Quote by davidfranklin
Only the one head and remarkedly normal hence the amazement!
Maybe two heads would help but enough of the inuendo.........
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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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Quote by davidfranklin
certainly not arrogant and don't want to lose my newly found status, simply amazed it is such hard work to find a match in a City of 10m people!!
You can take up the challenge any time by the way !!
i might just do that
and yes, I'm kinda amazed too, do you have two heads?
I can also be vouched for.Quote by davidfranklin
........there simply must be a number of women out there in London who would love a night / evening with someone like me ...
Careful David you're starting to sound a little arrogant now, dont get too cocky in your new found thumb up from the ladies, we can take it away again just as quick as we dish it out
I'd still meet ya though, like I say, i enjoy a challenge :twisted:
For me, there's no bigger turn off than a bloke, or woman who's easy.
Chances are they're easy with everyone else too, and I'd rather waste my time, play pm tennis or whatever if necesary to sort the wheat from the chaff.
Probably also explains why I tend to go for women who are 'allegedly' straight!! :shock: i like the challenge :twisted:
Chances are they're easy with everyone else too, and I'd rather waste my time, play pm tennis or whatever if necesary to sort the wheat from the chaff.
Probably also explains why I tend to go for women who are 'allegedly' straight!! :shock: i like the challenge :twisted:
You know what - given the thought and effort that went into writing the post and if it's anything to go by, I'd meet ya. If the one-liner brigade get more response than this one does there's something wrong with people !! (and besides which, I like a challenge :
But
I'm not in London :doh: ffs
Bollox 
I am experienced, know all the buttons to push, have great stamina and am very imaginative. Have tried most things but do not believe in stopping there.... :twisted: )
But
I'm not in London :doh: ffs
Bollox Quote by Calista
Hi Cally....
Not got much idea about this piercing lark, but what i lack in knowledge I make up for in enthusiasm.
"What about anaesthetic!?" I hear you cry :shock:
Nah I'll be fine as long as there's not too much blood and you pass out before you can start screaming. :thumbup:
Catch ya later hun.
Easy :shock: :shock: :shock: funiily enough I left out the bit where I actually had it done aged 18, with half a bottle of vodka inside me and done by a friend of a friend!
ohhh the memories - this takes me back to being...15.. i think - group of us decided we needed more holes - 'pierced' each other in the local snooker hall on a pool table with quite literally panel pin type nail things and a hammer, I did one lad's ear and it took us 20 minutes to unfix him and his ear lobe from the table :shock: 
ahhhh mispent youth :twisted:
Quote by da69ve
Call me gulible - everyone doesBut it all looks ok to me, info has been given, it's been stated it's a no pressure to join in occasion (other than self play)??
I can't figure out why all these questions are being asked by people that have absolutely no intention of turning up to this :confused: :confused: :confused:
:thumbup:
because I'm nosey and would like to know more?
and understand why a gay bloke, a totally confident of his heterosexuality staright bloke ...who's mate doesnt know if he's bi or not :shock: , but they're comfortable enough with the 'lets wank in front of each other thing to be inviting another guy in, and it doesnt matter if he's straight/ bi/ gay/ whatever'
pardon me for being a tad inquisitive and asking - but i take your point , i'm not invited, i wont be turning up to this, so what right have I got asking questions.
I'd turn up to this, but they're not looking for a pervy fem . Seriously though, I dont 'get' what the whole wank club thing is about - so maybe i need to experience it to understand it??? 
Its this though:
why? 
why?
is it a 'so confident of his heterosexuality that he's happy to wank and be watched by other blokes just cos he's comfy with that' thing, as you say
or is it a so confident (in a macho bullshit (tm Dambuster) kinda way) that he needs to test it out?
help me out with this please - I'm a fem, and i dont get it, i need enlightening
. Seriously though, I dont 'get' what the whole wank club thing is about - so maybe i need to experience it to understand it??? Its this though:
Quote by rugbysock
Looking for a 3rd male for some porn watching, wanking and sucking. You can join in for some mutual, or if shy, just sit back and watch the action. But, you must be willing to get naked so we can see your stiffy as well.
why?
Hes not gay at all.
In fact he is so confident of his hetero sexuality he is willing to get naked and wank off with other men watching and it won't bother him.
why?
is it a 'so confident of his heterosexuality that he's happy to wank and be watched by other blokes just cos he's comfy with that' thing, as you say
or is it a so confident (in a macho bullshit (tm Dambuster) kinda way) that he needs to test it out?
help me out with this please - I'm a fem, and i dont get it, i need enlightening
Quote by Morbius
I want a woman around 5 1/2 feet, brunette, big boobs and an arse to die for
..... oh hold on :confused: .....
...I have that one, so yeah not really fussed on the 3rd of a 3some :twisted: :grin::scared:
I know this is a tongue in cheek hun, but it really does sum up the majority of my experience so far.
Quote by H-x
I get loads of pm's, most of which are directed at any sbf with no regard to who I am, from people who would probably not give me a second glance walking down the street.
H.x
It's true that is, very true.
I am already tired of being the token sbf, and of being approached by couples not because they're interested in Darkfire, but because they see the single bi fem status. Like I sayMorb, I know your comment was tongue in cheek but it really does feel like that sometimes - not fussed on the 3rd, as long as we find one kinda thing.
I've had it from couples who are looking for 'a' single bi fem to play with because of what she can do for them - thier sex life, their fantasies etc, and from single guys who latch on to us because they cant make it on their own.
SBF's in my oppinion are not the holy grail, we're either pieces of meat that, in general, everyone wants a piece of... or a status enhancement.
Quote by Marcuso
ok no problem. fully understand..hopefully ill find someone to vouch for us.. we are out up chesterfield wednesday night if ur interested, we could meet up somewhere..
Sorry about that you two.
I was over in Corby last night and hadn't read the post till just now.
If you fancy meeting for a coffee one daytime this coming week then give me a shout.
Marcuso
xx xx
Marcuso, Dammy & Hlb, Alleyson, Dave & deb , you have pm's
I dont particularly hide the fact that I'm bi either - most of my close vanilla female friends now know, but its not something I rub in their face, I would never come on to one of them and they know it.... I dont 'pull' women when I'm out with them and I certainly dont talk about it or divulge details when I do , but again that's not embarrassment or being 'ashamned' of who I am - its me keeping the two things seperate, to the point where I'm almost living a double life , but hey, that's me, and its how I like to keep it
, but hey, that's me, and its how I like to keep it Quote by DeeCee
id love to meet local people, become friends and enjoy playing locally.... surely this would increase the frequency of, lessen the hassle of and broaden the horizons of ( through networking) all concerned.
it sounds like some of you are embarrased by your sexuality and not convinced of the discretion of your fellow swingers.
From my personal view, it depends on just how local! For instance, there is a couple on this site who live literally doors away from me - however, they're certainly not folk I would trust, fellow swingers or not. Regardless of the fact we're here for the same thing, it would be common knowledge within 5 minutes flat :shock: I work in the local community and am bound by a 'morality clause' - anyone locally opens their mouth about my activities and I can kiss my job goodbye. It doesnt help that I am a well known face locally through various jobs I've had/ do and things that I'm involved with.
I also know (and have met socially) quite a few of the people here I consider to be 'local' but within say a 15 minute drive - to me that's local but comfortable
and its these people I see regularly but live far away enough to not know people I know. But for me its certainly not 'embarrasment' about my sexuality - more that I choose to keep my vanilla & swinging life seperate because I like it that way, and also obviously because of my job.
