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:shock: blimey, a lone survivor??welcome back - sounds like mucho fun! x
and a lot headaches
dunno about headaches lol, its striped ass cheeks I'd be worried about! 
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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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Do not feed the troll! You joined here today looking for absolution from us so that you can cheat on your wife with a clear conscience.
he didnt get that and will now continue the 'debate' in order to either (a) attempt to win people over or (b) to wind those of different views up more.
The moral arguement has been done to death, he didnt win it, so is now throwing the 'veteran swinger vs newbie' in for good measure.
Oooo, I'm such a party pooper :twisted:
*goes to get popcorn*
Quote by sharon_2005
"...I did have a vibe that my hubby made out of his old electric drill that was fantastically powerful and i loved that but it packed up last week..."
:shock: fookin hell Sharon and here's me thinking I was openminded enough to be part of SH lol
:huh: *walks off to have a rethink*
Now where's that damn Bosch set I borrowed off me Dad.......
handed out when he sees it.:therethere: aww bless!
you'll be posting again later hun with a big grin on your face and heart full of his telling you about his new little friend...how cool the messy table is...and that he even has a little peg for his coat with his very own little picture on it..... too cute!
its so hard the first couple of days...house soooo quiet...feeling a bit lost...but this time next week you'll be enjoying some 'me' time and less Dora/Balamory! honest!
When mine started she just walked off, threw her little bag on the floor and started talking to another child.....five minutes later they were skipping off together without so much as a second glance at me, stood there with tears in eyes having expected a full on 'no no mummy I dont want to stay' session!!
If you're leaving him and collecting later, go early so you can peek through the window and watch him playing with the other kids. Makes it all worthwhile!
I hope!!
you'll be posting again later hun with a big grin on your face and heart full of his telling you about his new little friend...how cool the messy table is...and that he even has a little peg for his coat with his very own little picture on it.....
too cute!its so hard the first couple of days...house soooo quiet...feeling a bit lost...but this time next week you'll be enjoying some 'me' time and less Dora/Balamory! honest!
When mine started she just walked off, threw her little bag on the floor and started talking to another child.....five minutes later they were skipping off together without so much as a second glance at me, stood there with tears in eyes having expected a full on 'no no mummy I dont want to stay' session!!
If you're leaving him and collecting later, go early so you can peek through the window and watch him playing with the other kids. Makes it all worthwhile!
I hope!!
Quote by true20man
look i will have word around here and see if i can get some where for us in leicester if thats ok with every1????????
but will have to be next friday. pm me if you are honestly interested please
True20man the party we were getting all excited about isnt happening yet hun, this was explained to you - but if you'd like to organise your own, please feel free.
Although the idea appears popular, AndyWolves and I got our heads together as a result of the initial interest shown and kinda decided that this would be a pretty damn special party were attending BBW's could feel like a million dollars and be completely in the company of like-minded appreciative admirers in a very relaxed comfortable atmosphere.
Quote by Nicola&Alan
....."its great to get into a place and know you are going to be appreciated for who you are and not what you look like... on the other hand i'd feel a lot happier knowing that the guys going to a party like that were wanting to go because they liked bigger women and not because they are randy little net geeks looking for a hole to spurt their stuff...you know... any hole will do, that sort...
This post really hits the nail on the head for me - I totally agree that there are some people who have the very misguided view that BBW = desperate....'cant get it elsewhere'... 'Why are BBW's so good in bed? Because they have to put in the extra effort cos they never know when they'll get another one' ...(heard it all before!!)
But this applies to all party's I guess, not just those specifically for BBW, but is why I personally would be fairly 'select' about who'd be 'invited', if I were planning it.
Anyway, I digress.....
Given the content of many of the posts in this thread, confidence is a major factor to consider, and other than the properly organised SH munches, the said party may well enable someone's first swinging experience if they havent been body-confident enough before. I personally feel that as I'm relatively 'newbie' to SH I am not the person to be organising anything just yet. So please feel free to take the reigns! :twisted:
:idea: Your best bet might be to start a BBW party thread over in LMU with a tad more info about you and what people can expect from your party. Maybe getting to know some of the people you're hoping to invite via PM etc too might be a good start! :small-print:
but bloody hell you've got your work cut out to get it all properly organised for next Friday! :notes: Good luck !
Unfortunately I cant make it as its a bit short notice for me
but I'd love to know how you get on! :twisted:
Quote by LisaMarie
.....These days i look at people differently its how they feel and think about themselves thats important not how big or small they are.
I would rather see a happy confident woman than someone afraid to eat for fear of gaining a few pounds.
Be who you are and enjoy life.
its taken me years to get to this stage and its thanks to my hubbie loving me for who i am and not what i want to be. I am very lucky.
I aint ever going to be pamela anderson but i'm me.
lisamarie
Hiya Lisa Marie, and :welcome: to the "We are who we are and fuck what anyone else thinks' faction can I pour anyone a drink?
:smoke: 
Quote by JudyTV
(and no I know I dont have an ad on here but I do elsewhere, and the one I had on here lasted 3 days before I gave up and removed it purely due to these cut-and-paste-really-cant-be-bothered messages!)
but hey, that's just me
I would have thought it needed a great deal more than 3 days to establish a true result. Surely they were not all cut and paste replies were they? The photo ad system works well if used with patience and given enough time. 3 days ????? ... hardly a long term situation for true assessment. If you had said 3 months then you may have cause to knock a system that is successful for many hundreds of people and has been so for a lot longer than 3 days. It must work generally or people wouldn't use it and thousands do, me included and I have done so for over a year and a half and not just 3 days. If it didn't work then I would not still be using it. Yes, I do get cut and paste replies, but they are by no means the majority. I have met some nice people from the ads, some perhaps not so nice but that applies to life in general too.
Any system is open to abuse and will never be perfect. This one is as good as most. We just have to make it for for us and to a extent us for it. Knocking it after 3 days is in my opinion not allowing it to work at all really.
Just like real life we get out what we put in..........time, patience and a bit of long term effort helps in most situations.
Judy
Blimey Judy, steady on luv :scared:
As my original post states, I do have a photo-ad elsewhere (and have done for almost a year). Generic replies are common on whatever site people use and to be honest I dont have the time or the patience to run different ads and subsequently answer them, from every site I might use. That's all.
'Knocking the photo-ad system of this site' was certainly not the context of my post - what I'm knocking is generic cut and paste messages where people do not put in the effort to stand out from the crowd and thus ensure themselves an equally interesting and informative reply, and possible chat/meet/friendship. Like I said - that's just me , and its one of those things that I personally find really quite annoying.
As a single bi fem I get a considerable number of replies from other single bi fems, couples and of course single males - I cant possibly reply to every single one, requesting more info because they didnt give it in their initial message and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I am aware that many are responding to the 'Single Bi-Fem' status rather than to 'me', which is somewhat disappointing. :cry:
I removed my ads after 3 days (plural because I'm looking for different things from different 'categories' and that's the system you have here) because right now I wouldnt be doing any justice to those few and far between but genuine replies by being pissed off at having to delete 10 bog-standard ones just to get to them!
By not having an ad here I'm obviously missing out on meeting some really good people. And those who may be interested in me and what I'm looking for have no way of finding out without PM'ing me to ask. But after 3 days I realised that works much better for me right now, and thus it was never meant to be a long-term assessment of the photo-ad system in general - here or elsewhere.
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Mine would be Ripple Bunny
lol HLB - Ripple Bunny sounds like it'd have a market in Ann Summers!
come to think of it, Dairy Milk Willy cant be far off their current stock lines either :shock:
If we think of a few more Darkfire we'll be able to open our own shop at SH Towers.
Own shop?? :shock:
sod that hun, how about a full-on cottage industry making chocolate willy and boob moulds of everyone on SH? :idea:
Form an orderly queue people :twisted:
stepped out to go to Swindon today, and didn;t realise what I'd left behind!.....I promise to make it up to you 
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Quite frankly although inconvienient its about time the british people got some blody balls and used the same power of the people the french and the US populus have....
LPG will be taxed even higher as soon as it becomes more popular than petrol and desil... as far as HMG is concerned it not about carbon or polution... but making money to pay some quango to say that we need a better transport system and also more quangos to make more stupid sugestions to make more money to have more quangos.
you can convert your car to run on cooking oil... and even better it can also use filtered cooking oil that your local chippy has to dump as its become to old to use.... but should you have the conversion and ask your local chippy "all that crap oil that you have to pay to get rid off... i'll take it off your hands for nothing...." you then filter it and use it in your car... you have to declair it and then pay HMG 24p a lita so save the chippy and cooking oil companys paying polution tax.... LIKE FUCK ME ITS WASTE, ITS BEING RECYCLED, IT COST NOTHING, ITS BEEN TAXED ALREADY, ITS NOT GOING TO END UP AS LAND FILL, wake up HMG and go take a flying fuck up your own concieted self indulgent arseholes....
if people cant survive for a couple of weeks of inconvienienvce and even not getting to work to wake up HMG to people power then they deserve petrol at 4 pounds a lita and when they do they are not allowed to say "its to blody expensive..." in the 80's people would never have contemplated petrol at the price it is now... and the states still dont.. only us brits that roll over to get our tummys ticklled the moment HMG say bend over... we love being right butt fucked by the goverment cos we are all cowards.. all stiff upper lip and that crap!
Not wanting to get political here but......what a rant!!!!!!! :thumbup: :cheers:
