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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London
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Quote by lynnywinny
ok i find it so odd that i dont make noise in bed, even if i orgasm painfully, which depends on the position!!! but do people see this as a turn off and that i dont enjoy sex?
hmm can you tell i havnt had a lot of sex!??!?!?!?!?!?
perhaps more a psychological thing, sexual activity is nothing to be 'ashamed' of, but when you're conditioned to keeping your own pleasure 'stifled' cos ya mom's in the next room, it may well be that you just dont allow yourself to let go - at home or elsewhere.
Its a learning curve, which starts with you being comfortable and allowing your body to take over. The fact you havent had alot of sex has nothing to do with it - perhaps more that you havent had much experience of sensuality & expression.
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
yeah, pick ya lip up and stick the picture back on ffs
Yes do
I went to have a quick perv and there was nothing there.
I though Darkfire just said it to wind me up till I saw this
HLB I am far from winding.
he REALLY needs to get those pics back up !!! :inlove: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
on second thoughts, I might keep this one all to myself
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
also would red be judged in the same manor if she was male?
If someone has a number of fuck buddies and they're all happy with the no strings situations then there's nothing wrong with that regardless whether they are male of female.
In a nutshell if all parties consent and are happy then it doesn't matter how many people are in the dynamic or what sex they are
what about someone who has a number of fuck buddies who dont know about each other?
On first meeting/ glance , I definately do have a very particular 'type' and will be attracted on looks alone :smitten: ... now that might last for oooo about 5 seconds til I discover they're a bit of a twat, or it might be that they can spark some interest on top of just being eye-candy.
I cant play with people I just dont 'fancy', it doesnt matter how fantastic a person they are. Sometimes I grow to fancy people through their personality, sometimes I dont
But by far, the people who attract me the most are the ones with whom I 'click', who I feel comfy with drinking coffee, talking with at silly o'clock, and generally make an effort with me more than relying on looks to make the grade
I cant play with people I just dont 'fancy', it doesnt matter how fantastic a person they are. Sometimes I grow to fancy people through their personality, sometimes I dont
But by far, the people who attract me the most are the ones with whom I 'click', who I feel comfy with drinking coffee, talking with at silly o'clock, and generally make an effort with me more than relying on looks to make the grade
Another one to the collection!!
Thanks to His&Hers & NWC for the organising, and everyone who helped out :thumbup:
also special thanks to DizzyTart for organising afternoon drinkies, and to all who came along to that :thumbup: and for putting me up, you're a star!
To Earthy for the ballgown :shock: - fair enough it never made it out of Dizzy's house, but thankyou for bringing your wardrobe anyway but I look a right twat in a frock
To Stuart & Tanina, EdinBBW, Suze and Bart, Earthy again and Dizzy for the after-munch company, natter & blowing up of airbeds at stupid o'clcock - and of course to the Helium Boys for the entertainment!
Hello's again to Sierra & Grimpol, CplLeeds, Bigboy&Little Girl .... "Taxi!!" ...MDR and Mrs Mdr (stunning), The Quimninjas, The Ramones twins, Splendid & 'Aggie' ( ) - I'm so sorry for being so ignorant at the start of the night, smokers corner has alot to answer for , Mike2020 
, and all the usual suspects as well as alot of new faces who's names I cant remember
Dammy & HLB, good to see you both, glad you made it in the end - IOU fruit pastilles
BiPaula for nicking the hat, again :shock: & to anyone else I've missed off....
Last but not least, the vanilla barman :shock: :twisted: , not likley to read this, but thanks for making my night
Thanks to His&Hers & NWC for the organising, and everyone who helped out :thumbup:
also special thanks to DizzyTart for organising afternoon drinkies, and to all who came along to that :thumbup: and for putting me up, you're a star!
To Earthy for the ballgown :shock: - fair enough it never made it out of Dizzy's house, but thankyou for bringing your wardrobe anyway
but I look a right twat in a frock To Stuart & Tanina, EdinBBW, Suze and Bart, Earthy again and Dizzy for the after-munch company, natter & blowing up of airbeds at stupid o'clcock - and of course to the Helium Boys for the entertainment!
Hello's again to Sierra & Grimpol, CplLeeds, Bigboy&Little Girl .... "Taxi!!" ...MDR and Mrs Mdr (stunning), The Quimninjas, The Ramones twins, Splendid & 'Aggie' (
) - I'm so sorry for being so ignorant at the start of the night, smokers corner has alot to answer for , Mike2020 , and all the usual suspects as well as alot of new faces who's names I cant remember Dammy & HLB, good to see you both, glad you made it in the end - IOU fruit pastilles
BiPaula for nicking the hat, again :shock:
& to anyone else I've missed off.... Last but not least, the vanilla barman :shock: :twisted: , not likley to read this, but thanks for making my night
Quote by earthchild
woohoo been up since , so far have 6 outfits to bring with me, still need to get in the shower and get petrol, not at the same time obviously. Ipod on charge, mobile on charge but not even packed a thing yet.
oooh am soooo excited
Earthy xx
only 6?????? :shock:
you're slacking woman!!
(no I aint packed either
) do you know what, I dont think it is just a male thing......... maybe we fems have more experience of those-who-are-to-be-avoided simply cos there's more blokes here? ..... I've yet to meet a fem here who rings the alarm bells the way a few blokes have though, although I'm sure I will at some point :scared:
..... I've yet to meet a fem here who rings the alarm bells the way a few blokes have though, although I'm sure I will at some point :scared: 
I'm losing it arnt I Quote by mazandden
and has anyone ever been wary about you though??lol
totally.
and I think for a few different reasons too
it is kinda an ongoing jokey misconception thing (but sometimes people really do take me the wrong way) that Darkfire is 'scary' .. bit of a rottweiler (hence the avatar as a result of something someone said to me recently) type image , which in all fairness I think i've actually carved out for myself and 'encouraged', perhaps. So yeah, I have met some people , although its usually folk I aint met before, who are wary of me. But I prefer to think its more because I'll say what I think etc than being truly intimidatingly scary - I'm only actually like that part-time, or with people I really dislike
I'm also aware that some people are wary of me due to rumour, chinese whispers and general gossip. End of day, those who know me, know. Those who dont... might find out one day :twisted:
