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Darkfire

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by H-x
Ugh. I've just written my dissertation on this very subject. My conclusion was not that people are perverted but that society dictates what we should consider normal, mainly due to the prudishness handed down to us from the victorian era.
I'll send it to you if you like,although it's a lot more boring than it sounds.
Did enjoy the research though :twisted:
H.x

H I would love to read it if you'd be willing to send to me?
Extremism fascinates me - and I dont mean I'm into heavy BDSM etc :shock: :scared: , but understanding human behaviour - and particularly sexual behaviour is very much my academic area too. biggrin

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That's not to say I dont have some pretty off-the-wall fantasies :shock: , but that's all they are. Honest lol

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
There are surprisingly large numbers of people who are active in S&M, brown, baby dressing and so on.

Erm, is 'brown' what I think it is? As in, not the colour, rather the colour of the substance ?
yup lol

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29 Apr 2006

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There are particular words I dont like - whore and slut being the main two, anything else is fine lol

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even the C word :shock: :twisted:
and yes, it definately does depend who says them,

I get PMs from people I don't know telling me what they're going to do with me, all the positions theyre going to throw me into and all the nasty things they're going to say to me....

yup, me too, and I find it sooo 'disrespectful' (??) but if its someone I know and I get the "You like that dont you you flithy bitch" type line, I'm toast! lol

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29 Apr 2006

edited: because I didnt get accepted onto the invite list
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29 Apr 2006

Quote by Manolishi
Hey Dark,
You could always go au naturel and buy drinks for everyone with the money that you saved ......................

I dont think so!! :shock:

I thinks I might still have a horse neck cradle kicking around somewhere
I could fasten one of my camp shirts onto it

shall I just put 'for Ladies who are bored ' in the title, cos you blokes are bloody useless rolleyes

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by mike48

Mines a pint of stella :thumbup:

you didnt read the first post properly, did you Mike rolleyes

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been there done those - and you didnt look at the price list either!!

29 Apr 2006

Quote by little gem
I love it when we're going hard at it and he pulls my hair, growls at me and tells me; "fuck me harder you dirty little bitch" :twisted:
I do love the odd bit of slap around the buttocks with a few obsenanties thrown in.
However, only if it's someone I know and I know they really don't think I'm a dirty little bitch, if that makes sense. If I thought for one second they were being purposfully disrespectful with meaning behind it, he'd get such a slap.

what she said!!
Gem, I love how you just come out and say what I'm thinking lol

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29 Apr 2006

alright then, Blokies have to find me one for a very reasonable cost of under Â£50, and I'll buy you a pint out of whats left! lol

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29 Apr 2006

RWL, I'm being a cheapskate at Â£100!!
the one's I really like are upwards of Â£225 :shock: but there's no way I can justify spending that on one item of clothing that i'll probably wear once! lol

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and I dont drink Guinness wink

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by H-x
To every yin there is a yang. The words slow, sensuous, sensual (not that you've used them, I'm summerising) just make me want to go to sleep. I think I must have missed the 'sugar' and overdone it on the 'spice'. For me talking dirty shouldn't be calculated, it should be because you can't help yourself.
H.x

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no sugar!!! :jagsatwork: more spice :thumbup: (pure ground chilli powder anyone? lol

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29 Apr 2006

Ninja, you aint impressing me with your rat on a lead impression, I've set you a challenge, can you rise to it, or not? :twisted:

29 Apr 2006

Quote by duncanlondon
However the darker end of it all is usually conducted by people with psychopathic disorders. They often appear to be quite 'normal' before descending into complete madness.

That'll be me then lol

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, am I in the wrong place?? :shock: lol

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29 Apr 2006

Piss off :kick: and go find me a corset lol

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by quimninja2003
weve got one...ya can have............. :shock:
have we lulled you into a false sense of security yet ..........
wheres me snog ....oi oi :twisted:

hmmm, think about it, who's lolling who into false sense of securities here? :twisted: just cos I was all nice to you once..... :twisted:
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29 Apr 2006

Quote by hisandhers
try
my fav on line shop & will post straight away.
Have a peek

had a peek, and not what i'm looking for I'm afraid - although I've marked it cos they've got shoooooes lol

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29 Apr 2006

Quote by DeeCee
ive always wondered how some people come to find themselves interested in what society often terms Kinky or even downright perverted.... ie...some of the more extreme fetishes.. ie.. heavy SM stuff, toilet related practices, violent sex etc etc.
is it because youve tried all the tame stuff and those sort of things dont cut it anymore?
is it because you were dropped on your head at a young age?
is it anything more sinister?.. ( mindful of the AUP)
does it come from the fact you're a lawyer or an accountant?
id invite any "extremers" to comment as to why they are "extreme" , otherwise i expect the usual piss takes...........

I'd actually be really interested in hearing peoples comments here - but aside from the 'heavy handed regulars' who might scare folk away from answering your questions ( rolleyes

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) , the digs at 'being dropped on head. lawyers and accountants' will probably stop anyone who has a genuine liking/ fetish for this stuff from answering anyway for fear of being slated or subjected to piss-takes. That, and maybe that there are few true heavy BDSM'ers or extremers who cross over to the swinging world??
but, interested all the same biggrin

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29 Apr 2006

Right, I'm enlisting the help of you lot biggrin

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, especially the Midlands posse
I'm after a corset and cant find one lol

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I've been on ebay, fairy goth mother, Snobz and H&A, Vollers and all the usual suspects.... but, with a delivery time of up to 10 weeks or prices over Â£200 I'm getting a bit stressed here! So, anyone fancy being my personal shopper??? lol

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Here's what I'm after (not that I'm specific or anything lol

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I'm a size 20 and already have the hourglass curves but want something that will accentuate them more (cos I havent got the time or willpower to crash diet lol

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)must be steel busk & boned, back tightlacing, any fabric but not leather as I dont have time to break it in, a very good brocade would be nice.... any colour but preferably black or red lol

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... and it must be 'longer length'.
and here's what I dont want ..... lol

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no lacey frills and fancy bits, no pvc, no mad patterns or in ya face artwork, and no attatched suspenders. It has to be a proper corset, not one that looks like underwear wink

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I'm willing to spend Â£100 (but preferably less) have seen some gorgeous ones on an Ebay shop for less than that, but I want it now, not in 10 weeks time rolleyes

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I'm not working durng the day so can travel to buy in person, but i need it THIS week! :shock:
so, anyone within a ....30 - 40ish mile radius of Derby.... know of any little shops.....obscure markets....somewhere that sells off samples.... great aunt matilda who can make me one.....anything.... I shall be eternally grateful worship

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28 Apr 2006

Well!
that was an experience!!
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Lovejoy - omg cant believe I've finally seen ya face biggrin

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28 Apr 2006

are you sure you wont need pics first to vett and choose which fem to do first? lol

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27 Apr 2006

Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
cheers for that.. yes we will be looking for social events around the area so we can put a face to the words so to speak..so will prob bump into u at one of them..

more than likely! :thumbup:

26 Apr 2006

Quote by hisandhers
got tears rolling down my face now Vicky
just wish I had the money to set up a service myself. I would show them!!

Its dooable hun. I did it.
but you're in for a long-haul fight if you want to go down this route .... but..... If you're mad enough, passionate enough and have the bollocks to take on the system, its there for the taking wink

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Before you leave, photocopy every bit of evidence that shows how your work meets project targets, and find out why it isnt meeting the criteria for current funding (its the new financial year, its goalpost moving season) - cross reference the two and find the hole - cos there'll be one, and thats the hoop you're gonna have to jump through wink

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26 Apr 2006

Quote by hisandhers
People with Skills will always find work..... don't just throw in the towel hun, Today your pissed off and a bit raw...... tomorrow another opportunity will show its head. There are ways and means to help people, if you really enjoy it you will be snapped up i'm sure.

today pissed off- tomoz going to do everything in my power to get the best service possible for my clients before I leave from somewhere else. I'm not going anywhere if they like it or not before this has been done.
fighting talk now when I truely believe in what I do
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26 Apr 2006

I've wrote this 6 times now and deleted it because i cant do it without (a) giving out too much info and (b) turning it into a major rant because I know EXACTLY where you're coming from and I'm seriously bearing fangs at several agencies right now for this very same 'funding crisis'
You know my line of work hun and i'll be pm'ing you once i calm down. I've had this situation several times now - you're in a position where people are relying on you. You are, in most cases, the only person who's making a positive difference to your clients life - and just when you know you're making progress, the powers that be come pull the rug from under both you and your client, and you have no choice but to say words to the effect of ' I'm so sorry mate but in 2 weeks time i will no longer be in a job, your support network will disappear and you're out there on your own. Here's a couple of phone numbers for you to call if you feel like starting this healing process and relationship buuilding excercise all over again from scratch... i know thry're based 20 miles away but thats the closest provision there is. See ya, have a nice life.' :cry:
Ooooo dont, i'm off again mad

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am sorry also that you've got to find something else and sharpish - look to the voluntary sector babes, funding is coming in thick and fast but you might have to travel to get the right job. There will always be work for people with your skills & experience, dont get disheartened on the job front just yet wink

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26 Apr 2006

Quote by Elisedriver
I go occasionally - so hopefully you'll recognise me by my profile piccies

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I could do this in pm, but am impressed enough to do it in public...
Elisedriver I hope you find what you're looking for on here hun because THAT is one bloody good ad/ set of pics and funny video (short but sweet and no cock in sight..... love it! :thumbup: .
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26 Apr 2006

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25 Apr 2006

there's a flaw in your plan mate
but i'll leave you to find that one out for yourself! cool

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25 Apr 2006

Quote by Alleyson
Hi Darkfire
Since I can't remember being 30 , it's sooooooooooo long ago, then I'd love to come help you get over reaching it, if thats ok?
Don't know how I missed this before
thanks
Alleyson xxx

of course hun, you're added biggrin

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25 Apr 2006

Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
hi we are from chesterfield and would love to join if asked..and if anyone wants to stay here rather than travel back they are most welcome x

Hiyas
I'll put you both on the reserve list for now as you're pretty new & I havent met you - although have seen you on the forum a fair bit since you arrived :thumbup:
We'll probably cross paths way before September but even if we dont, I'll be reviewing the list nearer the date and bump you up to the definates list once you've settled in here. wink

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Any probs, pm me wink

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25 Apr 2006

Quote by stuartrossy1
Right the rossy is hittin back!!
I have my settings adjusted ! and also my hand ready for bottom slapping!!

knew it wouldnt take much more before you cracked!! rotflmao

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NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :twisted:

25 Apr 2006

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