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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Quote by Tv_Susie_Kent
I believe.... That Steve said in a post shortly after that the only difference in support is the paid members would have their ticket read BEFORE free members... (as it should be and as i had hoped for.)
So indeed..... Snigger
ffs Susie, does it really matter???? in the big scheme of things, who gives a flying fuck who gets their ticket read first?
there is no tiered ranking system here, get over it.
Ok, thread hunters.... on your marks......
Can anyone find the thread from the guy who needed pics so the wife could take her pick but he had to test drive first?
I know i've mentioned it today already, but I'm in the mood for some pm tennis today and while i'm at it I wanna give this one a whirl
set.....
GO :twisted:
Can anyone find the thread from the guy who needed pics so the wife could take her pick but he had to test drive first?
I know i've mentioned it today already, but I'm in the mood for some pm tennis today and while i'm at it I wanna give this one a whirl
set.....
GO
:twisted: What she said! 
its not the fact that you're 'new' to this - its that you're looking for the 'holy grail' most other people are looking for too.
You have FAR better chance of getting yourselves known in the Cafe forum on a social basis than you have, in my opinion, of finding what you're looking for by trawling through hundreds of ads.
its not the fact that you're 'new' to this - its that you're looking for the 'holy grail' most other people are looking for too.
You have FAR better chance of getting yourselves known in the Cafe forum on a social basis than you have, in my opinion, of finding what you're looking for by trawling through hundreds of ads.
Quote by rondatheslut
Hi.
WOW.
Great photos.
My wifes away for two weeks holiday want to come over for the night.
oooooo that sounds familiar :shock:
but wernt you asked for a pic so the missus could pick out which one she liked best and the guy 'test drive' you before she gets back from holiday to ensure you're suitable???
:twisted:
in fact - i might have some fun with this today :twisted:
I'm playing the 'test how abusive you can get before you get banned game' by pm
shotgun at the ready and the teeth are already showing :twisted:
people are just mass-spamming the list of single fems arnt they? there's no way all these twats have read my profile and like it, surely? and ya know what, that fuckin annoys me even more
I'm getting a full on sense of de ja fuckin vu here
I'm playing the 'test how abusive you can get before you get banned game' by pm
shotgun at the ready and the teeth are already showing :twisted:
people are just mass-spamming the list of single fems arnt they? there's no way all these twats have read my profile and like it, surely? and ya know what, that fuckin annoys me even more
I'm getting a full on sense of de ja fuckin vu here Not sure if its just me, but the 'search members by location' thing - or other info relating to what's in my/ your profile seems to be in overdrive today
pm box is full of folk i've never heard of, one liners and these cut and paste winky things 'i checked out your profile, why dont you check out mine' (probably because if i were interested luv, you'd know )
Dark is now a gay male and proud
pm box is full of folk i've never heard of, one liners and these cut and paste winky things 'i checked out your profile, why dont you check out mine'
(probably because if i were interested luv, you'd know )Dark is now a gay male and proud
Quote by mike48
Good luck for Sat night Minx
You have of course made sure all the door people have registered with SIA as required by law when holding any event on licenced premises
Sorry of cource you have tisk tisk silly me
Strictly speaking (bearing in mind I dont know what the venue is) you dont need 'our' door team to be SIA badged. Non of the Munch door team will be on the main door of the venue - this is covered by the licencee and their door staff - if they have any.
Munches are usually held in a seperate room within a venue, therefore its a private function by invite only within a licenced venue and under these circumstances, SIA regs dont apply.
There are a few of us on SH who are badged for front line door work though, ifya have any probs Minx
Dark x.
I much prefer 'erotic' type pics to near-on gynae shots In fact, I really dont like to see full-on cock shots/ gash shots - its not exactly attractive is it
a little something left to the imagination, arty stuff that's been thought about, not just snapped with ya mobile while no-one's looking type
I'm more than happy to check over anyone's erotica shots if they wanna send em to my pm box :twisted:
In fact, I really dont like to see full-on cock shots/ gash shots - its not exactly attractive is it a little something left to the imagination, arty stuff that's been thought about, not just snapped with ya mobile while no-one's looking type
I'm more than happy to check over anyone's erotica shots if they wanna send em to my pm box
:twisted: Quote by neilinleeds
ok . . . i completely take your point darkfire. discretion is paramount . .
evidently not, no
we can usually tell from some threads who is flirting with who at least, if not who is actually swinging with who?
yes of course, but its usually dropped subtly into a banter type post and not announced to all and saundry 'intentionally' (and i use that word lightly)
and yes, we all know this kind of thread would usually get jumped on. indeed, there's questions on this very thread?
but . . .
doug52 is ok with it? poshnbecks are ok with it? any question of discretion is being raised by others that aren't party to that event? i.e. others are imposing their values re: discretion on a meet / event / thread where discretion is not an issue?
Not party to the actual event - but once it goes up in the Cafe everyone who reads it is party to it. Discretion may not be an issue for Posh&Becks, but it is for the vast majority of others under normal circumstances, and more importantly, should be to those who have perhaps just joined us here.
it is NOT our place to question others choices? we all make choices for ourselves, and hang the hangman! ;)
Point taken. However, this is a forum where people are free to post their views and opinions, isnt it?
neil x x x ;)
p.s. it's not a verification issue IMO, cos if it was, i'd probably get into bother . . . again . . . ;)
Hmmmmm....
Quote by doug52
… so guys if you get the chance to meet them Im sure you`ll have a great time....oh and they are a genuine couple...
Quote by PoshnBecks
… we did ask Doug (really nice guy) to confirm that he did meet us and we had a great time, we have (again) had a few guys comment that they do not believe that we are genuine
…We are indeed very very genuine.
I'm sorry if my comments offend - but that looks totally like verification to me
Quote by neilinleeds
Each to their own of course, I just find it surprising that 99% of the time we slate this kind of indiscretion, but in Posh&Becks case they're ok with it, so 'we' are too :shock: Isnt that a bit double standards?
no. precisely for the bit in bold? discretion is about protecting the people we swing with, but poshnbecks have always ((( AFAIK? ))) been happy with this kind of thread, and actively encourage it, so discretion doesn't apply?
i'm not really bothered what their motives are, so long as all parties are ok with it?i accept it might seem a mixed message though?
neil x x x ;)
I dunno Neil, as far as I'm aware/ concerned, discretion is one of this community's biggest 'unwritten rules'. Discretion is about protecting those we swing with, hence usually this would be jumped on in seconds. This is the first time I've seen blatant 'ok'd' indiscretion being used as verification though, and that applies to both Posh&Becks and Doug, by their own admission.
Evidently there are accepted exceptions to every rule, double standards or not.
I like in idea in theory
(there's always one isnt there )
but - just a question to throw open...... if its a masked munch, would the door team be priviledge as to who's who on the door? otherwise how are they gonna know who they're letting in? ....
and what happens if, because someone's masked, they attempt to pass themselves off as someone else? or worse, dont exactly adhere to the 'rules' and think they can get away with it because their anonimity is protected somewhat?
just a thought
It could be good fun though, providing mucho thought goes into how such a munch would run
(there's always one isnt there
) but - just a question to throw open...... if its a masked munch, would the door team be priviledge as to who's who on the door? otherwise how are they gonna know who they're letting in? ....
and what happens if, because someone's masked, they attempt to pass themselves off as someone else? or worse, dont exactly adhere to the 'rules' and think they can get away with it because their anonimity is protected somewhat?
just a thought
It could be good fun though, providing mucho thought goes into how such a munch would run
Quote by little gem
. How do you sort out the angles when doing it to yourself?Gem. x
I dont!
purely clit stimulation and just before I cum, you know, right on the edge of exploding but not quite there , two fingers just at the entrance but not quite inside me... and a bit of upwards pressure in long slow movements usually does the job
It does entirely depend on what I'm fantasising about at the time though (and that one I'm not revealing for love nor money 
)I cant explain it in words, perhaps a practical demonstration is in order ? :twisted:
*faints*
Wow! :twisted: Hell yeah!
:rascal:PM box that way you sexy minx!
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You know... some men remind me exactly why I'm into girls!
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:twisted: Quote by little gem
. How do you sort out the angles when doing it to yourself?
I dont!
purely clit stimulation and just before I cum, you know, right on the edge of exploding but not quite there , two fingers just at the entrance but not quite inside me... and a bit of upwards pressure in long slow movements usually does the job
It does entirely depend on what I'm fantasising about at the time though (and that one I'm not revealing for love nor money )I cant explain it in words, perhaps a practical demonstration is in order ? :twisted:
