Hi, We are new to all this and naturally nervous about meeting others. We know what we like and have set our criteria. We are not willing to lower our sights and when we consider how long it took to find each other, finding the right couple for us may take some time as well. Remember the saying "Good things come to those who wait".
We would like to hear from other newbies who have been to munches and parties or clubs and how they got on. Where they pressured or pestered by single men?
Let us know.
"Theres nothing queer as folk" If you've been watching this site for a while, you'll no doubt know that by now. Had a look at your profile, needs more info and you have no ad as yet. What are you looking for? Have fun.
Thank you, you said it! Like we said, we are not doggers! And the reason MOST men go looking for doggers is to join in! What red blooded male wouldn't! We are looking for long term friendship with the right couple. We will only meet them when we are fully satisfied they match what we are looking for. That means building up trust over time getting to know each other. Something doggers who let others join in probably don't do. They may know what car they have and its registration or the size of the guys cock!
We are different animals and doggers can do as they wish, they simply aren't what we are looking for.
On the Phone Vs Cam point
When we say Webcamming, we do mean dressed! We have a mic as well and use both. Therefore we can have a conference, . Where all can hear and speak at the same time.
Also we do not wish to give out our phone number to people we don’t know. One of the
good things about the internet is the ability to communicate without giving away personal info such as phone numbers. If we do not wish to chat again with someone then we simple delete them. Give out our phone number and we may end up with nuisance calls and that’s not so simple to cure.
As you can probably tell we are very particular about the people we socialize with. There are probably very few couples out there that match our requirements. We know they will be hard to find, but until we find them, we will just keep looking. So all you doggers enjoy yourselves, just don't bother contacting us.
Well if we had entered this in "Lets meet" then yes we would agree with you. However we didn't and this is the best place to chat about it, or are you against any constructive chat about such matters?
We are new to the scene and have found that some people who contact us are not willing to chat and show webcam on first contact. Instead they want a fem/fem phone call. We can understand that they want to ensure the female is interested, however the fact that she is prepared to chat and show herself on cam should prove she is!
The other reason for using a webcam is obvious! To see if we find each other attractive! When finding a partner wasn't physical attraction the first step? There is no way we could play with anyone we didn't find attractive. So simply from seeing each other right at the start, we know whether or not we want to go any further. After that it’s down to personalities. We don't trust pictures! We do trust the cam. I should stress we are not doggers! Who don't seem to be bothered who they have sex with. We are looking for first of all good friends with a matching lifestyle, for long term friendship and trust.
Some people contact us who have no profile, no pics and no cam, saying they have a hotel booked next week, like to meet! Well no we don't. We need to know who we are meeting first and build up trust. Are we asking too much? Well if it is then we just won't meet anyone. We have standards and we are sticking to them.
Sorry guys we are going to have to drop out of Thursday's bouling. Ann has a very early appointment in manchester on friday and she still isn't sure she wants to meet with others yet. Upto now we have only webcammed and she's ok with that. We would be up till late Thursday night and she needs her beauty sleep, ready for a very early start on friday.
Maybe another time.
D&A
One thing that stops me is when I get the impression she just isn't enjoying it. Usually the second time and because there’s too much lubrication. Before I had the snip it was putting on condoms and the thought of if it had leaked, Arrr its that time of the month again lol.
Dave
We have never been out with the posse and wish to join you all on Thurday. see you there.
D&A
We are new to scene and still not met anyone. This sounds like a great idea as we can meet new friends and get to know then without pressure. We take it emails are sent out informing of events. Hope to hear form you soon.
Dave&Ann
Are there any couples interested in having a Rochdale Munch?
DaveAnn
We are new to the scene and may only want to watch to start with, is that ok? We would like to know how many swinging couples there are in Rochdale and whether they only use clubs like Liasons or have private groups in own homes. We would feel happy to first chat on cam and then meet for same room fun, ther who knows. Is Liasons the best first step?
DaveAnn
