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Quote by switchiton
I tried with Ice Cream but the results were not impressive at all

Yes, but you're not supposed to try it in the chiller cabinet in Tescos!! confused
Standards, Switchiton, standards!!
Mal
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What kind of sicko do you take me for???? It was Waitrose I'll have you know.
:thumbup: Welcome to the Forum Switchiton wave
stick around, looks like you're gonna fit right in wink
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excellent night - thanks you two kiss - and Dee & Vic too of course :thumbup:
a shame you (we) were let down by those who didnt have the courtesy to let you know they couldnt make it evil, Still, a good night - I enjoyed it, thanks!
Let's do it again soon..... I'll get a satnav wink
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blimey, are you back? lol
not my cup of tea I'm afriad but it is good to see you here & posting :thumbup: :bounce: :bounce:
big ass bump while i'm at it lol
p.s you might want to alter that profile wink
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Quote by Sarah
And run the gauntlet of the night manager & clip board with hotel guest names on it, who was religously ticking names and numbers off.
:twisted:

or when city centre hotels hire a door team & if ya name isnt down there's no way you're getting in, unless you alter the name slightly, suddenly become transgendered in 10 seconds flat, act very very pissed, need your mobile delivered to your room because you left it in the pub or hatch elaborate escape plans when the manager knocks on the door asking to inspect your room for 'additional guests' :scared:
:giggle:
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Quote by varca
Oooh will have to listen out for the U2/Greenday one, interesting combination.

From the MTV site:
U2 and Green Day are set to record a single to raise money for the victims of Hurricane Katrina.
They’ll record a cover of a ‘70s punk tune called ‘The Saints Are Coming’, originally sung by a Brit group called The Skids.
The money will go to the ‘Music Rising Charity’ which was set up by U2 strummer The Edge last year in the wake of the disaster to fund the replacement of lost and destroyed musical instruments.

after listening to 3 hours worth of pop shite this evening, I've since found out it is indeed not on single release til 6th November :doh: , but has been getting loads of air play on Radio 1 (at full volume in my car :gigglesmile I love it :karaoke: - reckon they could have put together something better, and original, given that its a collaboration track between two of the best bands going confused
I think the Muse track sounds alot like U2 actually dunno anyone else think so? / not so?
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Quote by sheddy
One Way of Life - the Levellers,
Hurt - Johnny Cash, very powerful song
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Two of my favourite songs of all time, but yes the Johnny Cash one brings a tear to my eye every time I hear it and couple it with one of the best video's for a song I've ever seen it's game over emotionally for me for the short period its playing :cry:
Another Man's Cause, also Levellers - although again its not 'sadness' its the stirring of emotion of 'political' songs that gets me , so lets just not go there with Bloody Sunday wink
edited to add : fookin 'ell, i just admitted to 'feeling' things didnt I :shock: :giggle:
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awwww fluckin 'ell, I thought we were in for a proper popcorn moment then rolleyes
rotflmao
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One Way of Life - the Levellers, played at a friend's funeral..... but 'cry' more for the memories than being 'sad'
Hurt - Johnny Cash, very powerful song
& another one by a band I cant mention but the lead singer was a friend of mine many moons ago & the song is his obituary.
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Quote by varca
Cummon what are the two songs???

Muse - Starlight
and U2 & GreenDay's Saints are Coming (the Skids) cover that I'm not sure has even been released yet redface
God, I'm so not up to date with this stuff lol I've downloaded both but the speakers on my pc are fucked not working so I'm doing something I did at 14 and recording it (or hoping to) onto cassette :shock:
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Radio 1's chartshow :shock: - its absolutely years since I've listened to this !!
and I only want to hear two songs lol
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I dont know if I conciously make a decision to 'cope' or if its now just a natural reaction.
'piles of crap' are an inevitable & unescapable part of my job, on top of financial issues and various other things that decide to come plonk themselves on my shoulders on quite regular occasions.... to a point I let them build up and build up until metaphorically speaking I'm about 3ft tall under the weight. I'll spend a few days down & very quiet, and then something else will come and add to the load - and at which point I hit 'coiled spring' mode lol
'i'm not fucking having this' :taz: and BANG - i suddenly explode and become 10ft tall, I get completely on my high horse and turn into a complete control freak and I sort it. There's no talking or reasoning just a complete and overwhelimg ' Right, this needs sorting, now' feeling .... and I'm on one lol
It doesnt matter if its taking the bull by the horns work wise, marching in and telling someone exactly what I think, confronting a few demons or doing things through 'the proper channels', or not, as the case may be - but its not a concious coping mechanism, it just happens & i've always been that way dunno A fighter perhaps? or just a fool to let things build up that far in the first place wink
I'm not really a 'life and soul' person, I do feel that's simply masking the underlying issues, and you just feel twice as bad the following morning because the 'problem' is still there. But then I cant just do the black hole thing either. It doesnt go away unless you confront it head on dunno
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Further to a rumour that is circulating about Chams no longer issuing membership, to put minds at rest:
those who have contacted me & are already down on the list to come along in the SH group WILL be able to get membership to Chams if you dont already have it.
if you have any concerns please, drop me a pm :thumbup:
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No idea yet what time i'll actually get there, I'll just call you when i'm on way & turn up sometime before 9pm lol
i'm driving though so yeah, a quiet night indeed rolleyes
honest innocent
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lol
"No Darkfire, No Comment"

"I wish they all could be Darkfire girls"

"Because So Much is Riding on Your Darkfire" :shock: :giggle:

Ding Dong, Darkfire Calling
rotflmao
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he doesnt need one Dave, he's 40 and open for sex, where's the problem?
lol
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NWC sorry sweetie but I cant make this now :cry: , daughter has announced she's added a laptop to her Xmas list so something's got to give, in this case, that'll be my place at this Munch to someone else who can afford it!
have a great time all biggrin
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awww Congratulations you two!
Sappho, :shock: , well done girl! :cheers: (its ok, I'll wince for you lol redface )
Welcome Will Jnr :happy:
its lovely that you keep us updated kiss Blessed Be x
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Quote by Lissa
Are there any of you who have partners not in the slightest bit interested in swinging, but who don't mind you playing?

wave yep, that'll be us then
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For anyone with their names already down for the SH group meet I'm organising, do not panic about the membership thing. PM me if you have any concerns :thumbup:
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<hijack> 'scuse me a mo...
Quote by Coolhead
and me being 6'5"

wave :giggle:
</hijack> as you were lol
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good thread :thumbup:
For me yes, my 'activities' have totally evolved (TM Jas) - Believe it or not, when I came to SH i had the sole intention of looking for single guys to play with 1:1, to at one point of even welcoming the prospect of a single male swinging partner :shock: (edited to add : loon )
Clubs etc didnt feature anywhere in my plans and there was no intention initially to play with couples. My, how times change lol
i now play exclusively with women, or couples where full swap with the male is not a requirement ...as for single guys....well, lets just not ge there eh? rotflmao
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I dont agree
in my previous post, I suggested waiting until the facts are known before going into panic/ vigilante mode. That's all.
I have no compassion for such people (and I'm talking specifically about offenders against children, paedophiles) whatsoever.
I dont want to get into debate about this, but thought I'd clarify before I leave this thread well alone :thumbup:
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Quote by varca
in control of being out of control biggrin

definately!
I am not alone then :happy: :happy:
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Quote by chashoniton
i don't think i'd want real pain, .... i do quite like a feeling of....dominance? .... i don't think I mean I want to be beaten to within an inch of my life thanks!
but as a woman who isn t a tiny, delicate, petite person, it's rather lovely to feel smaller and possibly helpless....but in a good way!
what i mean (i think) is that i like the thought that Chas (who is much taller, bigger, stronger than me) could 'overwhelm' me if he (or I) chose to........ I like that feeling of not being in control...but in a controlled way...how weird is that?
x

that's not wierd, THAT makes perfect sense to me :thumbup:
As does this Cali :thumbup: :
when the play is over then I don't expect to still be in pain! That borders on the boundaries of abuse!
Playful taps, teasing, and rubs are fun, beating the hell out of your partner isn't! LOL

thanks smile
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1. What age did you start smoking? 13
2. Why did you start smoking? all my mates/family smoked, it was just what was 'done' dunno
3. What are the main reasons you smoke now? (e.g. additive, sociable, habitual?)
all 3, I crave one if I havent had one for an hour or so, I actually enjoy smoking , and much of it is habitual - coffee and fags go together....after food, breaks at work are fag breaks, also smoke alot more when stressed or pissed off.
4. If you have quit smoking successfully, what worked for you?
N/A
5. If you have tried to quit smoking and was unsuccessful, what factors inhbited your success?
Never really tried, attempted on a couple of occasions but only for a day or so and never managed it.
6. If you are still smoking, and would like to quit, what do you think would help you stop?
The desire to really stop dunno I think for me it is so habitual that I'd need to make serious alterations across the board to not do the things I associate with 'time for a fag' dunno
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Mezagog, you my friend have a pm (well, you will once I've written it, and its an essay, so get ready lol)
We do not have Sarah's Law yet therefore the authorities - police, housing or otherwise are under no obligation to offer you any information. BUT, you (or the child's parents) have a genuine complaint as to the manner in which this child was approached, and if you do not feel that it has been dealt with satisfactorily, complain again. Loudly. Also familiarise yourself with the NSPCC website : which carries informative booklets & other info.
IF this perosn is what you suspect, it is likley they will be on licence, and therefore reporting to probation each month/ week depending on thier individual order conditions. All reports to police MUST be acted upon, and if no action is taken due to lack of evidence, there will (should) at the very least be a report available to a probation officer logging the complaint - which in turn starts the ball rolling.
Remember though, within the community, even rumour of something ike this becomes a witch hunt, the rumour mill circulates and people, as you already suggest, start digging for information that often isnt there.
It MAY be a safehouse, or someone in temporary accomodation for whatever reason and not what you immediately suspect - that said though, I dont expect there'll be many children playing out in your area over the coming days. The circumstances of this persons arrival could be absolutely anything - be very very careful what accustaions are thrown.
Call your community beat officer yourself, - and higher if your concerns are 'dismissed' - yes, you'll ask questions to which you will get no answers, but if they know that you 'know' (or even suspect, along with others in your area, and they'll already, I would hope, have reports of the bricked windows) the police are aware that there are lessons to be learned from ignoring public concern, as illustrated in the Paulsgrove Estate riots.
watch over your kids luv, someone else will take the law into their own hands, they always do, unfortunately usually before knowing the facts.
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