for your lurgy Calista! I'll see you on the 18th anyway, hope you're better way before then! x
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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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Rather than posting in here hunny I'd be sending one hell of an apologetic/explanatory PM to Gingerjo - or post it in her thread she's just put up in LMU!
To be fair, these things happen - and usually when they do it's one thing after another!
I think we've all been there with 'the day from hell' where everything that can go wrong does go wrong! I know I have!
Unfortunatley for you, this is a GingerJo's meet we're talking about!
To be fair, these things happen - and usually when they do it's one thing after another!
I think we've all been there with 'the day from hell' where everything that can go wrong does go wrong! I know I have! Unfortunatley for you, this is a GingerJo's meet we're talking about!
Quote by scooter99
I'm gonna move away from the dance type tracks and say Alice Cooper's Poison :twisted:
it does have a certain ":twisted:" about it lol
especially 'I wanna hurt you just to hear you screamin' my name' :twisted:
good one like that one to, there is one called bed of nails by Cooper on the same Album which is good to.
:thumbup: yup, I'll go with bed of nails too!! - mind's gone blank now >>>>runs off to look through CD collection for more ideas!
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Bloody Hell, they still goin :eeek:
place will be overrun by grebo's, goths and soap dodgers with steel toecapped boots on.
ahh, i'm getting all nostalgic now
Most certainly are still goin' Meaty...
wanna take a trip down memory lane? :twisted:
seriously, there's a pretty good line up of gigs coming between now and Xmas, and steelies have been replaced by metal-heeled New Rocks, but, I'm sure you'll still blend in fine
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Hmm............. BioTek and Swarfega maybe
This is a serious green stain :shock: :shock: :shock:
Then its not Swarfega you need my friend, its.......
(TM Dambuster)
**works especially well if you pre-wash with Biotex, apply Tufanega liberally to siad stained area, and finish with a good cold rinse. ...
of baked beans for slight colour restoration
:giggle:
Awwww shite!! I'd have come down hun if you'd have said sommat earlier
As it stands I've already got plans now BUT if you dont get anyone and you do manage to flog em on Buy It Now.........NMA are playing Rock City in November (I think, ought to check the listings before I post this but I do know its a few weeks away...) and as I'm planning a little social meet to incorporate a gig......maybe you'd like to come to Notts instead?
either way, hope ya tickets aint wasted. Paul
As it stands I've already got plans now BUT if you dont get anyone and you do manage to flog em on Buy It Now.........NMA are playing Rock City in November (I think, ought to check the listings before I post this but I do know its a few weeks away...) and as I'm planning a little social meet to incorporate a gig......maybe you'd like to come to Notts instead?
either way, hope ya tickets aint wasted.
Paul I get where ya coming from Kemblu, I'm mostly a 'giver' too (but fook am I picky lol 
) I dont think its that unusual - its mental stimulation more than the physical :twisted:
I dont agree with the 'denying oneself' thing though - if you're a giver, then you still get pleasure from pleasing and pleasuring others......well, thats how it works for me lol - fair enough, its not direct sexual pleasure - but its not denying yourself either, IMO
for anyone who's reads the small print : :small-print: I guess I'd better add that I dont give all the time - and when I do take I'm a demanding little bitch lmfaoooo
) I dont think its that unusual - its mental stimulation more than the physical :twisted: I dont agree with the 'denying oneself' thing though - if you're a giver, then you still get pleasure from pleasing and pleasuring others......well, thats how it works for me lol
- fair enough, its not direct sexual pleasure - but its not denying yourself either, IMOfor anyone who's reads the small print : :small-print: I guess I'd better add that I dont give all the time - and when I do take I'm a demanding little bitch lmfaoooo
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On the subject of corsets though - I'd love one and hubby said he'd get me a couple for xmas.
Does anyone know any good sites for them?.
I'd definately recommend Fairy Goth Mother - they also have a website if you dont manage the Camden shop.
I can also recommend the crem de la crem, Vollers ( ) if you like the full-on decadent lingerie style and the other one I've personally bought from and recommend is Harlots and Angels Ebay store.
, depends on the type of corset you'd like really! 
Hey there As you dont have an add number in your sig/profile, I cant give any comment on its content - but to answer your question, I'd say yes, 'large framed' blokes get attention on here, just as slim or slight built do. Its all down to personal preferance hunny.
That said, its not all about body shape - personality and attitude count for a hell of alot more on here than whether someone's slim/well-built/tall/short etc etc. Of course, if you come in a package that makes you, as a person (not just a 'body') very attractive - you'll be fine here!
Get involved in the cafe, come make a few friends and get to know people!
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As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?
we have always thought how hard it must be 4 that third person to meet the cpl that is why we always try to make our person feel comfortable the min they walk through the door
As a single fem I have to say the first meeting usually scares me half to death
lol, hence I only ever meet now if its socially first, then a second meeting if everyone wants to take things further, with good communication in the middle! I'm definately capable of handling myself - its not the 'safety' thing that worries me, its the 'there's two of them and only one of me' or 'they have each other and I'm on my own' scenario - obviously the couple have discussed their fears and expectations together, and they'll also talk about me when I'm gone! I'm always very aware that both people in the couple have to feel comfortable with me - and although I havent come across it yet, I think I'd be pretty mortified if I turned up for a meet and one of the couple took an instant disliking to me!
Similarly, if, twenty minutes into a meet and any of us didnt feel 'right', its me who has to get up and leave, which is a difficult thing to do! There are definate disadvantages to being the single in a 3sum!
- but, it has it's advantages too :twisted: Quote by Chimone
wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
You might need to,
apparently we're like "rocking horse shit" (tm johnboy tm marcuso) - although with that pic, I doubt you'll be lacking attention for long! Lauren and Niel come on over into the Cafe and say Hello , get to know a few people, and you'll find its a hell of alot easier to find out where the parties are, and to get your names down for them!
You might feel a bit more at ease once you meet a few folk from here socially (at a munch - purely social, so no pressure whatsoever)
and, as Sarah suggests, with pics like those, get your 'delete' button at the ready!!
above all, :welcome: to SH!
This might be kinda off-topic a little -
but talking of electric shocks....... the trolleys in my local Tesco must be feckin super-charged!
i grab a trolley, get halfway down an aisle, and get a full-on static shock you can actually hear the 'zzap' :shock: it leaves my arm pretty numb for a few seconds too
cue me, gingerly pushing trolley around with the heel of my hand, and literally throwing stuff in to avoid skin contact with siad trolley :shock:
Now, it looks/sounds pretty damn funny, especially as every so often I forget to not touch the metal mesh, and i'll suddenly jump, whip hand back and say 'shit' quite loudly. I'm sure I must look like i'm having some kind of seizure
I thought it was just me - but today I saw someone else do exactly the same thing - so, is it just this particular Tesco or is it a design fault with their trolleys???:
but talking of electric shocks....... the trolleys in my local Tesco must be feckin super-charged!
i grab a trolley, get halfway down an aisle, and get a full-on static shock you can actually hear the 'zzap' :shock: it leaves my arm pretty numb for a few seconds too
cue me, gingerly pushing trolley around with the heel of my hand, and literally throwing stuff in to avoid skin contact with siad trolley :shock:
Now, it looks/sounds pretty damn funny, especially as every so often I forget to not touch the metal mesh, and i'll suddenly jump, whip hand back and say 'shit' quite loudly. I'm sure I must look like i'm having some kind of seizure
I thought it was just me - but today I saw someone else do exactly the same thing - so, is it just this particular Tesco or is it a design fault with their trolleys???
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