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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by ijiot
General food one is OK but add some ice cubes and a silk blindfold too?

well, if you're adding the ice cubes I may as well put a small bottle of JD in there too, for dutch courage, chilling out afterwards, medicinal usage and all-round under-the-influence behaviour! :P
oh, and while I'm at it, 20 B&H :smoke:
Quote by janeandwill
I like BBWs but since im currently a BBM i find its never reciprocated,

I like my men on the chunky side or cuddly.
However I have a weight problem (yoyo's 5 stone either up or down every so often.) When I was on the larger side myself, I wouldn't consider dating a larger man. (Due to thinking that being seen with a large bloke would bring attention to myself). Thankfully I have become slightly more confident and now don't give a fcuk what other people think about my size.
Jane xx
I dunno about this one Jane, I've always gone for big strapping fellas - far from bringing attention to myself, its more of a personal preference.... V shaped backs do it for me everytime, thighs like tree trunks...hands like shovels...lmao.... i think i'm just 'wired' to see big blokes = powerful blokes, and if he's built like the proverbial brick outhouse, there's more chance he can throw me round the bedroom / carry me over the threshold/ drag me back to his place a la caveman style lol :twisted: - in fact, the added bonus to his physical abilities is that a 'proper' BSF makes me look positively tiny!! lol
This topic always brings out people's differences of opinion doesnt it?! lol
I'm reasonably happy with my figure - i dont want to be skinny, granted I'd be happierlosing a couple of stone, but thats probably as far as I'd go, it'd get rid of the lumps and bumps and general flabbyness, but I like rounded hips and big boobs, and i'm more 'me' this way - does that make any sense? :confused:
I really dont mind the 'BBW' label, tag, call it what you will, therefore I choose to use it. Like i've siad before, more for convenience than a "ooooo look at meeee i'm fat but stunning statement". I dont give a flying fluck if people think I fit the BBW label (as in, wether I'm beautiful or not) - maybe its a problem with what 'BBW' means that people find 'irritating/ offensive/ whatever - BBW = Fat but actually quite attractive? Fat but Body Confident Enough to Think I'm Sexy to Some People ?? define it any way you like, it simply means, to me, "I'm a big gal, so dont be expecting a size 10 when you meet me". biggrin
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I think personally BBW means nothing more that over weight, to me its just a 'nice' name thats used as many people don't like the word fat, does not actually mean your beatiful, when someomes says they a BBW we don't honestly expect them to be stunning looking just big.

Hi, I'm Darkfire and I'm fat.
or Hi, I'm Fat, Frumpy and have an ass like the back end of a double decker bus
or Hi, I'm a BBW - which means I eat too much, dont do enough excerise but can shag like the best of em....
kinda doesnt have the same ring to it does it? lol
I use "BBW" cos it means any of the above, and being big, i'm obviously a lazy cow ( rolleyes) and its just easier to type BBW than any of the above, so at least folk know what to expect when they meet me! I dont use it cos I think I'm beautiful etc etc - its for convenience! and really, what you see is what you get - if others dont like fat, that's cool, as with anything on SH, its each to their own, I use "BBW" to say 'dont be expecting a size 10'. But yeah, I agree, I dont like using the word 'fat' either!
and NN, I hate the way you keep referring to yourself as 'big' and 'overweight' and 'fat' and 'too big for most people on here' etc etc, cos quite frankly I think you're lovely! biggrin, I know you're gonna argue that 'well its true' ' i tell it like it is' and all that - but you dont half put yourself down unnecessarily sometimes.
Bloody hell there's definately a love bug going around at the moment!!
biggrin biggrin Congrats Bassman & Bernie!!
wishing you all the best for your future together!!
biggrin biggrin
Dark x
(makes concious decision to not sit on any SH chairs in the near future!!
Mwwahhh hahahahaaaaaaaaa :twisted: :twisted:
hmmm, was only winding you up - there is no inititation ceremony, and dont be worried, we dont bite much!
but, back to the original thread point about clubs - there is a 'gentlemans club' (aka lap dancing/pole dancing club about 10 miles out of Derby that I know of, it is a bit like Eden though although you do find alot more couples in this one. It is not, repeat not a swingers club though, and you will get asked to leave for anything more than a kiss/cuddle with your own partner, and for so much as touching the girls.
Quote by Vicky_uk
I do like Lamb though
and I prefer home made mint sauce
who else still makes their own mint sauce?

that'll be me then! - first thing I planted in garden when I moved in was mint....
cant beat home -made mint sauce, i just do it in vinegar with a spot of water and sugar mmmmmmmmmmm, non of this shop-bought crap for us, doesnt even taste like mint! rolleyes
most Sundays I try to do the full Sunday roast dinner, with home-made yorkies too, and, if its beef.......onion sauce :lickface:
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Quote by stuartrossy1
God your scary !!! but very intriguing !!

Really????
(blatantly stolen from Smokin Muff :uhoh: )
If you think I'm scary, god help ya when you meet some of the other site regulars!! (mentioning no names)
Which reminds me......you aint had your initiation ceremony yet have you sweetheart? :twisted:
Ooo Vix kiss
I had a head on crash a liitle while ago, wrote the car off (and no PiercedJon I wasnt driving :jagsatwork: lol ) - scary shit at the time, more so cos my daughter was in the back, but, like you say, Thank God for seatbelts.
Glad to hear you're allfine! , who put that damn signpost there? :taz:
alright, the earings were a bad idea rolleyes
I think its the hair with the red that does it, firey by name, fiery by nature

redface redface redface
dunno i'm lost, have no idea what you're all on about
but Blonde you're lovely kiss
and whoever's upsetting you : :taz: :fuckinghell:
hmmmmm....... Dark predicts...... 21st November 2005.
who's running the book? can you be bribed? :twisted:
Quote by Sarah

I’m bringing up now because it is going to be very important to me, and I'd like as many of my friends from here to share it with me.
..............
If the ceremony, I really will want some sort of “wording”, someone to officiate, a best man (yeah – right :drysmile a cake (just love cakey-bun) a stag night evil - oh – and to get a wobble on afterwards.

To: Officiate:- Mal
Photographer:- Marcuso
Bridesmaids type thingy:- Darkfire & Debbiewebs
Best man thingy:- me
Stag Night thingy:- Best man thingy to arrange :twisted: :twisted:
Hen Night thingy:- Darkfire & Debbiewebs to arrange :P :P
Wording:- you should write your own
Guests:- the rest of SH
As semi-official but not-confirmed bridesmaid type thingy, I propose a ceremony AND munch-type after-party as being the best way to celebrate this! (as in, fluck it, let's do both! lol ) (as opposed to Debbiewebs, who'll be along shortly and say 'fluck it lets do em all' rotflmao )
innocent bolt
Quote by stuartrossy1
No, but I can imagine you light up derby darkfire!! lol
xxxx

no hun, that's the flashing blue lights that light up Derby once they know Dark's on way for a night out !! rotflmao
Quote by Osmosis
For all those gardeners, a quick poll.... Do you have any pampas grass growing in your gardens? lol

Yes redface redface redface redface
I dont do pineapple & cheese on sticks tho biggrin
:mrgreen: Holy Crapola !! :mrgreen:
I swear my nerves cant take any more of these 'Important announcements' !!! but fuck! what an announcement!!!!!!! :shock: biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin
:happy: :happy: Bless You Both & Congratulations :happy: :happy:
passionkiss
Quote by Vicky_uk
Sir Lee certified gorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgeous
Darkfire certified Bonkers
hows that lol

rotflmao rotflmao hardly likley to help me get a shag though is it?! lol
and for SirLee - along the same lines as Vicky:
SirLee certified Phhwooaarrr! (adjust spelling as appropriate!)
Quote by Him'nHer

Are we allowed to make suggestions here?
How about an adult buy and sell part so we can sell all the stuff that ebay won't let you
Shaz x

Yes we would be very keen on that idea. I think there was some silly court juddgement that might make it harder to sell adult DVDs online, but other things could be traded. This could be open to scams though.
We are both soft swingers, so for us it would be great if the new version of SH could have an ads category for soft swingers.
I am going to start a thread for site idea's, hope i won't get told of hehehe
Shaz
There are "swinging" sites out there already that allow peeps to sell used (as in unwashed) items of lingerie as well as Paycam shows etc, .......... do we really need this on SH?
I'm with Him & Her on this one - do we really need this on SH? No No No :dry: definately not!!
This would just contribute to the 'money making' concerns most people have right now - and most likley we'd be influxed with a whole load of 'entrepeneurs' (sp?) ( rolleyes rolleyes ) here to make a quick £££ and not to be part of the community. It would ruin the reputation of the site because worn unwashed knickers and pube clippings would be exactly the type of 'good's available for purchase. That, and novelty adult crap like willy-shaped drinking straws rolleyes . If people want that stuff there's enough on ebay if you look hard enough, I dont particularly want to see it here, thanks.
I do know that there are several people here who have small 'garage enterprises' making bondage equipment/ furniture/ etc etc - hats off to anyone who is making some money on the side, but I dont think its necessary to have that directly on SH.
Just my 2p worth.
I do like the idea of an improved profile though - as in - a little general info about interests etc, with optional photo's. I know some of us are using the ads section for this purpose - and are still getting speculative emails as a response.
Quote by Marcuso

>>>Dark remembers! redface wink

Marcuso hopes she doesn't remember getting her ar$e slapped bolt
rolleyes rolleyes still got the feckin hand print ya numpty, am not likely to forget smackbottom smackbottom
Quote by blonde
Babe .............. out of interest ................ were you the guy in the black jumper ? kiss
soz but I am awful with names !!! bolt
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

That was MartellNotts! the bar-hugger lol
>>>Dark remembers cos she took mental notes ! :notes: redface wink
Quote by Deviated Prevert
Before you all convince this guy that there's absolutely no chance, I think I should point out that I have had a couple of bi women express an interest in sharing me in the past. smile
It's not unknown, you just have to be in the right place at the right time. wink

>>>>sticks hand up to volunteer wave
now..... just need another single bifem to tag team with and you're sorted!!
easier said than done! :giveup:
:dry: I actually really like gardening - love pottering about in the summer picking home-grown flowers and growing my own vegetables.........i even have a greenhouse :shock: redface redface
that said, I tend to have little phases - and now the 'season' is over, i prob wont even go out there again til February! :roll
so, stuff that occupies my time (other than SH, and I'm here alot! ) .... i 'do' embroidery sometimes :shock:, ride horses, read crime books and study! That's it! confused
Oh, I forgot, shopping!! biggrin biggrin biggrin