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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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Quote by Dawn_Mids
I dont do pics
need a wide angle lens and a bloody good airbrush first!
I'm just not photogenic at all, which is a right ball-ache cos I've found a blinder for the signpost challenge thread!
Darkfire, please think about joining in, honeslty, if I can do some, so can you. If nothing else, go get stripped off and take the pics for your own pleasure because it really is a scream.
You would not believe the risks I have taken, one of the pics is next to where my Mum works, a couple being on the Main road through Meriden. All of them taken between and pm which isn't very late :lol2:
If you deleted the pics it doesn't matter but give it a go
Well, it appears that I'll be out and about on Friday night doing a few pics - I know of a sign and its just too good an opportunity to miss lol
soooo many quirky places in this area ...... as long as I dont chicken out!
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Elvira
Morticia Addams
Lily Munster
Vampirella
Lucy Harker
:thumbup: Ohhh God Yesss! can I watch please?
all of the above sound like appealing options to me lol
also
Geena Davis (Thelma & Louise look)
Catherine Zeta (bring Zorro too lol)
and a couple of Roman Gladiators for good measure....
then I'd probably be hauled over a cavemans shoulder and carried home, draggin Moll Flanders in tow
its a tricky one this... i'm not sure if I can pin it down to any specific thing,
but
long dark hair does it for me ... especially naturally wavy hair that falls into little curls at the ends....
i love curves :twisted: lovely full boobs and rounded hips, and a sensual pouty mouth :twisted:
personailty wise - i do tend to 'go' for women who are very similar to me, I like the sparks!
generally fems who are really down to earth, not up their own arse and not 'in ya face' all the time...but it really depends on the individual woman I guess
but
long dark hair does it for me ... especially naturally wavy hair that falls into little curls at the ends....
i love curves :twisted: lovely full boobs and rounded hips, and a sensual pouty mouth :twisted:
personailty wise - i do tend to 'go' for women who are very similar to me, I like the sparks!
generally fems who are really down to earth, not up their own arse and not 'in ya face' all the time...but it really depends on the individual woman I guess
Quote by Deviated Prevert
The academic term flys by - and there are lots of holidays and semester breaks etc. Its my impression from your post that right now everything is getting a bit much and you're ready for the Xmas break. Spend some quality time with your boy over the holiday - gives you something to look foward to and aim for - and just think, that'll be a whole semester done and dusted!
Nice idea, but student midwives (or nurses, physiotherapists, occupational therapists, etc, etc) don't get academic holidays, they work full time and as already mentioned do shift work. It's bloody tough, which is why so many people do drop out (well over 30% for nursing courses, according to the last figures I read).
Granted DP, sorry, I'd already posted that before Princess said she was a midwifery student.
Hey Princess :therethere:
Right, we all have rough patches and bad days, so dont be doing anything about your uni course right now - step back and look at the bigger picture....
i went back to uni when my daughter was just a toddler, full-time, and yes it's hard going but remember, your degree will give your son a better quality of life. I had lots of people saying 'ooo dont you think you should be a 'proper mum' and such like, and it really didnt help things at all. It just made me feel more guilty and thus starts the downward spiral.
There is always the option of speaking to someone at student support, and talk to your lecturers. If wosrt comes to the worst defer your studies and pick up where you left off next year. I'm not advising you to do that just yet though. You obviously impressed them enough to get the place, most universities will bend over backwards to support students as it just doesnt look good on their league tables when students simply drop out of courses.
The academic term flys by - and there are lots of holidays and semester breaks etc. Its my impression from your post that right now everything is getting a bit much and you're ready for the Xmas break. Spend some quality time with your boy over the holiday - gives you something to look foward to and aim for - and just think, that'll be a whole semester done and dusted! Stick with it til Xmas, consider your options in a few weeks once your whole semester's grades are back and you've had a bit of breathing space.
It doesnt help that your fella's away and not around to support ya (yes of course he is mentally, but sometimes we all just need someone to physically lean on sometimes, ya know? ) but you've landed here at SH hun and there's loads of folk here who are able to lend a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on sometimes! I bet you'll get loads of responses to your post, lots of moral support, and that might just help you get through
You also have support at uni - use it, that's what they're paid for!
I could go on and on about this for 4 pages, but I wont - much of what i want to say will be said by others - but feel free to pm anytime you might need to sound off and just get it out your system. I've been there hun
Right, we all have rough patches and bad days, so dont be doing anything about your uni course right now - step back and look at the bigger picture....
i went back to uni when my daughter was just a toddler, full-time, and yes it's hard going but remember, your degree will give your son a better quality of life. I had lots of people saying 'ooo dont you think you should be a 'proper mum' and such like, and it really didnt help things at all. It just made me feel more guilty and thus starts the downward spiral.
There is always the option of speaking to someone at student support, and talk to your lecturers. If wosrt comes to the worst defer your studies and pick up where you left off next year. I'm not advising you to do that just yet though. You obviously impressed them enough to get the place, most universities will bend over backwards to support students as it just doesnt look good on their league tables when students simply drop out of courses.
The academic term flys by - and there are lots of holidays and semester breaks etc. Its my impression from your post that right now everything is getting a bit much and you're ready for the Xmas break. Spend some quality time with your boy over the holiday - gives you something to look foward to and aim for - and just think, that'll be a whole semester done and dusted!
Stick with it til Xmas, consider your options in a few weeks once your whole semester's grades are back and you've had a bit of breathing space.It doesnt help that your fella's away and not around to support ya (yes of course he is mentally, but sometimes we all just need someone to physically lean on sometimes, ya know? ) but you've landed here at SH hun and there's loads of folk here who are able to lend a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on sometimes! I bet you'll get loads of responses to your post, lots of moral support, and that might just help you get through
You also have support at uni - use it, that's what they're paid for!
I could go on and on about this for 4 pages, but I wont - much of what i want to say will be said by others - but feel free to pm anytime you might need to sound off and just get it out your system. I've been there hun
Quote by Colts23
as for the higland tofee bar :grin: remember when we used to from my grandparents house and run into town to buy them
OMG :shock: :shock: Highland Toffee !!!!! yep I remember those, and Wham bars - can still get Wham bars round here
Dib Dab anyone?
and OMG, kola kubes
we used to get "20p's worth please" of Rhubarb 'n' Custard.....they did Blackberry 'n' custard too , they were hard boiled sweets, in big jars - remeber those?? I aint seen those for donkeys!
Quote by AndyWolves
Kaz,
r (and maybe another one at valentines?
x
oooo you lil 'ole romantic you :giggle:
Oh god, I'd best check the diary then.........saturdays are best for me, gives me sunday to recover!!
:shock: :shock:
1: Fri 9th or Sat 10th 05 - nope, not really = Sheffield Social Drinkies on the Thurs....:cheers:
2: Fri 16th or Sat 17th Dec 05 (wk b4 christmas) ...skint
3: Fri 20th or Sat 21st Jan 06....still skint after Yorks Munch
or
4: Fri 10th or Sat 11th Feb 06 (Valentines weekend
) - best I can do I'm afraid*awaits input from everyone else but I dont have to be there you know! *
Quote by bbw
i agree with NN
I am a BBW... and have been to clubs and private parties..... and met some very nice people too...
Just coz ur BBW...doesn't mean there has to be a bbw only party
to be honest with you i wouldn't want to go to a party where everyone was the same, the fact that we are all different makes it better, parties that cater for all are best
... i am always up for any kind of party that involves vodka and jelly, so please be sure to count me in, as long as my skinny mates are all invited as well
love bbw :beer:
.... as mentioned wayyyyyyyy back in this mad thread, I would be happy with something like this :
I said:
I say lets have a ‘vodka jelly party’ with an emphasis on BBW and people that appreciate curves - is that a better approach??
…. And this works for me
: Quote by Nicola&Alan
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its great to get into a place and know you are going to be appreciated for who you are and not what you look like... on the other hand i'd feel a lot happier knowing that the guys going to a party like that were wanting to go because they liked bigger women and not because they are randy little net geeks looking for a hole to spurt their stuff...
you know... any hole will do, that sort...
…swinging is swinging and it should be open to all, no matter what you look like, colour, size, disabilities...
and as for this:
Quote by KazBBW
Can I officially have my name on the list in the first spot for attendees please? (and put DarkFire in at #2 so I can stand next to her in the queue!!)
And - Darkfire has no CHOICE she has to come :giggle: :giggle:
:shock:
I'll keep my eye on LMU then shall I?? :twisted:
Quote by equi-princess
I absolutely loathe having my photo taken........ it stems from being dragged in front of the camera for pics for Grandma...... to everyday stuff like photo security passes.....
I hate it.....!!!!!
equi-princess xxx
My sentiments exactly!
I just feel stupid 'posing' - fake smile (i very rarely smile on photos on the rare occasion I have them taken!) and there's always a lump bump or stretch mark that looks ghastly!
mind you, I say all this and have never had em done with all this lighting/ composition business....so i'll think about it! :giveup:
but there's no way on this Gods earth i'm participating in a masterclass complete with spangly thong!
Quote by AndyWolves
To be run in a drinking establishment somewhere accessible to all....I'd cheerfully teach everyone to get great photos, and we'll have DarkFire posing for us so I can offer live demonstrations...
Dust of yer sequined leotard girl
You ARE shittin me aint ya?? :shock: :shock:
Not in this lifetime honey, I'm shy!
, honest :twisted: masterclass with me indeed
Quote by naughtynymphos1
yeah a credit card
NN your quips crease me !
*wipes coffee from monitor*an absolute classic :thumbup:
I'm with Serendipity about the old jeans thing too
and Treasure with the Dinner Suits - well tailored black trousers, polished Patrick Cox shoes and a good white shirt always look good :twisted:
oh, i'll add one to the hard hat thing - Rigger Boots :twisted: :twisted:
(no pouches! :shock: )
oh - another one - fitted shorts/ boxers ....
will one day learn to keep my big mouth shut!!
ooo am all embarrassed now!
any signposts worthy of a photo anywhere between you and me then NN?
get ya wide-angle lens and ya tri-pod ready Andy :twisted:
*edited by Dark, who's gone all girly and shy ! :angel: *
Oh My God, my cheeks are burning here !!
ooo am all embarrassed now!
any signposts worthy of a photo anywhere between you and me then NN?
get ya wide-angle lens and ya tri-pod ready Andy :twisted:
*edited by Dark, who's gone all girly and shy ! :angel: *
Quote by devondelight
I agree totally Darkfire .. I have met NN and she is gorgeous :P
p.s. bet you are too .. dying to meet you
Oh My God, my cheeks are burning here !!
Quote by AndyWolves
Thanks Froggy, but I, like DarkFire, had more of a social gathering in mind to begin with.
Also not sure I'm well known enough amongst the SH group to be doing this yet....I've made some great friends, but also repect that trust is earned over a period of time.
Lets keep a loop open, and look forward to the New Year....
Ooooo I am soooo with you on this one !!
the loop is definately open
:cry: I cant committ to organising anything until the New Year I'm afraid - simply just dont have the time or resources right now, and the initial plan was to have something with more of a social focus first ( ie: pub social meet) for SH members only, where people could get to know each other / chat/ drink whatever in a really comfortable atmosphere - which IMO takes alot of planning & consideration......then if folks were interested, a private house doo or similar :twisted:
So, if anyone wants to take the reigns .........
:giveup:
seems there's alot of interest, would be a shame to not take advantage (you know what I mean!) , unfortunatly just something I myself cant commit to at the mo. I personally wouldnt be interested in anything organised outside of SH though to be honest, sorry Froggy :doh:
So, if anyone wants to take the reigns .........
:giveup:
seems there's alot of interest, would be a shame to not take advantage
(you know what I mean!) , unfortunatly just something I myself cant commit to at the mo. I personally wouldnt be interested in anything organised outside of SH though to be honest, sorry Froggy :doh: 
Dark wants words! (and a location!)