and die, and said managers suddenly become liable under the 'Corporate Manslaughter & Homicide Act' and end up facing a sizeable fine and/or prison sentence.
This duty of care issue has certainly opened my eyes to what i will, wont & cant ask my lads to do now at work, its just not worth the risk!
Sexlightened
Sloth from the Goonies:
Deffo seperated at birth or what? :lol: :lol:
Deffo seperated at birth or what?
:lol: :lol: Sexlightened
Quote by foxylady2209
Clearly the thread was placed simply to obtain posts that didn't agree with the OP's personal opinion and the carefully selected web-references. Thus allowing the OP to disagree with them.
Point - if you ask for 'thoughts' it really is rather rude to then jump on the thoughts and disagree with them.
Defining one's self as a swinger is not a matter of measurable fact, it's a matter of opinion. And not someone else's opinion at that. So if you ask if other people agree with you (in your definition of what a swinger is) and they say 'no', my feeling is that you should accept it as their opinion, just as valid as your opinion.
You honestly believe i started a thread purely so i could disagree with anyone & everyone who replied??? Fair enough, its your opinion i suppose, you couldnt be further from the truth if you tried but there you go!
I did ask for thoughts, and as far as i'm aware i wasnt being rude, and the fact that i've disagreed with the thoughts of others clearly shows i have my own opinions. If i agreed with everything everybody else has posted i'd be a pretty mixed up individual right now.
One one hand you're telling me to accept other people's opinions, then on the other hand you're having a go at me for not agreeing with other peoples? makes no sense to me
Sexlightened
Maybe she isnt classed as a swinger then.
As a single fem that is looking to play with couples, do you class yourself as a swinger?
As a single fem that is looking to play with couples, do you class yourself as a swinger?
Sexlightened
Quote by noladreams30
Just out of interest, the single bi female you say you're looking for, what is she if not a swinger?
If she plays with couples then she is according to all the perceptions of swingers i've seen so far as highlighted in the OP.
Sexlightened
for the love of god please call an ambulance for me, my sides are splitting at the hilarity of your sarcasm 
Sexlightened
Quote by Calista
Surely the plural of penis is orgy?
Noooooooo....surely the plural of penis is Labour Party?
Sexlightened
Quote by Angel Chat
The plot thickens, so now you're telling me you're a partial liar who also cant remember what she has lied about in the past to cover her tracks? lmfao
No, now you're mixing me up with the married/otherwise attached men I keep finding myself involved with 
:lol: Being a swingle is far simpler, even if my "sexuality" doesn't match up with the "profile text" ;)It's actually very clever y'see. That way, people who are just looking for a single bi female will probably pass my profile by. Those who are interested in me will probably take the time to read the text and then they'll realise I'm not strictly straight anyway. Everyone wins!
:lol:I know, i'm just messing with ya :lol: To be honest i can understand why you have your profile the way you do, makes your life a lot simpler i suppose!
Sexlightened
Quote by splendid_
singles are swingers. Because I say so.
There's an argument with no comeback....the gospel according to splendid
Sorry, but you need better reasoning than that!
No need to apologise.
I don't. Wiki is based on people's perceptions.. you have backed it up with your own. I have given my perception and it holds as much weight.
I have also added more of my opinion later on. Basically a label is whatever the person who is using it defines it as.
So putting aside the fact that every definition i've found on the net of a swinger states a couple that play with other couples or singles, your one perception and argument that singles are swingers because you say so holds as much weight? righto
Sexlightened
Quote by splendid_
singles are swingers. Because I say so.
There's an argument with no comeback....the gospel according to splendid
Sorry, but you need better reasoning than that!
Sexlightened
Quote by Angel Chat
So am I a swinger? By your definition, maybe not. By mine? Yes, and I like it that way
On the contrary....i would say you very much are a swinger, as your reasons for what your profile states and the reality are 2 completely different things.
So what you're saying then is that in fact you're lying through you're back teeth on your profile? :lol:
:giggle: Yep :mrgreen:
Cool....well thats cleared that one up
Actually I've just looked again, and although in the "sexuality" bit I've ticked Straight Female, it does say in the body of text (which is 691 words, I just checked in MS Word :shock: :lol
that I do play with certain females. So in fact, I'm not a complete liar :smug:
The plot thickens, so now you're telling me you're a partial liar who also cant remember what she has lied about in the past to cover her tracks? lmfao
Sexlightened
Ok so wiki is crap, you go and find another site then where it states that swinging constitutes 2 singles engaging in sexual activities together....i've found countless other sites that all list couples.
If wiki is so mis-informed, show me the site that is informed
If wiki is so mis-informed, show me the site that is informed
Sexlightened
Quote by Angel Chat
So am I a swinger? By your definition, maybe not. By mine? Yes, and I like it that way
On the contrary....i would say you very much are a swinger, as your reasons for what your profile states and the reality are 2 completely different things.
So what you're saying then is that in fact you're lying through you're back teeth on your profile? :lol:
:giggle: Yep :mrgreen:
Cool....well thats cleared that one up
Sexlightened
Quote by westerross
Cheating? :grin:
I know you are joking but I really - so really disgree with that. I am married, but for various reasons Angelica has decided that I can swing on my own. And I can assure you I am not cheating. She has agreed to be available to speak to anyone who wants to confirm that but, quite frankly, if anyone distrusts me enough to want to do that then I ain't swinging with them anyway.
Sorry - raw nerve there!!
I know you know i was joking, and i know you really disagree with me, but i really really was joking, it was said tongue in cheek. I know of quite a few married people who play alone with full consent of their partner so dont get too uptight with a remark said in jest.
I dare say there are an awful lot of married people on this site and many others who play alone with consent, but then lets not forget i bet there is another awful lot of married people who play alone without their partners consent!!!
Sexlightened
Quote by Angel Chat
So am I a swinger? By your definition, maybe not. By mine? Yes, and I like it that way
On the contrary....i would say you very much are a swinger, as your reasons for what your profile states and the reality are 2 completely different things.
So what you're saying then is that in fact you're lying through you're back teeth on your profile? :lol:
Sexlightened
Quote by foxylady2209
For instance, what do you call a married person who swings alone? (Sounds like the start of a bad joke LOL)
Cheating? :grin:
Sexlightened
This is something i've commonly though about in relation to the singles on the site, none more so than lately when reading through a particular thread and a single male stating that he very very rarely meets couples, which kind of leaves the single male wanting to meet single fem's only or a group of fem's (lmfao - like that will ever happen )
Now, does a single male meeting a single female constitute swinging? In my opinion it doesnt, and on all of the website i've viewed on the subject of swinging and attempting to categorize swingers, not one site mentions the act of 2 singles getting it on as an act of swinging.
To quote wikipedia "Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple" it also continues "swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual"
The same can be said of single fems on the site seeking single males only, can this be construed as swinging? Again i personally think no, going back to the quote from wiki, singles are mentioned in activities with couples, but not engaging in activities by themselves.
So.....what exactly is a swinger then? I personally think that a single male/fem on the site looking for single fem/male only aren't swingers, but are here simply hoping for no strings sex with as many or as few as possible, not that there is anything wrong with that, each to their own, but can these folk really class themselves as swingers?
Thoughts?
)Now, does a single male meeting a single female constitute swinging? In my opinion it doesnt, and on all of the website i've viewed on the subject of swinging and attempting to categorize swingers, not one site mentions the act of 2 singles getting it on as an act of swinging.
To quote wikipedia "Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple" it also continues "swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual"
The same can be said of single fems on the site seeking single males only, can this be construed as swinging? Again i personally think no, going back to the quote from wiki, singles are mentioned in activities with couples, but not engaging in activities by themselves.
So.....what exactly is a swinger then? I personally think that a single male/fem on the site looking for single fem/male only aren't swingers, but are here simply hoping for no strings sex with as many or as few as possible, not that there is anything wrong with that, each to their own, but can these folk really class themselves as swingers?
Thoughts?
Sexlightened
Not strictly true....we knew that already!!
In the mini series she did about polygamy, monogamy etc when she stayed with a load of swingers in america and then germany etc, she said on that programme she'd had a couple of threesomes!
edit - the title is 25 things you may not know about me.....thats fair enough then.
In the mini series she did about polygamy, monogamy etc when she stayed with a load of swingers in america and then germany etc, she said on that programme she'd had a couple of threesomes!
edit - the title is 25 things you may not know about me.....thats fair enough then.
