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Darkfire
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Quote by winchwench
I dont think you can ever be sure unless it has happend to you.

It has. Or at least, he thought about it - no big drama before anyone starts - or this kills the thread altogether, i cant even say it was an attempt, because it was over before it even started. (i'm tempted to put some laughing emoticons in here to keep it lighthearted, but wont, because that would be distasteful - i hope you understand what I mean)
A few years back I was hassled by a bloke while walking (tottering ,. pissed up, in high heeled shoes) home from a night out, after exchanging the usual pleasantries (ie fuck off mate i'm not interested) he decided it was a good idea to attempt to drag me down an alleyway - and that's as far as he got. End of.
So although I know what you're saying Winchy and no, i havent truly been in that situation, I kinda do know how i'd react wink - and I know Tania isnt here, but before anyone else says it, that experience has absolutely nothing to do with my enjoyment of loss of control fantasies.
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just to butt in here. there are many survivors who don't make a noise or struggle but who are are also non consenting this is why discussion and clear understanding is important.
of course - I can only speak for me, and what my reactions would be. I understand that some women are terrified to the point of silence and submission, a form of self preservation I think. But I know how I'd react hence can make a clear distinction between the two.
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Quote by freckledbird
An extra special one (cos he's giggling like a girl at the mo cos i've just phoned him at work to say I'm posting it :gigglesmile
my other half's bum :twisted: :inlove:

Is he sure he doesn't want to swing? :twisted:
I'm working on it FB! lol , but wont push him....
as a taster, here's the full shot :twisted: :giggle: (at this point, he's full on giggling down the phone lol lol bless )
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An extra special one (cos he's giggling like a girl at the mo cos i've just phoned him at work to say I'm posting it :gigglesmile
my other half's bum :twisted: :inlove:
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Quote by Kiss_Me

If you can't act it then, to do it, you must enjoy the 'abuse you are inflicting' on the rapee.

Interesting post Tune but I just wanted to ad my own comment to yours.
If the loss of control is mutual and sexually enjoyable for both people how can it be "inflicting abuse"?
dunno
I dont think it is about inflicting abuse - this is where the loss of control fantasy is so different from the horror that is . There are very definate limits - physical abuse included. There's a massive different between hair pulling by consent and a smack in the face, being pinned down, and being held by the throat, between being threatened with your life and being told to be quiet and playing along with it, see?
That's why its sooooo important to only play this 'game' with someone you trust, someone who knows the limits and with whom you have discussed at length beforehand- and that goes for all parties.
Another example; in 'real life' if someone grabs you, instinct tells you to fight, scream your head off, kick him in the bollocks etc, & scratch, go for the face so you leave noticeable marks or draw blood (for DNA evidence) , loss of control play usually means you dont do that, you 'play struggle' but you dont make it realistic enough to need to physically hurt him to get him off you - you submit. That's a key part of the fantasy itself.
I think the ' ' has to enjoy the control, and enjoy what he's doing but again, its a planned scenario between people who know and trust each other - and therefore allows him to let himself go beyond the remit that is usually allowed yet still within the boundaries of what's been agreed.
I really dont see how this can be achieved between strangers though dunno
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Quote by sheddy
it's numpty hour, if anyone wants to come join us :twisted:

We survived unscathed and had fun :twisted: lol lol
we must do that again, i'll save a fortune on anger management therapy biggrin
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Quote by ski69
dont take the piss now girl...im not one of those guyz that take loads of crap from women
just because u can get away with it on here...

rotflmao Oh God
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Hiya Dolly
you have a pm, but, yes I'm afraid for the moment it's a no - purely because you are very new and no-one knows you yet.
If someone I know has met you in person & is willing to vouch for you then I'll be happy to put you on the list. However, there's still time before the Munch to get yourself known on the forum and meet a few folk socially - I'll be reviewing invites closer to the time so stick around & keep joining in, but for the time being, in the interests of those on the list, I have everyone's security to consider - I hope you understand :thumbup:
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Quote by dambuster
PS - I wish I could spell some of the noises she's making :giggle:

lets not go there again hun wink
redface rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao
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well i'm here, bored out of my head :crazy:
i have a million and one things to do, the builders descend on my house in a fornight so everything has to be packed and boxed up ready for storage..... but I cant start that because the sellotape noise is driving him mad cos he's watching football rolleyes
someone get me a drink biggrin
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I dont particularly like my boobs rolleyes they look small in clothes then need scaffolding to hold em up once the bra comes off rolleyes , and they're the first place i lose weight from if i so much as read the word Diet lol
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Quote by HornyLittleBlonde

next: Amazonian Warrior Princess/ Xena ??? :rascal:

This is the best Xena we could do redface

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao brilliant!
passionkiss well done you 2 worship
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Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I have to say I'm slightly depressed that he looks better in a little black halterneck than I do redface
Mermaid to follow shortly, but we're being a bit careful as next door are having a pre match BBQ. :giggle:

OMG i'm gutted, just got back from car boot where i could have picked up allsorts for fancy bloody dress rolleyes, and bought em over, and pissed myself laughing at this :cry:
rolleyes
you two are priceless :giggle:
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Quote by mike48
I've done this with Squirrel and Hedghog in the past when money has been tight and it works equally well with either beast.
I usualy have it with a plain boiled rice

:shock:
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Quote by Dollyminx
'Ms Tart Me Up' of Croydon lying spread eagle on an Argos special duvet with a whole heap of junk in the background!!
.... bring it on!

i love those - especially if you've met em in real life and they're sooooo 'i'm it and you're shit' attitude, or they're prissy and snooty on the forum..... then you see the pics - with the inch thick dust and 70's chintz sofa/ bedroom scattered with piles of clothes/cups/general crap - and you think 'ha! you aint that different from me after all' lol redface lol
even worse than that are the one's that people have up that are very posed, very hide-a-multitude-of-sins and you know damn well they (a) dont look like that in real life and (b) actually their arse is bigger than yours lol
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i bet your Mrs doesnt think that, the poor cow mad
somebody gag me, ban me for an hour or sommat before I really say something I wont regret
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I actually really like the non-pushiness non-expecting too much tone of this one, and if I were a couple, and in Northants, I'd give it serious consideration wink God help the black cat if it were just a ploy though, rottweilers eat cats :twisted:
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