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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
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Quote by jaymar
Thank you darkfire xx PS. how do you find the 'view all posts' bit?? I'm still learning :notes:
click on the 'profile' tab at the bottom of someone's post - once in profile there's a list down the side of the window near the profile photo - view all posts is the bottom one :thumbup: just click it and it'll bring up all their previous posts up in descending order. Beware those with more than a handful of posts though, you might be busy a while
oooooo helloooo 
good to see you back :thumbup:I have pm'd those who have confirmed/ expressed an interest in meeting up once in the club to let you know I need to pull out of this due to personal reasons.
I'm really sorry to have to let folk down :cry:
All is not lost though so keep the date booked!!! - RedWineLover is taking this over for me so there will still be a Chams meet as planned, just not organised or attended by me :thumbup: Anyone on the confirmed list who doesnt already have club membership will still get it so dont panic :thumbup:
feel free to pm me if you have any questions, or RWL now it's in his capable hands :thumbup: Apologies again but have a good one for me
(mods please lock this, thanks)
I'm really sorry to have to let folk down :cry:
All is not lost though so keep the date booked!!!
- RedWineLover is taking this over for me so there will still be a Chams meet as planned, just not organised or attended by me :thumbup: Anyone on the confirmed list who doesnt already have club membership will still get it so dont panic :thumbup: feel free to pm me if you have any questions, or RWL now it's in his capable hands :thumbup: Apologies again but have a good one for me
(mods please lock this, thanks)
slightly off topic I know, but with the current open door policy for 'Munches' as it is, I think accidentally bumping in to a banned member at a club meet or on the guestlist of a privatedoo is the least of our worries......
but back on topic, I thought this rule applied to one banned member specifically ??? (as he's the one specifically named) and applies ONLY where the 'doo' has been advertised on the site ???
but back on topic, I thought this rule applied to one banned member specifically ??? (as he's the one specifically named) and applies ONLY where the 'doo' has been advertised on the site ???
Funnily enough I was having this discussion the other night with folk from here...
I attribute it to the 2 things - (1) the increase of sheer number of people registered on this site since it went commercial and with that, those people then finding themselves in a place where its ok to be open about bisexuality...... and (2) on the negative side, with that increase comes the misconception that 'swinging' puts some form of pressure on a fem to say she's bi because its misinterpreted as the accepted thing to 'be', whether you are or arnt really.
I attribute it to the 2 things - (1) the increase of sheer number of people registered on this site since it went commercial and with that, those people then finding themselves in a place where its ok to be open about bisexuality...... and (2) on the negative side, with that increase comes the misconception that 'swinging' puts some form of pressure on a fem to say she's bi because its misinterpreted as the accepted thing to 'be', whether you are or arnt really.
Quote by jaymar
OK I'm lost... have we past and present threads here??
I'm not actually sure which bit you're referring to Jaymar, but yes, some of the stuff on page 3 is from another thread - another advantage (or disadvantage for some) is that 'view all posts' in someone's profile allows you to 'research' people's previous posts in the forum
Whoosh Man sweetheart it is good to see you back and posting - am sorry that its under such sad circumstances & to hear things are not good for you right now :cry:
I could try to offer words of condolence but as most people know I am really crap at this stuff. Life does go on but while the loss of your Bud is still so raw that wont be any comfort. Grief is a process, but it does get easier to handle with time - especially when you have memories to treasure and uphold them with the greatest of respect - because being left with that gift as a result of your friendship goes a small way to patching the void.
If I can offer you one of these : :therethere: in a completely non-patronising gesture, please accept it.
Hang on in there big man. x
I could try to offer words of condolence but as most people know I am really crap at this stuff. Life does go on but while the loss of your Bud is still so raw that wont be any comfort. Grief is a process, but it does get easier to handle with time - especially when you have memories to treasure and uphold them with the greatest of respect - because being left with that gift as a result of your friendship goes a small way to patching the void.
If I can offer you one of these : :therethere: in a completely non-patronising gesture, please accept it.
Hang on in there big man. x
The point of the Cafe is that its a chilled out place with a very social atmosphere - its different from other areas of the site which come predominantly under the banner of 'sex site'. Its where we discuss, often in depth depending on the quality of the contributions, with lots of different views and perspectives, on various issues, swinging related or not. It's where people come to find out about swinging from and with others or simply to post bollox becuase they can.
Its a place that nurtures the swinging mindset, the etiquette and communitarian aspect of the lifestyle - you dont get that elsewhere on this site & there's no way you can spend any amount of time here and not learn something :thumbup:
imo
Its a place that nurtures the swinging mindset, the etiquette and communitarian aspect of the lifestyle - you dont get that elsewhere on this site & there's no way you can spend any amount of time here and not learn something :thumbup:
imo
Quote by shayz1
I'd like to think I can enquire, learn and put a point of view into a melting pot despite the occasional whistling bullet or flying flak and because I want to be here and will not be bullied out of it.
Now see this I do agree with - this is the major plus point , up side, really positive aspect of the forum for me , it is a melting pot into which quite often (when there is a good, thought provoking discussion or debate happening) that people do and should post to 'enquire, learn and give their opinion'....... But often people forget that "the best thing about opinions is that they differ" (TM Dambuster) and things get taken too personally. It isa melting pot, and long may it continue :thumbup:
the bit I personally wont accept is that this particular thread invites those who hate the forum to pop along and say so - Openminded was correct - my opinion on this is not constructive, but you wouldnt go into someone's house exclaim 'oooo i hate your wallpaper, dont you think you should redecorate? and then ask half the street to comment on it too, would you? (or afterwards expect to be invited over for coffee again)
Some people 'get' the Cafe, others dont, but dont be surprised if the 'yocals' get a bit defensive in a thread like this
Quote by 36openminded
In response to:
Why do you love the forum?
(And if you don't... please start your own thread!
So if you hate the forums or something about the forums pisses you off then now's the time to speak up. With any luck we may be able to come up with a solution to the biggest hates.
Come on, no holding back... :twisted:
If people hate the Cafe or aspects of it & the 'way things are done' (and sufficiently so to feel the need to incite or create a thread inviting others to slate it) I'd ask why the fuck are you here and posting on it anyway? There are other areas of the site in which they may feel more at home.
I'm all for voicing your opinion, but in this case I really cant see the point of this thread, other than dangling a carrot, for those who do like and enjoy the forum, to bite.
Laird wrote:
Anyway, my opinion for what little it is worth to others, is that the forum has evolved and obviously serves a useful purpose to those who maintain their participation in it.
That's the problem with evolution though, history shows the dinosaurs got really fucked off with it!
Oh! how true is that!
Quote by staffcple
As a response to Darkfires 'Feelgood' thread request,
Post the songs you play to lift, cheer up or just when you feel good!
ooooo
:thumbup: i usually download people's suggestions if I'm not familiar with the track.......see if they 'match' my taste
but I forgot my speakers are kaput, so i cant hear owt anyway 
Quote by makaveli69
TIN HAT ON!!!!!!!!!
Damn it, Janet here, borrrow mine :
start praying Earthy , Little Gem, and any number of others dont see this thread or you're gonna be toast !!!
its a cult classic with a massive following. You are so dead
as I'm feeling so charitable today, i thought you might need
