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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Quote by dambuster
If we truly accept that we all going to die, but enjoy the journey of life; embracing it's many twists, turns and foibles; death should hold no fear. I don't fear death. I don't want it, but I don't fear it. When he comes for me again, I'll be ready.
Ready to welcome him, or ready to fuck him off :thumbup:
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I wholeheartedly, and selfishly, do not fear death - its the couple of years beforehand and the inevitable need to be 'cared for' that I dont want . Sod that, i dont want looking after or to ever be 'incapable' - thats scary stuff :scared: I'm going to stay 30 forever now
hiya you good to see you're still here & posting again :thumbup:
in edit : yeah I know its in the wrong section and should be in LMU really , but with her approach and post quality I dont care
Dannii do you have any plans to grace us with your presence at a social or Munch & meet lots of us in one go or are you really just looking now for 1:1 meets ?
Quote by BiWelshMinx
... At the mo I have no fears about getting older (but that's cos incontinence and dementia seem a faraway place ) Actually I refuse to admit to getting older ( I have been 28 for 4 years now :smug: )
I'm currently a bit poorly with bronchitis & a cold & stuff but by far the thing that's getting me down now is that if I cough, I wee
I've also lost my voice so communication is difficult, i cant go anywhere without a tenalady, i'm paraniod that I smell and work is virtually impossible - if this is what old age feels like I want no part of it. a few folk will remember me absolutely dreading hitting 30..... today I feel 70 and I dont like it one little bit. At least I know i'll get better once the anti-biotics kick in.... you dont recover from aging, do you
ohhhh i'm so negative today, someone pass me the JD and a lemsip and i'll be fine
Quote by dirtydoggers
..there were two thumping sounds..neither of them from mrs D :shock: the first was that of a car door slamming shut. the other, the sound of the people carrier driver attaching himself to the side of my vehicle like a limpet :shock: :
as an aside though, this is why I cant 'do' dogging....all that salivating expectation & limpet like action *shudders*
... but i'll take pm's for locations where people have manners & a bit of courtesy for future reference
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Hi,
I have been looking for a single bi woman to join me for my 1st time along with my partner. He will only playing a role with me & for my pleasure and support I guess.
To date its been impossible finding someone who does not want to bring hubby or partner to just "watch" or is happy with my partner being involved with just me & no sexual contact with them or being involved at all.
Am I asking for too much?
Lou
Not at all hunni. You two are just the sort of couple I would consider meeting. Most couples I get messages from want hubby to play with both of us and at the moment, that's just not my cup of tea.
Welcome to the forums by the way
Ditto :thumbup:
I'd like to respond to this (essentially because I think there's definately a thread discussion in here somewhere) .... But..... its blatantly obvious that we're talking about a specific person & thier profile , and until they enter the thread or show they are happy to be 'talked about' i'm gonna keep my gob shut in their absence.
Quote by sercher01
so your trying to tell us " YOU " havent been back 4 a sneeky look then hun?
on my own? :shock:
I've seen enough in the dogging section of this site to think if I ever do go dogging i'll be taking a baseball bat and some steely-boots with 'us' , there's no way I'd go as a lone fem :scared:
but if ya offering to chaperone me........:rascal:
Not sure whether this is a Cafe thread or a dogging thread, but in hope of some good discussion, I've posted it in here .....
Have you stumbled on a dogging location by accident? If so, what did you do?
Last week I had myself a little dilemma - was working (i do some stuff in/ around the local community) so was out with a male colleague in his car and in due course we drove to a local park type place and parked up to do some paperwork (yes, honestly)
As soon as we pulled in, I noticed the other vehicles, and twigged we were sitting in the middle of a fookin dogging site :shock:
omg thinks me, wtf do I do? I cant say anything otherwise my (rather straight-laced) colleague is gonna wonder how I know this stuff, nor can I sit here waiting for the inevitable to happen :uhoh: (although I admit i was having a good nosey and hoping to quietly catch a glimpse of something :twisted:
then, he does the unthinkable, and puts the interior light on :shock: omg nooooooooooooooo
the white van opposite also puts thier interior light on
I dont 'do' dogging, i dont 'know' the etiquette, but the 'lights on' thing was enough for me to crack up laughing and shout in proper bank-robber stylee 'Drive ffs, driveeeee' 'they think we're doggers'
Not 2 minutes up the road and there's another place to park, so we pulled in, me still pissing myself laughing and him all embarrassed and doesnt know where to look, and fook me, more doggers :shock: :giggle: - luckliy he twigged too and drove straight back out again :giggle:
So, I've managed to discover two 'new' locations I didnt know about, but has anyone else done it? been somewhere quite innocently and realised things are not quite as they seem?
there's another location near me too which during summertime is VERY busy from early evening.....great for doggers, not great for me & the family who also happen to enjoy walking the dog up there and having to leave early to ensure my daughter doesnt see anything she shouldnt :dry:
(and if you were there on wednesday 8pm about 8 miles north of Derby.... :giggle: )
Have you stumbled on a dogging location by accident? If so, what did you do?
Last week I had myself a little dilemma
- was working (i do some stuff in/ around the local community) so was out with a male colleague in his car and in due course we drove to a local park type place and parked up to do some paperwork (yes, honestly) As soon as we pulled in, I noticed the other vehicles, and twigged we were sitting in the middle of a fookin dogging site :shock:
omg thinks me, wtf do I do? I cant say anything otherwise my (rather straight-laced) colleague is gonna wonder how I know this stuff, nor can I sit here waiting for the inevitable to happen :uhoh: (although I admit i was having a good nosey and hoping to quietly catch a glimpse of something :twisted:
then, he does the unthinkable, and puts the interior light on :shock: omg nooooooooooooooo
the white van opposite also puts thier interior light on
I dont 'do' dogging, i dont 'know' the etiquette, but the 'lights on' thing was enough for me to crack up laughing and shout in proper bank-robber stylee 'Drive ffs, driveeeee'
'they think we're doggers' Not 2 minutes up the road and there's another place to park, so we pulled in, me still pissing myself laughing and him all embarrassed and doesnt know where to look, and fook me, more doggers :shock: :giggle: - luckliy he twigged too and drove straight back out again :giggle:
So, I've managed to discover two 'new' locations I didnt know about, but has anyone else done it? been somewhere quite innocently and realised things are not quite as they seem?
there's another location near me too which during summertime is VERY busy from early evening.....great for doggers, not great for me & the family who also happen to enjoy walking the dog up there and having to leave early to ensure my daughter doesnt see anything she shouldnt :dry:
(and if you were there on wednesday 8pm about 8 miles north of Derby....
:giggle: ) Quote by T_cra
The profile basically says, I'm not looking? So why the rant that you can't meet anyone?
No pics available, very few preferences, no adds and agressive? Why would anyone respond?
I'm a genuine bloke looking for more regular fun, rather than one offs, why would I contact you? Its easy I wouldn't based on the perception you give.
Don't get me wrong, you may be a lovely person, funny and really genuine, but there is no way for anybody to guess that:
So nope don't think your looking in the wrong place, just the wrong way
I dont think Playinglady is really looking - hence why everything in her profile suggests that - she's sick of being innundated with 'stuff' she's not interested in and guys who want more than she's prepared to give. I do wish she'd come back and reply to the posts in her own thread though.
I think - as has already been mentioned - that this thread is intended as a dig, or a swipe at someone/ stuff that's gone off in the chatroom - people have picked up on the profile info as a side issue & made a discussion out of that instead. To me, it smacks of another single fem who's pissed off with winks, whispers and simple frustration at the way she's being approached/ treated here on top of whatever recent experience has triggered this thread.
So yeah, Playinglady , if you're still reading this thread, imo I think you're looking in the wong place - you're in the chatroom for a start...... but that's just my oppinion..... I understand why you 'come across' the way you do in your profile ...but seriously - delete it and get yourself an avatar like mine instead - does exactly what it says on the tin
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ooo Polo you crack me up
I have a major 'thing' about spot - spots have to be squeezed, immediately, til they bleed, and it matters not if they're on me, Mr Dark or a complete stranger - I have even pointed out a massive yellow mountainous one on some woman's back in a vanilla pub (beautiful low back top, completely ruied by this enormous wacking great spot) and said 'i'll squuze it for ya if ya want love cos it looks mingin' - and I did
but - the worst one is Rudolphitis, the one's that sit there, glowing, like a beacon you can see 5 miles away, distort the entire shape of your nose and like someone blessed with big tits, tends to draw the eye, so people converse with the luminous lump on your nose, not with 'you' . Jeez, that's annoying. Fuck do they hurt there too
ooo Polo you crack me up
I have a major 'thing' about spot - spots have to be squeezed, immediately, til they bleed, and it matters not if they're on me, Mr Dark or a complete stranger - I have even pointed out a massive yellow mountainous one on some woman's back in a vanilla pub (beautiful low back top, completely ruied by this enormous wacking great spot) and said 'i'll squuze it for ya if ya want love cos it looks mingin'
- and I did but - the worst one is Rudolphitis, the one's that sit there, glowing, like a beacon you can see 5 miles away, distort the entire shape of your nose and like someone blessed with big tits, tends to draw the eye, so people converse with the luminous lump on your nose, not with 'you' . Jeez, that's annoying. Fuck do they hurt there too
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm mostly a 'what you see is what you get' type of person and certainly don't have any airs and graces ( though not as common as muck either
Dont worry Sassy hun, they let me in so you'll breeze it and make a good impression on everyone!
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I hate people who blatantly lie to either get their own way or to cover their own back. I don't suffer fools gladly and if I'm lied to and subsequently taken for a complete ride, ice cream and all, then you may as well pack your bags.
all that, with bells on! - and a :kick: for good measure!
it doesnt even need to be blatant lies either - the subtlest of 'covering my own back because i've got something to hide' is enough for me to put the steelies on, I cant abide liars - and even worse, those who get away with it because they're sooo fooking good at it
So in this example, by placing the emphasis on the word ‘talk’ rather than acknowledging the overall meaning of the question they can mislead, ie we didn’t talk (but we did send text messages/emails/etc though you didn‘t specifically ask that so I won‘t admit to it)
Is this still what you would call lying?
Yes Its lying in my book, technically its being 'economical with the truth' , but , that's still lying! Especially in the context of your example. I think I have a problem generally with people who just arn't straight-up, but being economical with the truth, particularly when I've asked a question and want an answer (because lets face it, if we're asking, it usually means we already half-know :idea: ) is the worst kind of lie - little white 'polite' lies I can ' ignore' (i work with people who lie all the time)..... underhand snake-like denying-it-to-my-face lies when I already know anyway and am testing you to see just how far you think you can push lies are just sealing your own fate : :
I think some people write their profiles to say exactly what they mean because they're fed up of being nice and subtle and still not getting what they want - or indeed, getting innundated by people they're not looking for - the more it happens, the blunter the profile gets because with some people tact and diplomacy just doesnt work
It doesnt offend me if someone says 'not looking for anyone overweight' etc - that's their choice & at least the reader knows where they stand, and I know not to waste my time replying
It doesnt offend me if someone says 'not looking for anyone overweight' etc - that's their choice & at least the reader knows where they stand, and I know not to waste my time replying
