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Darkfire

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11 Oct 2005

I dont actually remember how I found this site - maybe followed a link from a contacts-type site. rolleyes

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I initially registered on the photo-ads section but gave up with that pretty quickly. Casual one-off stranger meetings via the ads are kinda not for me - It wasnt until I came back in July/August time and registered on the actual forum that I truly discovered SH. biggrin

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I'd just ended a 13 year relationship and not looking for another yet- but have sex drive that's through the roof and dont see why I should have to 'go without' because I'm now single evil

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That's essentially what brought me here.
- SH meets my needs and I love it here - I much prefer to get to know someone a little (via posts, pm, social meets etc and find people I 'click' with) than go out and pick someone up in a nightclub at weekends for the sake of a quick (and probably unsatisfying) shag! Via SH, I can get the quality sex rather than quantity because I specifically look for like-minded people who I can interact with socially on SH and at munches etc and see what happens from there in terms of mutual fun. Is that a long-winded way of saying I'm picky?? lol wink

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The other up-side to SH is that when I'm not at work, or I'm stuck in the house, I still have a social life! I'm meeting and chatting to people who would not usually be within my 'vanilla' social circle - and that's cool, because we're all here for the same thing, regardless of colour, class and sexual orientation. :thumbup:

10 Oct 2005

I thought I did this earlier confused

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- must be a rogue post on someone elses thread somewhere - blame it on saturday's wine lol redface

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but - what i meant to say was - Sorry I cant make it but *bump* so more people get to see this post!

10 Oct 2005

*inhales deeply*
musky warm skin - kinda 'man been at work-just-got-home- but uses-good-deoderant kinda smell :twisted:
'naked just showered man smell' :twisted:
Kouros (what is it with this one? does it for me everytime!)
Lush Icon perfume
fresh coffee
freshly baked bread
the 'rain' smell
the 'after sex' smell lol

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especially when the sex is particularly good!
fried onions :lickface:
petrol :twisted:
ooo there's so many!

9 Oct 2005

Quote by Deviated Prevert

DP - its good to let ya hair down on occasion :smoke: Ozrics

What hair

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you know what I meant rolleyes

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- bitter shandy???? :shock: pints man, pints!
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9 Oct 2005

Ooooo flucking hell - even on SH I can find fellow Lushies! :shock: biggrin

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am very happy about this lol

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social meet & shopping expeditions abound ! Other than SH (now) - Lush is my other major addiction !
and for anyone who hasnt already tried - I have 3 words for you! - Lush Massage Bars :twisted:

9 Oct 2005

Finally got round to adding my Thankyou's to this thread! redface

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Firstly of course to Sean, the perfect host, for a really good first munch experience!
and to my roomies/travelling buddies Naughtynympho & Sleazy, without you two I wouldnt have been there! passionkiss

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- and Marcuso, for the same reasons, and for just being you, - you're a star! :rose: . Jawjaw - it was good to meet you! biggrin

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ooooo, new snuggly bath towels :giggle: ( smackbottom

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Marcuso

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It was good to put more faces to names (avatars lol) - apologies in advance to anyone I leave out when I shouldnt.....
Postie - waited all evening to say Hi, but was well worth it! :notes:
DP - its good to let ya hair down on occasion wink

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:smoke: Ozrics rotflmao

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Rams cpl - its about bloody time!
Goodtimez wave

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Stuart and Tanina - who I spotted as I walked in and gave me a friendly reassuring welcome that put me at ease for the rest of the evening!
Kaz & Vicky - for the dancefloor entertainment (oooo that dress! :twisted: ) (and also Sarah, who I admire for dancing/walking about in those shoes all night!)
and to Lil' Bunny (to both of you) - for your relaxed and friendly hospitality & intruiging conversation, which I hope we can do again sometime! Thankyou.
I'm still suffering the after effects of drinking something in the region of 4 bottles of wine last night :shock: - so, apologies again to anyone I've forgotten - feel free to pm and rant at me! Thanks to all, especially Sean, for making me so welcome. kiss

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8 Oct 2005

Happy Birthday HLB!

Have a good one luv!

7 Oct 2005

Mine would be the Black Orchid - I really like that as a name......maybe more suited to a fetish or themed club.....but dont ask me to start psycho-analysing the name, we'll be here all night lol biggrin

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7 Oct 2005

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Yes please - can you put my name on the list too Sarah kiss

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and, I'm happy to help out on the door - you have a pm wink

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7 Oct 2005

Quote by little miss 2hot2handle
Pleased to see there's a few swinger's here with good taste in music, rock music seem's to be quite popular here. would'nt it be great to have a rock themed munch? or is that just me?

Watch this space biggrin

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, well, LMU sometime next week more likely wink

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you have a pm!

7 Oct 2005

Quote by EagerSlut
This is so, so disappointing but Kitty and I aren't going to be able to come to the munch now as Kitty's poorly. We were really looking forward to seeing those of you we know again, and to meeting some of you for the first time.
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Oh noooooooooo
and I was looking foward to meeting you two again!
:therethere: Kitty x

7 Oct 2005

:bounce: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :bounce:
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oooooooooooooo
ok - wardrobe crisis time!!!!!!!! :sad:
suddenly getting that definate need to shop feeling again! bolt

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>>off to hammer the credit card. again. rolleyes

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7 Oct 2005

Ah yes, the 'private members club' loophole rolleyes

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. I think you're right Bev.

7 Oct 2005

I'm no legal eagle and have never been to a club so hold my hand up to say I honestly dont know where Swinging clubs stand in regard to the DDA
a good contact for any questions might be the Laydig Trust
(mods please edit if this is not allowed) - email them at
Outsiders is the registered charity suppported by Leydig. More general info can be found here: It doesnt give any specific info about 'clubs', but may be worth a call.
hope this helps. x

6 Oct 2005

From the 'find all posts by' thread :

Quote by freckledbird
Someone was saying that if there are other characters such as / * " ! in a name, that might confuse the system and not find the posts.

Oh, and shittttttttttttt**

What's the score now?? :twisted:
too funny - Sarge quoted ya Bev before you had chance to edit lol

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>>gets ready to feel the wrath of Freckledbird :uhoh: :giveup: bolt

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naughty Darkfire playing for the other team rotflmao

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6 Oct 2005

Quote by EagerSlut
I can't begin to describe the horny intensity of feeling that comes from sporting a pumped up, hard and throbbing cock with the veins standing out like on a wrestler's arms...........and it'll last as long as you keep your cock warm or can !! :censored: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal:

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where's the damn emoticon/smilie thing for silly

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hwoar: *fainted* when ya need one??? :twisted:

6 Oct 2005

Quote by Basket Case
Personally I like my cock to be "au naturel". I don't need a ring to get and keep the old veiny member throbbing - but each to their own.
Basket Case

Ah see - this is what I'm saying - cock rings are good even when you dont need a ring to get and keep the old veiny member throbbing! Enhancement is always fun!

6 Oct 2005

Tights noooooooo (unless things get a bit 'heated' and they end up with a strategically ripped hole in them rotflmao

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Stockings yes - have no idea why though - and coloured ones just dont have that 'edge' that black ones do! Stockings on a woman in heels , - yummmmmm :lickface: - and I have no preference as to stockings & suspeders or hold-ups either :twisted:
Now, all that said, it does depend on the legs that are in them! I personally dont like wearing stockings - but thats cos my legs are big and Ifeel a bit daft parading round in them redface

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but on someone else? oooo yes please! biggrin

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6 Oct 2005

I think there's a big difference in why cock rings are used sometimes -
and a general misconception that it's usually guys who sometimes have difficulty maintaining a hard-on that predominantly use cock rings as a way of 'helping', or temporarily allieviating the 'problem' - true, some guys do use cock rings for that reason and it works well for some. (trying desperatly to avoid generalisations here! rolleyes

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but, that aside, its when cock rings are used purely to accentuate (?sp) rather than 'aid', that their use becomes pure horny!

I've only ever seen one once, and tbh I was quite disappointed. I thought it made the cock look a bit wierd

- I agree, kinda contradicting self here because hand-in-hand with the raging hard-on and pulsing veins thing comes the purple cock that could outdo Rudolph's nose on Xmas eve, and that's wierd!

6 Oct 2005

fluckin hell NN!!
where's me fishin umbrella? lol

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6 Oct 2005

:laughabove:
>>>runs to get popcorn, tin hat and comfy seat before them daan sarf arrive wink

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Dunno about Yorkshire though, Derbyshire doesnt seem to be too bad at the moment, there's definatley sommat in the water round Chesterfield way! :shock:

6 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
........ah talking about music on a sex site...perfection

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There is method in the madness, promise!
ummmm very devious wink

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>>>female

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6 Oct 2005

Quote by frazzleadz
Always good to see a topic like this and watch the men boast about how good they are and the women get on a high horse and defend themselves, if the guys got a genuine question then answer it, don't worry pal eventually you'll find a woman who will orgasm instantly, but yoiu'll have to look longh and hard (no pun intended) oh and by the way never had any problems myself lol...AJ

6 Oct 2005

Quote by rams_cpl
hi the new date for this munch is ok for us we would still love to come thanks
we can make any date babysitters on tap here .xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

oooo some people just have it tooooo easy!! wink

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6 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
........ah talking about music on a sex site...perfection

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There is method in the madness, promise!

6 Oct 2005

At the risk of a little TMI, I really quite like cock rings ......but.... it's the effect they have rather than the ring(s) themselves that do it - particularly when the guy doesnt really 'need' the extra help/effect! :twisted:

A cock-ring goes over the cock and balls and they usually come in leather, metal and rubber. It basically allows the blood to flow into the cock but restricts it flowing out at the same rate. Hence a stonking erection

not just stonking (lol lol

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) ragingly hard, totally engorged and steel-hard...veins pulsing..... :twisted:
the effect is psychological too, in a way, because by using a cock ring the guy is somewhat restrained :lickface:
for me personally, couple the effects a cock ring has, with a cock that 'does it for me' anyway, and I'm away with the fairies!! :inlove: redface

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5 Oct 2005

:smoke: aint it funny sometimes what people's taste in music/video can often reveal? wink

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*takes another guess at......the Doors, Hendrix, Keith Richards, Stone Roses, Bowie....*

5 Oct 2005

Ozrics played at Donny and I didnt know?? :shock:
Surprised to see Levellers and Pink Floyd aint on your list though...wouldnt happen to have Quadrophenia and CHeech and Chong in ya video collection would you?? wink

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5 Oct 2005

ooooooo flucking hell @ Ozrics! I thought I was the only person in the world who'd heard of the Ozrics let alone put em on fave's list :shock:
Wildhearts
Joplin
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5 Oct 2005

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