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Ooo yes, I'm there lol
"Whilst there are plenty of people catering for dance/punk/rock fans - Darkfire aims to cater for the 'darkwave' (goth, industrial, cyber) and associated music styles out there and anything else we like and feel is under representated. Darkfire will initially be a non-profit making concern with any money made over costs going back into improving the next event. We aim to work with anyone and everyone to bring the best down to Plymouth..." TM
I'm a 'Darkwave' music promotion site,bringing the best of goth to Plymouth, apparently :shock: biggrin
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Well, he's abrupt and to the point at least - there's no 'leading up the garden path' with this one is there?!! :shock:
but seriously - to all the guys who whinge about not getting replies/attention from ads/PM's etc, maybe this serves as a good example of some of the shite we ladies (and guys) have to put up with sometimes........and why sometimes we can be quite wary/picky about who we choose to reply to??
Even when your initial contact is fairly appealing and demonstrates you've actually read and understand our ads, who's to say you might not be this blokeor similar in disguise??? Persistance pays, and if you're genuine and truly interested, you wont mind putting in that extra effort, will you? wink That said, if you get a 'Thanks but No thanks' back, thats probably exactly what she means, and no amount of persistance or persuasion is gonna make her change her mind! rolleyes
An excellent example of 'How not to chat up a female on SH' lol!! rolleyes Live and Learn!
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Quote by bisto kid
Excuse me for being naive but what does VANILLA STYLE mean ? smile

as in...when you're out on a 'normal' night out with your vanilla (non-swinging) mates - and not in a potential 'swinging' situation or out with 'swingers'.
although I'd hasten to add the whole invading someone's personal space without invitation applies also to swinging situations, if not even more so! wink
edited to add:- I find that usually if you're out with other swingers, behaviour tends to be a hell of a lot more flirty, more touchy-feely etc, bewteen both males and females, and fem to fem - but, there's a fine line between what's acceptable touchy-feelyness and what's not, depending on the individual. Does that make sense? :confused:
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Quote by burnie
If you are going to talk into someone's ear in a club, talk to the side, so you're both staring in the same direction.
I find if someone speaks directly into my ear, it's like this
HELLLOOO HOW ARE YOOOUUUU?? I'd rather be allowed to adjust my head so I can hear them without blasting my ear off.
An ear blaster sends me off to find my friend, very quickly.

lol! yup, I forgot that one! - problem is with the talking to the side is that you get the full-on beer/garlic breath wafting directly across your face. At least if he's facing you and talking into your ear it kinda disappears over ya shoulder ! wink
rotflmao
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Quote by bisto kid
What an interesting thread lol Irish chopper you may just stink of desperation (iam horny, single and busting for a shag) which girls seem to smell unconsciously and run a mile when they smell it.

rotflmao rotflmao ahhhhhh yes, the ol' 'single, desperate and "me balls are round me knees" pheremone' - yup, 'fraid so honey, we can smell that one a mile off. Bit like the 'billy bullshit' one too!
lol
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wave Hiya Chimone
:welcome: to the Cafe!
straight jackets are in the padded room down the corridor to your right and through the double doors! wink
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Naaaa @ thread killer - you just gotta wait for everyone else to get up, its sunday ffs!
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Quote by redgirlmanc
Ha talking about going to town!

and everyone thinks I'm sooo quiet and innocent! :twisted: mmmwahhhhahahahahahaha
Oh we know THAT isnt true Darfire!!!! lol
redface redface I'll get me coat
rotflmao bolt
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Quote by Irish_Chopper
Ha talking about going to town!

and everyone thinks I'm sooo quiet and innocent! :twisted: mmmwahhhhahahahahahaha
Oh and my Personal Hygene is immaculate How dare YOU! :P

rotflmao Honey I wasnt inferring that it isnt - I was just covering all bases as there might be someone reading this who's in the same 'predicament' as you but just darent ask!, to whom my little (ok ok , it wasnt so little redface ) pearls of wisdom may point out the obvious!
pmsl!! biggrin
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Quote by Sarah
bluddy hell Darkfire
You had a dictionary for breakfast lol

redface redface sorry - kinda went 'off on one' there didnt I?
hahahahaha rotflmao
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(1) Oooo Ok, firstly, you blokies need to understand that when out with other girlies vanilla stylee (lol) all women have a secret code. Usually its not so secretive in that we disappear off to the toilets in twos to talk about you. lol Now, at the risk of being bitch-slapped by every fem on here for enlightening you and divulging information for the 'other team' smackbottom ..........other times, its soooo discreet anyone of male species doesnt notice - series of little looks, nods or the oh-so-subtle :thumbup: thumbs-up behind your back that lets our girlfriends know 'I'm cool, come find me later'. Then there's the wide-eyed 'WTF??? :shock: ' look, which means ' :jagsatwork: dont you friggin dare move I might need bailing out in a minute' look. lol The eye-roll rolleyes , which means ' this blokes a complete knob, get me out of here!' bolt .......there are lots more!.
(2) The hand on waist thing .... vanilla style, I personally would find this pretty 'leery'. Unless you're really pissed and need to lean on someone/something in order to maintain a vertical position, holding her waist is a bit 'intimate'.
You could just gently lean in toward her, or literally talk into her ear like everyone else does in a club atmosphere. Most people might do the not-too-over-friendly-but-I-like-physical-contact arm touch too - but by holding her waist you are effectively 'pulling her into you' (its the same with hips, ass and lower back) - and unless she wants your full on attention, she'll be subconciously screaming to her friend to 'get me outta here'!!
(3) You describe her/them as being a little 'off' with you anyway. :dry: Now either:
(a) she just aint interested
(b) her mate was under specific "dont let me do anything stupid tonight" instruction
or (c) They've 'heard' something about you they dont like and usually under these circumstances you may as well walk round with a neon sign saying 'lurgy' on it!!!! lol
or (d) You interrupted a 'girlie night out' :shock: - sometimes when a woman says 'hello', she does it out of politeness and recognition, and sometimes its not an open invitation to do the sin of all sins and 'come hijack the conversation and come between whatever chat me and my mate- i-havent-seen-all-week were having before you decided to come stick your oar in'!! rolleyes lol
(4) You mention that this is a reoccuring theme - now, assuming we're talking local women who might know you/ know of you to say hello to in the street.....I'd go with option 3c above :shock: - in which case you need to ask her outright at the earliest convenient opportunity. This gives her the upper-hand because she's put in a position where she has the power to 'enlighten' you and many women, in my oppinion, just love an opportunity to tell guys a few home truths! :sticky: :jagsatwork:
Now, if its a reoccuring theme that also runs with strangers, my advice is to stop eating garlic.....use listerine.....invest in a good deoderant.....see where I'm coming from?? redface lol innocent
Hope this helps! lol wink
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Depending on your financial circumstances - and your uni - there are student support funds/access grants/hardship funds available, and mature students are usually looked on favourably for these as Uni's understand that we have 'other' committments such as mortgages/kids/partners - and we're genuinely there because we want to be, like NN said earlier. Most of these funds are means-tested - but as I said before, you get out of uni what you put in - if you're contributing to your uni and generally considered to be an asset - the rewards are good. I kid you not, there are loopholes you can get through if you know how wink - go speak to student support!
Also, watch the boards in the SU bar/office - from local bar jobs to sessional seminar work for the university - its all there. wink
The financial struggle is part and parcel of university life hun - but, consider graduate salaries and the heightened self-esteem, and believe me, its all worth it. wink
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aggghhhhh!! :P another heat I cant choose from! rolleyes
I s'pose I could be bribed for my vote..... the pm button is below! :twisted:
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I cant decide on this one... :smoke: ....might just sit and admire for a while :twisted:
hmmmm :smitten:
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Quote by 3someinpreston
Me . ....... smile

Oooh that would have been a strong contender with the soap n all!
Anyhoos, 2 hours to go! Get voting!
This one would have got my vote! :cry:
but, as I can only vote for those who have entered, I've opted for
mattmoleman (and the little dimples - sooo cute!) lol wink
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
but anything with a musk smell really does it for me wink

Yep I'm with you there NN - my all time favorite is/was Mostly Musk by the Body Shop - discontinued now, but fook did that perfume do things to me lol! lol They had 3 or 4 in the musk oils range - Mostly, Japanese, Rose and another one...Vanilla Musk maybe?? I remember being at school and EVERYONE wore Body Shop - Dewberry was the big favorite!
(long shot - but if anyone happens to have any of said TBS perfume oils, please pm me!!)
other 'musk' faves include (cheap and highly synthetic, but still have that 'mmmmmmm' factor):
Coty Wild Musk
Lush Magi Musk :twisted: (why oh why do companies like this ALWAYS discontinue the best stuff? smackbottom )
Avon Night Musk
Avon Soft Musk
Body Shop White Musk
Jovan Musk (pure sex in a bottle)
ooo the list is endless!!
The other one I adore but cant get hold of (I've been know to pay upwards of £50 a bottle for this on Ebay, I kid you not!) is Icon by Lush.
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I too returned to education as a 'mature student' - although I wasnt that mature in terms of the closeness in age to 'regular' students, I was recognised and treated as such......in the first few weeks it was fairly difficult to 'integrate' and we 'oldies' tended to group together - it does get easier as the course progresses though - because life experience counts for soooo much at uni, and you'll be surprised at how much general and common sense you have that can be applied in all aspects of student life! :thumbup:
In terms of enthusiam for your new direction - embrace the whole student thing with open arms! make the most of every minute at uni hun because it will be one of the most enjoyable 3 years of your life! Get down to the library, max out your book allowance, immerse yourself into your subject. :notes: Ask questions, get known to your lecturers and put 100% into it. :jagsatwork: Seriously. Returning to education is an expensive and stressful thing - the golden rule is you get out of it what you put in!
I get the feeling that you might be a little apprehensive about the whole 'new direction' thing :uhoh: - at the end of the day, if you didnt want to change your life, you wouldnt have signed up for the course! wink Stepping into the unknown is scary - but the adrenaline rush is incredible - and you are 'bettering' yourself. My advice , even when you're just a few weeks into your first year is to visit the Careers centre. Find out the ins and outs, the pathways and the requirements for your chosen career - get a head start on everyone else who leaves it right until the last couple of weeks of their final year, and help get your head around where you're going after the degree! :small-print:
Volunteering is a fantastic way to get some experience and practical skills under your belt - and if you can do it in your first and second year before the pressure reallymounts in the third,( and it does mount - kinda jumps up 3 gears!) you'll leave uni with not only your degree but career-relevant and recent practical experience to boot, and a really good CV, regardless that this is a whole new area for you! Your Student Union or Student Support office should have a volunteering co-ordinator, go get yourself on first-name terms there too! Job competition after uni is fierce - even 2 hours a week volunteering can bump up your knowledge and skills no end.
I found that it's not so much the qualification, but the experience that counts when you're applying for jobs. At the end of the degree, you'll know the theory. You need to be able to put it all into applied practice too!
You dont say what your chosen subject is - or which uni....if ya wanna PM me, feel free, cos I could talk about this all day! Sorry for the rather long post! rolleyes
>>>>is not enthusiastic about uni, honest! redface
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Quote by davej

nope...never, not ever..noooo way.

:thumbup:
I would eat Marmite, Bovril, and even celery (and I hate all 3!! :scared: ) before I'd do feet!
Noooooo wayyyyyy @ feet :shock:
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I'm a perfume fanatic! own sooooooo much perfime lol rolleyes I lurrrve perfumes, (can you tell?!?) unfortunately I usually go for the strong/overpowering and really bloody expensive stuff too! :twisted:
I dont have a 'signature' scent per se - I wear whatever takes my fancy, but 'my' scent at the moment is pure 'fuckability in a bottle' lol - its Cartier, Le Baiser du Dragon.... :lickface: - my other favorites are CoCo Chanel, Paloma Picasso, Poison and Donna Karan Black Cashmere.
For daytimes it's Chanel No 5, Guerlain Shalimar ...or my current 'fad' - hand blended perfume oils from a US company called Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab :shock:
On men, I love Kouros, Jean-Paul Gaultier and Gucci Envy. :twisted:
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Quote by Sarah
Anyway, there was I, had Mr Muscles (not the all round cleaner) tanned scrumptious blokie pinned to the bed on Sunday, riding him for all I was worth, totally carried away with the fabulous reactions and responses showing in his face ...
So we popped the not so little, would-be escapee back in and carried on, had a fabulous time and blah blah blah!!!

Tabbi,
If you have finished with him, send him round here, so I can check out your description of events :twisted: :twisted:
and when you've done Sarah, send him to me so I can get all the gossip and details in action replay too! biggrin
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ohhh ok, ya talked me into it. I had this one on reserve, but ya can have a sneaky peek if you really want..................

sod waitin for the party....just send him over biggrin Juicylucy

Fight you for him., or should we jjust share!

I love the communitarian attitude of SH lol - I'm up for sharing him....form an orderly queue Ladies! :twisted:
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I'm a black underwear fan too I'm afraid!
I love really pretty but unusual colour undies....like, deep chocolate brown or sea green ......but - they dont 'go' with anything and I can never get the really nice stuff in my size rolleyes - so, black is good.
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Right, and for dessert...................
not strictly uniform, but if he works down my local martial arts club, I'm joining!! lol
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Quote by HornyRed
Hornyred is very happy now, and really horny :rascal:
Darkfire thanks for all your help wink
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

Did I mention I'm a 'giver'??? lol :twisted:
enjoy x
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yoooo hooo ladieeesss - there's more!! :grin: :grin:
now, dont be getting all horny just yet - those few were just the warm up! wink
for appetiser..........
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Quote by HornyRed
Darkfire worship
Please help me with my mission wink
You will recieve many pleasures if mission is completed, but it has to be high standards throughout.

ohhh ok, ya talked me into it. I had this one on reserve, but ya can have a sneaky peek if you really want..................

rotflmao
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