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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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"IC?" I'm not up with the lingo round these parts yet, takes me a good 2 days to learn new shorthand!
Yeah, I seem to be getting mostly ignored in chat too, even when i ask questions like "Are there other rooms bar this one?" or "Are there shortcuts for whispering to people?"
IC = InsertCredit ya daft berk
and you will get ignored in chat, unless ya say something like......I got my 12" cock on cam....... or ....a/sl :doh:
- and even then most of em are illiterate and only recognise the words 'sex' and 'now' and 'pm'. you're far better off in here where we speak english not cybr txt spk and actually acknowldege ya presence
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yay! Go me!
Heh, i've always prided myself in Nettiquette, I feel I get my personality across just foine
Again, thanks for the warm welcome. hope to see some of you in chat!
its highly unlikely you'll see any of us over in 'that' chatroom (aka Directors central -show-us-ya-pussy-fancy-a-shag room) - but, come join in with us and the threads here in the cafe sometime
Quote by st3v3mmm dont tell us i
'Ello!
. My main interests include writing, music and movies.
InsertCredit
can see it coming "swinging heaven the musical"
welcome enjoy Might work though, I think I'll halt the production of Lord of the Ringtones for a bit.
good one St3v3 and Hiya InsertCredit
Welcome to the Cafe :welcome:
credit where credit's due - nice intro hun! (no pun intended :giggle: )
Quote by shavenmr
Didn't say going to a club means you are going to have some fun. The point I was trying to make was you mix with other swingers and get to know the atmosphere and that we are like everybody else really. Then maybe single guys will realise one liners and 'do u want a shag' isn't the way to go. For someone who hasn't been to a club u know alot about it???? The only point i do agree with u is the singles who follow couples, 'foot soldiers' i call them, a pain in the arse.
Ah i see, if I mis-read your post then I apologise. I certainly agree with the 'mix with other swingers and get to know the atmosphere and that we are like everyone else really' bit - but Mr HornyDerby doesnt 'do' the social scene (and yes, you can go to a club and just be there socially but I dont think that's what he'd be there for)
As for me seeming to know alot about clubs - thats probably because I've been here a while, I pay attention to threads and advice/ support given by others and I understand how this works because of that. I've met alot of people from here and had good discussions & conversations about many many aspects of the swinging scene, including clubs, with those who do know from experience...... but then, thats what you get from respecting what the social side can offer you and not being here just for a quick shag.
Quote by MikeNorth
there are still folk left here trying to tread water, and new blood coming onto the site who are genuine and need advice and support sometimes. Now it may well be that we're fighting a losing battle, but I do like a challenge! As it is now, there are a few Mods and a handful of regs trying very hard to make welcome those who are genuine, and 'police' those who're not, and maybe give the influx of newcomers some guidance and education.....
Well saidf Darkfire, I agree. I'm still around in here and hoping for an improvement.
Thanks Mike. As it stands I'm currently registered and posting over the 3 sites, and I'll admit that SH is one of my lesser priorities - but, have chatted to many 'noobs' here over the Xmas period (and flamed a few too :twisted: ) and there are genuine folk who appreciate a little site 'guidance'. While ever they're here, I feel there's a way I can 'help'.
I dont think the site would be in the mess it is now if everyone else had done the same and not left just the handful of mods to try and control this mess on their own..... but then I also understand that most of us are/were here for fun, and right now SH isnt fun, its bloody hard work - and thats from someone who isnt a Mod!
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But what i am really saying is this - that SH isn't what we know. Most of us regulars, some bloody good people, hardly touch this site with a barge pole now. This entire forum is dying. The people who held this site together have been left high and dry and don't even know how the Moderators will react.
I cant argue with you Postie, not do I want to. I'm still here, albeit fairly intermittantly because although the vast majority of regs have moved on, I see, amongst the many many 'quick-shag havent got a clue about 'swinging' type people, that there are still folk left here trying to tread water, and new blood coming onto the site who are genuine and need advice and support sometimes. There also many who need kicking into touch! :twisted:
Perhaps if everyone hadnt bailed so quickly, we could have moderated and kept this under control - but, what actually happened was that the vast majority of those with experience, 'standing' and 'respect' buggered off elsewhere leaving less than a handful of 'regulars' to take on the challenge. Now it may well be that we're fighting a losing battle, but I do like a challenge! As it is now, there are a few Mods and a handful of regs trying very hard to make welcome those who are genuine, and 'police' those who're not, and maybe give the influx of newcomers some guidance and education. :jagsatwork: :crazy:
:welcome: This is a bit of a nonsense post as i'm not talking about your original post re the Mods specifically.....but I think I understand why some stay.
what pains me more than the demise of SH as we knew it, is what others have hit on:
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It saddens me to see how we all seem to turning on each other :cry:
Yes come on guys we need to stick together ...........lots of us agree that the site has gone downhill..............but we need to support each other & hang in there in the hope that things will improve
I cant say that I'm optimistic that things will improve - but aside from that and sadder still is the fact that this 'community' is now fragmented over 3 different sites, and some people are still bickering and sniping at each other!
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Fair play darkfire I must say you have a better grasp of the english lanuage than me but seriously did he expect a reply from that post.
ahhh, you mean
At a guess, I'd say it got locked because its basically a load of bollocks.that bit!
, well, at least I spelt 'bollox' correctly! Well I'm failing miserably in mine - and its only day one!!
Cut down smoking - already smoked 20 :shock:
Lose weight - am fed up enough tonight to have pigged a full packet of Pringles, with dip, and several glasses of JD....... :shock:
Be Nice to Newbies - :shock: ooops
Refuse to do 'pink and fluffy' and dont tell anyone you've missed them/ want a cuddle/ apologise .... - am failing soooooo miserably on this one, someone give me a personality transplant back to normal please :twisted:
there are others, which i'm sure by tomorrow I'll have broken too.
Cut down smoking - already smoked 20 :shock:
Lose weight - am fed up enough tonight to have pigged a full packet of Pringles, with dip, and several glasses of JD....... :shock:
Be Nice to Newbies - :shock: ooops
Refuse to do 'pink and fluffy' and dont tell anyone you've missed them/ want a cuddle/ apologise ....
- am failing soooooo miserably on this one, someone give me a personality transplant back to normal please :twisted: there are others, which i'm sure by tomorrow I'll have broken too.
At a guess, I'd say it got locked because its basically a load of bollocks.
now, it may well have been an attempt at doing something a little different ...BUT.. as there's absolutely no info about you in it you're highly unlikley to recieve any real replies or response to it. The stuff about your Doc is just made up and there's nothing more there about YOU.
May I suggest, that if sharing your oral skills and desire to pleasure a fem using your mouth to completion is what you're offering...... then say that - accompanied by some info about you - age, build, type of fem you're looking for & any preferences, and most importantly, what else you'd be lookingt for from the meet - because frankly any guy who's offering to lick pussy to completion, take his fill of cum and nothing more sounds a little bit too good to be true.........and, any 'fem' who responds to it, on the basis of the info you gave, might well be a bit too good to be true too.
now, it may well have been an attempt at doing something a little different ...BUT.. as there's absolutely no info about you in it you're highly unlikley to recieve any real replies or response to it. The stuff about your Doc is just made up and there's nothing more there about YOU.
May I suggest, that if sharing your oral skills and desire to pleasure a fem using your mouth to completion is what you're offering...... then say that - accompanied by some info about you - age, build, type of fem you're looking for & any preferences, and most importantly, what else you'd be lookingt for from the meet - because frankly any guy who's offering to lick pussy to completion, take his fill of cum and nothing more sounds a little bit too good to be true....
.....and, any 'fem' who responds to it, on the basis of the info you gave, might well be a bit too good to be true too. Quote by shavenmr
Try a swingers club, this is Swinging Heaven so why wouldn't u try a club where swingers go. Get to know people in the club and enjoy the atmosphere of swinging, if only more single guys would do this we could all have more fun.
Not necessarily
just because a single male can get (often limited) membership to a swingers club, it still doesnt guarantee you a shag! many of the fems and couples in the clubs are the same fems and couples here on the site, and others.
Not that i can speak from experience on this one as I dont do clubs - but am sure that someone will back me up and say that really what many swingers clubs dont need are more single males! There are more than enough already who follow people around clubs hoping to 'get lucky' - now I'm not saying all clubs, and all single guys are like that - but its the main thing that puts me off going - especially when there's a chance that ANY of them will have your 'well you're a swinger aint you, lets have some fun' attitude.
Of course clubs, couples and singles will often welcome participation from single males, (usually only on designated 'mixed' nights though,) but never think for one minute that being in a club guarantees you a 'good time'.
Well, i've been Darkfire for years. It'll probably always stay with me.
Originally it was 'given' to me by people I associated with at the time, and is a coven name - very basically cos I'm dark & fiery!
now, wether that's dark & fiery cos of the eyes, or because I'm dark haired, or dark as in darkside, kinda depends on the way people take me when they meet me. Also fire because it comes naturally ...... :shock:
And of course, the old cliche - playing with fire will get your fingers burnt. :twisted:
Originally it was 'given' to me by people I associated with at the time, and is a coven name - very basically cos I'm dark & fiery!
now, wether that's dark & fiery cos of the eyes, or because I'm dark haired, or dark as in darkside, kinda depends on the way people take me when they meet me. Also fire because it comes naturally ...... :shock:
And of course, the old cliche - playing with fire will get your fingers burnt. :twisted:
Pretty simply put - this isnt a sex contact site just for guys to meet 'like minded women for some fun'. Its a swingers site - thus, here you will find sexuality of all denominations and understanding of it.
Swinging Heaven, as I understand it is (was, maybe still is really :shock: ) a community of like-minded people utilising a website to meet others with shared interests. Ultimately of course what you do get is many people - couples, individuals and groups enjoying 'recreational sex' for the fun and mutual enjoyment of it........but theres a difference between that, and 'Adult Contacts'.
Sounds to me like you're specifically looking for a 1:1 meet with a female, you're not interested in getting to know people socially via munches and the social scene generally...which is, as many many people here will tell you, the best way to meet like-minded people ...... so, you're basically here for a quick shag......
Dont get me wrong - you may well find it, especially with the influx of people who are also here thinking its an adult contact site......... but, unless you can outshine the thousands of single males who are also here looking for a non-scene quick shag, then you've got your work cut out!. In your ad you're looking for very different things, but in your post you say you're looking for women - you're confusing me already! (it aint hard! ). Your pics are fine, couple of good facial shots, cock shots aint bad either , your profile is a positive one too which is good- the one thing that'll put people off I think is when guys start whinging and bloody moaning about how they havent managed to meet anyone yet! - makes us think there's sommat wrong with you!
but, Good luck hun, hope ya find what you're looking for. :shock:
Happy New Year!
Swinging Heaven, as I understand it is (was, maybe still is really :shock: ) a community of like-minded people utilising a website to meet others with shared interests. Ultimately of course what you do get is many people - couples, individuals and groups enjoying 'recreational sex' for the fun and mutual enjoyment of it........but theres a difference between that, and 'Adult Contacts'.
Sounds to me like you're specifically looking for a 1:1 meet with a female, you're not interested in getting to know people socially via munches and the social scene generally...which is, as many many people here will tell you, the best way to meet like-minded people ...... so, you're basically here for a quick shag......
Dont get me wrong - you may well find it, especially with the influx of people who are also here thinking its an adult contact site......... but, unless you can outshine the thousands of single males who are also here looking for a non-scene quick shag, then you've got your work cut out!. In your ad you're looking for very different things, but in your post you say you're looking for women - you're confusing me already! (it aint hard!
). Your pics are fine, couple of good facial shots, cock shots aint bad either , your profile is a positive one too which is good- the one thing that'll put people off I think is when guys start whinging and bloody moaning about how they havent managed to meet anyone yet! - makes us think there's sommat wrong with you! but, Good luck hun, hope ya find what you're looking for. :shock:
Happy New Year!
I too remember the original post - and what a poignant follow-up to start the new year!
Happy thoughts now, and best wishes to you and your friends luv
and Thanks for the update, sometimes its nice to hear how folk are getting on - and especially if people here offered help and advice, We might not have had any direct impact in this particular sitatuion, but support from others can often be just that little bit of grounding someone needs.
Happy New Year VV
Happy thoughts now, and best wishes to you and your friends luv
and Thanks for the update, sometimes its nice to hear how folk are getting on - and especially if people here offered help and advice, We might not have had any direct impact in this particular sitatuion, but support from others can often be just that little bit of grounding someone needs.
Happy New Year VV
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Can you put mine and Debs names down please. At least we won't need to burn anything to keep warm
With the british weather, pack brollies, waterproofs, bikini, winter coats,hat, gloves, scarfs, sunblock and antifreeze for your car :shock: :shock:
What about red shorts ????
Will we see any of them out and about this summer ??
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OK folks......here you go.........I've hosted the photo's I've been given and have obscured the faces of everyone, as I wasn't sure who was ok with faces being shown. I have the originals, so anyone that's ok with their faces being seen, give me a shout and I'll replace them.
I've tried to get the photo's in the sequence they were as the evening progressed.
Hope you all enjoy seeing the misery and suffering I go through as the gits burn me shorts.........lol
All having fun and getting into the Xmas spirit (or should that be spirits?...lol)
Still loads of Xmas spirits being drunk!
Lapdance extraordinaire
Eat, drink, dance and be merry
Booyakasha.......the clown prince puts in an appearance
OMG..It's Santa himself ...notice the red shorts are still intact at this stage
Lovely young lady making an announcement on the mic before it gets used as a lollipop
The struggle ensues for the shorts......
And goes on.....
And still it goes on...........this is 5 minutes after they first started trying to de-robe me of my shorts.....BLOODY WUSSES......lol
After 10 minutes of fighting valiantly to save my dignity and the infamous red shorts the struggle is over...........but it took 9 of them to get them off.........lol
And what are you going to do with them now ladies and gentlemen??
OMG!!...NO....you can't be thinking of burning them can you?
You really are trying to get them lit aren't you?
Well....It took 9 of you to get them off.......how many is it going to take to get them lit??
Bloody hell.......It's about time you managed it.......lol
There you are ladies and gentlemen......the end of an era.....or is it??....lol
Me "serenading"? a couple of the guests
OMG!!...they've found out I had a "spare" pair of red shorts
And did they manage to get the "spare" pair off ??........NO!!...not even with the lady in the leather dress offering to sit on my face..........lol
And finally......The "tartan vicar".......who seems to have lost his dog collar (and shirt) to the party animal.
Once again...Fantastic party....all made possible by the fantastic group of guests.......Here's looking forward to the next one. (which will probably be in the summer when it's a bit warmer) I believe it is Steph's birthday on 1st July, so will possibly hold a BBQ party at my house the nearest Saturday to that.
It'll give me a chance to get the big Gazebo out on the back garden again. Woo Hoo.
Who's up for it??
Marcuso
xx xx
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: Piccies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
oh, and I'm first on the list again!!!!
yes bloody please! Quote by MikeNorth
Very clever post Cris. I just hope that readers don't give up in disgust before the last bit.
Good luck,
Mike.
haha - I almost did...sat here skim-reading with the steam beginning to build and finger poised on the 'shoot down in flames button'
:twisted: but that's my fault, just been over in LMU and Darkfire's non too impressed
- now, have read Chris's post properly- and would like to say....... :welcome: bloody good post hun! Welcome to SH!
