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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Dont forget - there's always a chance they've noticed you too, and are probably thinking exactly the same thing lol
we're all here for the same reasons luv, and given your own situation you're best off not even giving anyone a smug 'i know' smirk in the street - they might do one in return to her indoors :twisted:
I've seen several people locally who I know, but when I say local I mean way way too close to home ....... so I keep my gob shut and smug grins to myself :smile2:
>>> joins thread awaiting news that I shall / shall not be eating photographs for breakfast................
wave Hiya Brummies !
Forget running, the door only works one way wink
Welcome to the nuthouse! biggrin
Quote by lets_kiss
something not right happened to me tonight. I was at the club just to socialise because its THAT week in the month & on 2 occassions 2 different guys approached me & when I explained one said......well you can still use your mouth cant you? & the other said I was hoping you'd give me a blow job.
Am i wrong to feel pissed off at being talked to like that? confused

No honey, you are certainly not wrong. What disrespectful utter twats :taz:
Quote by redpantherman
let's go into FLIP MODE!!!
Why do females NOT list on their profiles that THEY like certain...'acts' dunno

because if we do, we get bombarded with dodgy party invites/ guys who want to 'indulge' / random pm's from guys who see only what's on the list and nothing about the person herself????
also - we like some stuff with some people, and other stuff with others and sometimes half the fun comes from talking about what we like..... and maybe other times we like to keep our cards close to our chest wink
Quote by David6969
What the fuck do i have to do to confince people one here, surely some people can be genuine. Surley there must be some action that takes place, or is it just full of people who feel they have to take this piss out of other people all day cause they have nothing better to do?
Plus Sheddy, you dont seem to be a bi female, so why are you even replying to the add anyway.... so run along and play nicely with the other children.
For Fuck sake...........tell me what i need to do to convince and i do it, i have spoken to mal and asked him the remove the jennifer picture...hows that....Jesus give us a chance!!

mate, you aint helping yourself here, not one little bit.
popcorn anyone?
Quote by Hillfolk
A lot of people like myself really want to be swingers but it's a little scary for newbies as you probably all remember yourselves.
If you're a single girl like myself it's a bit more scary because you have no one you know to hold you hand as you get there.
Half of me wants to meet up with lots of guys. The other half is scared of meeting mr psycho.

Just a little thing, you indicate in your profile your activities amongst which are anal, gangbangs, watersports and other stuff. ...and your scared of swinging??? C'mon girlie pull the other one
:shock:
Perhaps the 'activities' section is more an indication of what Jenny may be interested in and may be looking to indulge/ participate/ dip her toe in at some point once she feels comfortable here and within the scene??
Maybe, like many of us, Jenny has fantasies and things she'd like to experiment with - and has come here to our community looking for others who share her openmindedness??
But all that doesnt make arriving here, taking that big deep breath in and knocking on the one-way door any less scary, it doesnt make you less wary of people generally, nor does having an initial interest in the more adventerous end of the sexual activities scale automatically make you 'a right goer' ready to jump straight in and do it.
Quote by Sarah
DF can you wiz down here with more popcorn for me please. lol

just popcorn ???? :sad:
Quote by Bloke2005
Anyone touched me somewhere , especially after I'd specifically said I dont like it , i wouldnt be sucking his cock, i'd have got a 12 inch dildo and shoved it up his ass :twisted:
No means No. Rule number one. - in fact, perhaps we should upgrade rule number two to 'dont give it out if you dont want it back in return' :twisted:

rotflmao
So you went to Blue's finishing school too then? :rascal:
not yet, but I might :twisted:
lol
attraction wise ..... for some people - its different, its , its 'filthy', its pushing the boundaries, its unchartered territory...its a gesture that they're willing to do something out of the 'norm', its experimenting..... its intimate, its animalistic... its well, whatever you interpret it to be ....but fluck is it tight rotflmao
however - there's a big difference between consentual anal play and it being a big No No - especially if they're already aware that its not your cup of tea. Anyone touched me somewhere , especially after I'd specifically said I dont like it , i wouldnt be sucking his cock, i'd have got a 12 inch dildo and shoved it up his ass :twisted:
No means No. Rule number one. - in fact, perhaps we should upgrade rule number two to 'dont give it out if you dont want it back in return' :twisted:
Quote by Tramper
- you'll often see me running round the forum like a rottweiler (hence the avatar - the Tramper day was a particularly good example lol redface redface ) :

C'mon 'ere my fave little poodle rotty passionkiss
fuck off Tramper evil :rude:
Quote by flidais-media
Sadly, there are a lot of 'pretend' couples around. Though, have to say, in our experience, they do seem to 'lurk' on the chatrooms more often that they visit here (with the honourable exception of 'Janet' wink ). Perhaps you should visit here more often and get yourselves known this way..it often works. biggrin

rotflmao rotflmao :thumbup: agreed
DeeCee wrote
As for those who harrass and are abusive...............i have a number of different tactics to deal with those.... some of which i wouldnt wish to share in an open forum as, they are very close to the bone.......... i love dealing with bullies... in the only way that they understand.... with an iron fist............PM me for details..

I love dealing with bullies too - you'll often see me running round the forum like a rottweiler (hence the avatar - the Tramper day was a particularly good example lol redface redface ) and I've many times goaded abusive people (particularly now i've started venturing into the chatroom) into pm so I can play with their heads..... but your post I find......... worrying to say the least :shock:
interesting one this -
because aside from the how do you send them packing question (I cant answer this as I dont accomodate & only meet socially in a neutral place first anyway like others have said and would never give my home adrress to someone I didnt know well beforehand)
but , knowing that lots of us here have kids at home...... does anyone actually 'do' meets when the kids are at home/ in bed/ out but there's a possibility they couldcome back ?? for me that's a big No No hence I never accomodate full stop - but, not everyone has access to grandparents/ babysitters/ sleep-overs at friends/ seperated parent's turn to have them etc.....
dunno
:shock: :shock: :shock: I've just checked through my diary again, added a couple of dates that I'd not wrote down.... and the ONLY Saturdays I have free between now and August are the 22nd and 29th July :shock: :shock: :shock:
jesus! I dunno about arranging more stuff, I think I need to cut back a bit! lol
Oooo I'm getting confuddles now!
I've been on every link suggested so far (thankyou), and still cant find what I'm after - and as it'll soon be tuesday, there's bob hope of me getting one for saturday !!
the main thing I've noticed is that several of the link stores stock exactly the same corsets, just slightly differeing in price. Styles like the Sophisticat, Equestrian & Chinese brocade ones feature on almost every site, so they're obviously stocking from the same supplier confused (for example, Essexlady, most of those on your suggested link are also stocked at CorsetCurves, just different prices )
A couple of the links are wayyy out my price range - so the only one that's a possibility is the bloody pinkone I saw for £55
pink ffs *shakes head in shame*
well, its that, or I just go without til the Ebay shop gets its arse into gear and makes the one I want rolleyes
Quote by easy
You know it's not right when....
The "wife's" pics are on the first page of google image "women" search rolleyes

Have you met Janet?

There's no wonder you wont share the pics HLB
Quote by flidais-media
Just commenting...funny how you aren't saying the same to Darkfire..she made a similar point about the women being left at home when the guy swung.
Maybe it's me but I do wonder why others can make all sorts of comments about people and I constantly get picked out?

My comment wasnt a dig at the fact he's 'playing away' - it was to point out to Ezyflyer that it is his wife who's actually enabling him to do what he does anyway, albeit unconciously, and thats probably the first thing she'll think when / if he tells her. ( but having read the thread since I realise he has no intention of telling her confused )
I'm not sure, but I'm presuming that I personally didnt get any comments back from that because most people who know me are aware that I have a vanilla partner who does just that: enables me to be part of this lifestyle while he often stays home and looks after our daughter/ goes to work etc, so I'm looking at it from the other side of the coin?? The difference being that HE knows about SH and any part I play in it , and I recognise that I am incredibly fortunate in what I have. dunno
It was a dig however,which you picked up on:
Yep, this bit got me too...so you know she hasn't had time for a 'bit on the side' because you havn't allowed it...though you've allowed yourself time to?
...meaning that while Ezyflyer's out on the pull, his wife is stuck at home unaware, and that really is having your cake and eating it.
I wouldnt want to be in his shoes IF she ever does find out that him suggesting they start swinging together has been born from his solo activities here and not an attempt to perhaps attend to her needs out of love, affection or forgive me for saying it, gratitude.
Quote by ezyflyer
I understand what some of you are saying about how she may have a friend at work, bi fem etc etc. If you saw how busy our lives were with 3 kids to run around after, you would understand how there is little time for that. How do I find time? I am a shift worker, days & lates (midnight).My job allows me the luxury of coming and going as I please, so when on lates can easily leave the office for an hour or 2 or even 3. Days off when wife at work are also an aid.

Is it not also perhaps that its actually your wife who allows you / enables you the luxury of coming and going as you please? Because while she's tied up with the kids or at work herself, you're leaving the office a couple of hours early for a shag with someone else?
At least you're safe in the knowledge that she hasnt been getting it elsewhere, what a bonus !
just a thought dunno
you know its not right when he picks you up in his big black car to take you to a club.... and it turns out a hearse :shock:
(I made that one up, but its probably happened to soemone on here anyway! lol )
Quote by Fun_Couple1981
I wouldn't meet this man/woman/couple if I were you.
It's all sounding a bit like the film Psycho
Can just see Marcus, dressed in 'Janets' clothes, running down the stairs, brandishing a 12" knife screaming to Darkfire "kill the whore, she's a slut" !!!

I actually like the sound of that
could be fun :twisted:
:laughabove:
No No, you know its not right when..... when he tells you that he's not like the others :smitten: and that this is only fun and he'd never do anything to hurt you
rotflmao
you know when you're in a situation, where the hole just gets bigger and bigger and bigger, and the only way out rather than come clean and admit it is to dig yourself even further???
what was that about typing 'woman' into google and going to page 5386001 and picking one?? rolleyes
I'm meant to be creosoting the fencing ffs
but have to keep logging back on to read this, and have just spat my well earnt coffee on keyboard thanks to
You know its not right when the other "lady" says she is on her period but doesnt mind if you dont!

omg nooooooooooooo lol
Quote by builderforfun
You know it's not right ..............................
When you wake up in the morning, and the dizzy bint's still there rolleyes

ME TOO but i would take cover if i was you !
not doing too bad, for a 'noob' are ya? lol lol
bolt
Quote by H-x

lol lol You know when its not right when you've played with someone for the first time..... and he brings you coffee in the morning and you open your eyes, he's sat on the bed, the coffee's gone cold.... for him to say 'i was just watching you sleeping' :shock:

or you wake up at 3am and he's stroking your hair and sighing
:scared:
H.x
rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
pissin self here :thumbup: