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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Happy to chat about it Alleyson, I can recommend someone fairly local too, but I personally dont read anyone I remotely know - its too easy to cheat, i only have to read back through your previous posts/ remember conversations to know stuff even you dont think you've let on :shock: see what i mean?
If people's minds are open to it then I'll talk til the cows come home, but if you're a skeptic, its not worth my effort. I'm not even going to attempt to convince anyone, because I dont have to.
If people's minds are open to it then I'll talk til the cows come home, but if you're a skeptic, its not worth my effort. I'm not even going to attempt to convince anyone, because I dont have to.
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Think a little investigation is required, peoples tastes are so varied when it comes to flowers!
Continentail "wraps" are a fairly good option. Whack in something with a little frangrance (star-gazers/cassablanca?) and build the rest around the persons favourite colour/house/room scheme. Good foliage makes it for me, not that dodgy gypsophilia everywhere!
Often you can trust the florist. Mention your colour preference (to go with whatever), the type of person they are (modern/trad/bohemian/whatever) and allow Mr or Mrs florist to work their magic.
Personally I am a huge fan of Tulips...which I guess makes me cheap and simple
Blimey :shock:
and suddenly Mr Clarke gets interesting
shit Shireen, thats what i meant to say but it came out all wrong 
I've had readings , and do readings. I'm a big believer.
But there are ALOT of fakes out there and 9 times out of 10 its guesswork, or generalisations that will apply to you because if you want to believe what they're saying you psychologically 'fit' what's being said into your life - you can apply it to at least some aspect of your life. Fake clairvoyants are incredibly good at reading body language/ eye contact - we give more things away that we think without even realising it and someone who recognises it will pick it up straight away.
The best ones are those who have the natural gift of claivoyancy AND mediumship - they're the ones who can tell you names, and descriptions of people in your life/ past and really freak you out
But there are ALOT of fakes out there and 9 times out of 10 its guesswork, or generalisations that will apply to you because if you want to believe what they're saying you psychologically 'fit' what's being said into your life - you can apply it to at least some aspect of your life. Fake clairvoyants are incredibly good at reading body language/ eye contact - we give more things away that we think without even realising it and someone who recognises it will pick it up straight away.
The best ones are those who have the natural gift of claivoyancy AND mediumship - they're the ones who can tell you names, and descriptions of people in your life/ past and really freak you out
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But on a personal note being a happy cuddly big bubbly woman, i wish more ads would openly say if they would be intrested/open to a reply from a female of more generous proportions(i apreciate i aint for every one...dam! lol)....after all if they arnt its a waste of both our time isnt it :undecided:
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cos there's nothing worse than 'size / looks unimportant' which to me, equates to 'well u dont look at the mantlepiece when you're stoking the fire'
specifics are good
never ever take assurances that 'they're clean' - come on, they're going to say that, arnt they
here's a good link, have a read:
You cant eliminate all risks - but you can minimise them, and in my book that shows more respect for the people you're playing with than 'ohh its ok, i'm definately 100% clean, honest'
As far as kissing goes - coldsores are a no no - they're caused by a strain of the herpes virus... but if you then give oral after kissing someone with a coldsore, it increases the risk of transferring the virus to genitals where it 'becomes' herpes.
general rule of thumb is to minimise the exchange of bodily fluids - you'd need to swallow a serious amount of saliva when kissing for there to be a risk .... but during forplay, its things like open sores, cuts, grazes - the transfer of blood, particularly in relation to HIV & hepititis that carries the most risk, other than not using a condom
here's a good link, have a read:
You cant eliminate all risks - but you can minimise them, and in my book that shows more respect for the people you're playing with than 'ohh its ok, i'm definately 100% clean, honest'
As far as kissing goes - coldsores are a no no - they're caused by a strain of the herpes virus... but if you then give oral after kissing someone with a coldsore, it increases the risk of transferring the virus to genitals where it 'becomes' herpes.
general rule of thumb is to minimise the exchange of bodily fluids - you'd need to swallow a serious amount of saliva when kissing for there to be a risk .... but during forplay, its things like open sores, cuts, grazes - the transfer of blood, particularly in relation to HIV & hepititis that carries the most risk, other than not using a condom
