Bollox, I'm only 29
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Very trimmed or shaven please
i cant deep-throat or bury my face down there when there's pubes in the way either tickling my nose or making me gag :twisted:
When I first came here, I was a single fem , fresh out of a 12 year relationship and looking for fun, looking to explore things sexually and to indulge my 'bi-side'.
A few months in and I realised that I can pretty much take or leave the swinging side of all this, and what keeps me here is the social aspect, the like-minded, open people some of whom I condider to be true friends.
I never looked on this as a 'stop gap', although I did think back then that once i'd done a bit of experimenting and fulfilled a few fantasies, I'd be able to say Right, thanks very much, I'm off now. But I cant, and I couldnt when my partner and I got back together a few months ago. So i'm not in the 'between vanilla relationships' category either, as I'm already in one!
i'm still here, on the fringes perhaps, but here. I still 'play' occasionally , and intend to continue to do so as and when it suits me. My partner has no interest in joining me in this lifestyle in terms of swinging itself, although he's fully aware of it, has met a few of my friends and reads the forums and is getting more interested in the social side..... we'll have to wait and see.
Ideally I would be here as part of a swinging couple, and the more I get into this lifestyle, the more i want it. As a single here I have to say the experience has not been what I'd hoped - yes I've had lots of fun, met loads of people and unleashed my bi-side to the point where I know I can never walk away from that.... but i've also seen how , especially the single fems, are used & manipulated by some to gain 'status' or 'seal of approval' so to speak, and by others simply because we are 'single bi-fems' and not the 'person' if you see what I mean.
Aside from all that, I can say that the 'lifestyle'' - albeit more the social than the sexual is a big part of my life, and I cant see that changing. Being bi is part of who I am - I cant ignore that and just simply go 'vanilla'. Luckily I have a life partner who understands me, and gives me enough rope to enable me to have my cake and eat it
am sure one day though I'll probably hang myself with it.
Truth serum??
blimey, someone stick it in the water supply, quick!
The only thing that matters right now is that you two concentrate on yourselves , and on Dammy getting better. Anyone who gives a shit will say the same.
Dont worry about the non-wedding, we can wait, the frock is in the wardrobe and it'll be ready when you two are.
pink fluffy hugs from me, the rest is in ya pm box.
You know you're addicted when....
you've flounced/ left the building/ gone vanilla/ denounced the lifestyle
but then cant resist temptation to log in in stealth mode 3- 4 times a day to read the daily goings on/ check your pm box/ see if anyone's noticed you've gone / keep your ad & photos running...just in case
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and was more than explicit about his wants and desires!!!
) is a good start :twisted: 
back 
good to see you back luv