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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Quote by little gem
Well I would love a wink!
just so I can see what they look like!!
I get very few pm's being a single guy!!
Boo hoo
Strange beacuase I seem to get the attention I so crave at clubs??
(Violin playing)
Sorry you asked yet??? ;) :rascal:
Can we start a "wink stuartrossy1" thread! :twisted:
Can we? :bounce:
Why the hell not :twisted:
, you know what to do folks
Quote by stuartrossy1
P.S Darkfire that is a classic song lyric you have there in your profile thingy!!
Stone roses, 'I wanna be adored' one of my all time favorite bands, along with the smiths!!
I have impeccable taste :twisted:
Your taste is not that good, you have'nt had a taste of stu yet!! lol :twisted:
Yeah like I say, impeccable taste
Quote by stuartrossy1
Ah Right thankyou to all you lovely people that have sent me a wink !! I see what they are now , I thought It was my lucky day for a min!!
But bloody stop now!!! i can see why they are so annoyign!! AAAAGGGGHHH!!
No No Stuart me old chum, I want you blokies to experience this for yourselves :twisted:
dammit, only one wink per person, right, ammo by PM time me thinks :twisted:
:bounce: :bounce: Hot :taz: :taz: :taz:Quote by well_busty_babe
the problem i am NOW getting is....
after they get the auto reply, they think that you have taken the time to send it, and so must be interested in their profile!!
just got another one telling me that he is "glad i have made an exception from only wanting couples!" :shock:
and what else can i tell him about myself!
I've only had one of those - i'm still too flabbergasted to reply!!
Quote by dambuster
Before this descends into anything argumentative ...........................................
It could just be a bad choice of wording - imo
But as Calista says - perhaps a little clarification ?
:thumbup:
I'd have loved to go to this, but as I'm very unclear of what the expectations are, I wont.
Oh well
Quote by pkrams65
We have a few beers,a great laugh, and maybe some naughtiness to end the night,should we get an inside location.....you can all see how friendly we are,and horny to boot. We would like to say more couples though,pref with a bi-fem cus our Derby gals do get a bit greedy.
So, its not really a social is it?
its a private party with drinks beforehand?
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
ok thanks u have put us off using this again..i was just trying to make conversation..cheers.. sorry if we have upset anyone..
Don't be put off
You may not have liked the answers you got, but you posted that when you're as guilty as others.
Take it on the chin, dust yourself off and come back tomorrow :thumbup:
:thumbup:
I dont think anyone's upset, you'll notice I was actually pissin myself over the profile mix-up
However, you posted a moan about not getting replies, when its evident just from this thread that you havent replied to pm's sent to you either.
Shit happens hun
Quote by DAVEANDDEBBIE69
when we received that message ur profile came up as a gay male.. sorry
oh bollox, the gay male dwarf?? so, ya didnt want to wear my pants? :shock: ah well, at least I know it had the desired deterrant effect!
I'll keep him in storage for use another time then My ad was still present & correct though, but if the profile was enough to put you off reading further I'm definately keeping it for future use! (p.s - I altered profile because of the winks problem, its as it should be now, if you wanna take a look :twisted: )
Quote by PoloLady
whenever we get a message we reply whether that is just to say no thanks or to get to know more about the person or persons who sent the message. because of this we expect the same back but we find that there are either alot of time wasters on here or just people who are ignorant.. i know not everyone is interested in everyone, the world would be boring that way, but at least a quick note to say no thanks xx
Actually I have a new reply to this.....
Yes, me too
I pm'd you (D&D69) after you posted in my 'meet me this afternoon' thread earlier this week.
And guess what? I didnt get a reply to that either !!
'nuff siad
The post that Polo has quoted just about sums it up!
Some of us get innundated with PM's - be that 'shag me' pm's, 'hi' pm's, 'catch up' pm's from friends etc - then somewhere in the middle of those are the one-liners, the one's that go directly to the bin (and yep, I'm as guilty of this as alot of people, I just dont reply!)
That said, I also have a habit of putting pm's to one side thinking I'll reply to that later when i've got time to write a decent response etc.... or I'll deal with that one in a bit when I've checked their ad/ profile/ previous posts...... and then either forget or it sits in the backlog of 'pm's requiring attention' pile until its no longer relevant
I've had a few where someone's sent me a gentle 'we pm'd you but havent had a reply yet - this is just to let you know we are genuinely interested but if you're not caould you just acknowledge this and we'll not bother you again' reminders - and they go straight to the top of the priority attention pile and I'll usually feel guilty enough to send something straight back
- That said, I've also had them where the 'reminder' isnt so gentle and its something along the lines of ' We pm'd you but didnt get a reply, are you usually this ignorant and up yourself ?? Does typing No thanks really take so much effort??' - and I'm afriad those type go in the bin too
Some of us get innundated with PM's - be that 'shag me' pm's, 'hi' pm's, 'catch up' pm's from friends etc - then somewhere in the middle of those are the one-liners, the one's that go directly to the bin (and yep, I'm as guilty of this as alot of people, I just dont reply!)
That said, I also have a habit of putting pm's to one side thinking I'll reply to that later when i've got time to write a decent response etc.... or I'll deal with that one in a bit when I've checked their ad/ profile/ previous posts...... and then either forget or it sits in the backlog of 'pm's requiring attention' pile until its no longer relevant
I've had a few where someone's sent me a gentle 'we pm'd you but havent had a reply yet - this is just to let you know we are genuinely interested but if you're not caould you just acknowledge this and we'll not bother you again' reminders - and they go straight to the top of the priority attention pile and I'll usually feel guilty enough to send something straight back
- That said, I've also had them where the 'reminder' isnt so gentle and its something along the lines of ' We pm'd you but didnt get a reply, are you usually this ignorant and up yourself ?? Does typing No thanks really take so much effort??' - and I'm afriad those type go in the bin too
Ok, so far so good ............ but....
do you have any age preferances ? body type? hair colour? height/ slim/ well built/ sense of humour/ smoker/ non smoker like a drink/ teetotal facial hair/ no facial hair trimmed/shaven etc etc etc etc can you accomodate? travel? .... are you interested in clubs? or 1:1 meets? would you only meet as a couple? do you play seperately?
...... thats enough to be going on with, i'll come back and check in ten minutes
Quote by flidais-media
Well, I do for certain, I love a man I can get a good grip on
I'll drink to that!
I do like the bodybuilder type too though, and will make a beeline for them - especially if I think I can wipe the floor with their 'i'm so good, I'm so stunning, you should be grateful' attitude :twisted: You might be alble to ponce about in the gym doing weights all day luv but can you handle 6 hours in the bedroom with me? usually not, no.
As for the honesty thing, I've done that - chatted on msn, done the whole phone call thing, exchanged photo's, even seen them on cam ..... agreed to meet, got to hotel, realised that pics were either fairly old or been taken in such a way that hides a mulitude of sins, and the lamp-on-not-full-light on cam was a really clever trick and that both of them were NOTHING like I expected or was looking for - and then got branded a timewaster becuase i had to say 'I'm sorry, I cant go through with this, see ya'
Hence why those who are on my 'potential to do list' are those I've met socially at Munches etc first
Quote by Sarah
You called>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
You mentor is here, (so help me please) you need something???
I meant the mentoring scheme in general......
but while your here Ma'am, am I turning into a cynical cow or what? How come I'm dishing all this stuff out but cant find what i'm looking for let alone find it for anyone else!!
Profile's fine (IMO)
Pics are fine - although....... (again, only my opinion) have you got one of Kev? (face/ clothed body whatever) or one of you smilng? , and if your looking for a bi fem, lose the emphasis on Kev's cock - unless that's on offer to your target audience too
and the ads still need work - remember, you're looking for what almost everyone else is looking for here!! why should a single bi fem or bi fem couple pick you two? see what I mean?
(says she who has no pics on profile )
Pics are fine - although....... (again, only my opinion) have you got one of Kev? (face/ clothed body whatever) or one of you smilng?
, and if your looking for a bi fem, lose the emphasis on Kev's cock - unless that's on offer to your target audience too and the ads still need work - remember, you're looking for what almost everyone else is looking for here!! why should a single bi fem or bi fem couple pick you two? see what I mean?
(says she who has no pics on profile
) 