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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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No No medic, that is the 'hold her by the hair and shag her senseless til she gets.... whiplash injuries ' pose, not a fisting pose :jagsatwork:
you have such a bad impression of me redface redface
fisting indeed rolleyes
lol
Quote by blonde
Now where are we meeting for this Girlie night out ?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Ummm when and where?? a girly night sounds like a fantastic idea
anyone else? :bounce:
Quote by Sarah
Ok had a second pm.
Janet is going to call me either Tuesday or Wednesday, as she is busy at the moment with kids and hubby.

bollox, offlicence must be shut, its sunday :doh:
I cant hang about til 11pm!! lol that's far too much time to get hold of a mate/ sister/ woman who works in the corner shop/ 16 year old hanging around outside the beeroff.
Quote by Sarah
Ok Folks
Hold it right there for now.
I have had a pm from Janet with an email address.
As most of you know I dont do emails
So I have replied with my phone number and ask Janet to ring me any time up to 11pm (after that I would be in bed)

what, no pic Sarah? :twisted:
Quote by Sarah
Ok Folks
Hold it right there for now.
I have had a pm from Janet with an email address.
As most of you know I dont do emails
So I have replied with my phone number and ask Janet to ring me any time up to 11pm (after that I would be in bed)

what, no pic Sarah? :twisted:
Quote by H-x
Wow, if you don't want it I'll have it!!!!
What size is it, how much is it and where can I buy it?
H.x

smackbottom smackbottom back off, its mine
lol
Well, if you could get someone to vouch for you Sarah that'd be more than acceptable, but I've already pencilled in Janet for tonight now, just waiting her confirmation pm and pics.
as an aside, I know you're new and a bit nervous Janet hun, but have you considered a FFF 3 some? There's alot of single male quick shag brigade and pic collectors around, sometimes its just easier and less hassle for us fems to play together instead. Whaddya say?
pm me if you dont feel comfy discussing in the thread wink
I spent 4 hours surfin for shops and stockists last night, and still havent found one that (a) i can get in time or (b) screams 'pick me ohhh pick meee' at me more than this one does:
:inlove: (ebay shop)
but then I also found a site in the US that sells with wierdest corsets I've ever seen .... with matching wings :shock: :twisted: :twisted:
and now I'm all confused!!
that said, I'm still up for some retail therapy if anyone else fancies flexing some plastic next week ? :twisted:
Hiya Janet wave
I'm a bi fem and I'd love to meet you for a drink & see where it goes.
Are you free tonight? biggrin
Quote by flidais-media
Hello, just noticed our name is still on the list for the party. As we said a few weeks back we aren't planning to go to any more socials so you can take it off please?
Hope the party goes really well and do hope to catch up with you again sometime in the not too distant future.
xxx

I'll remove you from mine too then Flidais, pm me if there's a problem :thumbup:
Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
im sure there would be a big queue for volunteers.. all doing it for the good of science of course. well looks like ill be having pineapple for breakfast,dinner and tea all next week then..

well, why not lol
try it, all week, and then Debbie can report back to us on Friday. biggrin
I might go with the pickled onion monster munch and garlic bread, see what that does :twisted: lol
glad its u thats voluntered and not debbie..ok debs is off to the 24hr shop now..
I cant volunteer!!! lol redface lol I dont know the 'before' taste so can hardly give an accurate comparison lol
Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
im sure there would be a big queue for volunteers.. all doing it for the good of science of course. well looks like ill be having pineapple for breakfast,dinner and tea all next week then..

well, why not lol
try it, all week, and then Debbie can report back to us on Friday. biggrin
I might go with the pickled onion monster munch and garlic bread, see what that does :twisted: lol
Quote by H-x
poked my head around afew more doors. There's some scary shit in there!!!
H.x

*nods head while looking bewildered and unimpressed* lol
pineapple was the general consensus i think dunno
we really should organise an experiment, purely in the interests of research of course innocent
Quote by Steve_Mids
if Jo's room's open there's no whispering and no directing in there. Otherwise, go for it.
H.x

Whispering without permission is not allowed inany room...
Directing is also not allowed in a number of rooms....It says so in the room name.
but they still do it though! lol
graveyard
church :twisted:
nightclub
doorway outside nightclub
carpark of nightclub lol
sex shop in Soho
probably every beauty spot in Derbyshire (acoustics at Black Rocks are fantastic lol )
and top of the pile is the toilets of a prison visting room & inside a prison cell :shock: :twisted:
(no i'm not a P.O lol )
Quote by H-x
or we could gatecrash
H.x

what... you mean.... wander into the unknown :shock: ...unaccompanied surprised .....into a barrage of 'get ya tits out ' and whisper hell ??? :scared: :uhoh:
you havent seen me in Rotteweiler mode yet, have you? rotflmao
Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
if the shop in wakefield has a website then have a look and see if you see anything u like.. i live in chesterfield and my office is in wakefield which i have to go to twice or three times a week.. i could pick it up for u and meet u somewhere.. its just an offer .. i know u dont know me or deb ..

I'm on there now..... but nothing is taking my fancy :cry:
Quote by hugs1
There's a shop called Void in Hockley in Nottinham City Centre, have a good range of corsets.
x

I know Void, but they wernt doing corsets last time I went in there :shock: , Void on Tuesday then lol
Quote by Andromeda
Speaking from experience Id stick to vollers too... just an opinion and I'm sure others would disagree but theyre worth every last single penny xx

I adore the Vollers designs, cut, shape, everything - but I just cant afford their prices. Of course you get what you pay for, but my budget says £100 absolute maximum and I have to stick to it :cry: and because I want one NOW lol , I havent got time to save any more cash.
I got my mate one off Ebay in a 32" waist that fits waists of up to 36-38 depending on how "fleshy" your waist is and how tight you like to lace it. They say 2 inches off for a first time wearer but the bigger the waist you have the more you can take off. I manage a 5 inch reduction.

my waist (without sucking in etc) is 42 inch :shock: and yeah definately flabby lol, I think I could get away with a minimum of 4inch reduction and more if I dont sit down! lol , I'll only be wearing it for one night, so as long as I dont need to breath out, I'll be fine lol lol
Girly shopping spree sounds good to me - and if HLB's recommending Wakefield then its highly likely I'll be up there this week biggrin (Dark, driving to Wakefield :shock: :scared: )
H x
Celestria
HLB
in edit: Sarah (cos I missed you off the original post) redface
who's not at work this week?? lol
Quote by Calista
There needs to be a deep understanding with regard to BDSM, and if it isn't your cup of tea then you are unlikely to ever understand or be sympathetic. There is a whole lot more eroticism involved and the trust needed is a big issue. By handing control over to someone else you can be very free and enjoy a deeper experience.

This is very much my cup of tea, but like you say Cali, the trust required means I dont engage in anything remotely on this level, purley because I dont trust ! lol
But I'm a bit dismayed that people see BDSM'ers as Psychopathic or mentally unstable.
There are of course certain practices that a lot of people would draw the line at.
The line is crossed when you personally are outside your comfort zone and aren't happy. I'm quite happy to be tied up and yet a swinging friend of mine finds it horrific !
C

I think the reference to psychopathic behaviour would only apply to sexual violence - sexual psychopaths get off on the power they feel (and gain) from someone elses suffering, humiliation and often, pain. - I dont consider that to be the same as consentual BDSM practices, even to the extremes of scat ( which I dont think i'll ever get my head around lol :scared: )
dunno
Quote by little gem
I so agree with H. I wouldn't want him to say it if it felt un-natural for him though, cos it would feel forced and kill the mood totally.

me too lol sat here nodding like an idiot lmao
It's when they mean it in terms of thats how they feel , right there, and they just say what they're thinking. If its scripted or said because they think I want to hear it, it doenst work - and it does nothing if its mumbled quietly like they're ashamed of what they're saying either rolleyes
Its the 'jesus you horny bitch, fuck me harder, I want to hear just how wet you are' because thats how i feel type stuff that really gets under my skin lol