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Darkfire
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Quote by Missy
certain words are far too strong for what I mean and what I've indulged in.

:thumbup: I dont like the term ' fantasy' at all, it gives all the wrong conotations, its offensive and deeply emotive . is , and that's certainly not what we're talking about here. it's a term used to 'describe' something that is far far more complex than 'simply' being non-consentual sex - for a start what we're talking aboutisconsentual!!
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' ' fantasy is sort of my ultimate - but I know in my own head it isnt and wouldnt be, .
I understand exactly what you're saying Missy, it is an extreme sub/dom thing, and I'm joining you in the freaky self-analysis thing lol Last time I did this I scared myself half to death :shock: lol
While I dont agree with the other half of Tania's post, this smacks the nail on the head for me:
Missy, I think what you really wanted out of that play acting was to experience loss of control. I bet you are a very strong-willed woman in your everyday life who always gets what she wants so you elected to give up control for a while to relax your spirit.

The rottweiler thing on here started as a bit of a joke, a snide comment that i thought was hilarious - because in real life I really can be a rottweiler lol I'm a feisty, hard faced control freak, I'm selfish, I always get my own way, I never back down if i can possibly help it, and once the fangs sink in, they stay there lol Physically men are very little threat to me, I've worked the doors for years and in that respect am very capable of holding my own. If I play with someone its always by my rules and ultimately it's me who's in control. However, that side of my personality also means I crave absolute loss of control - and I found that that kind of release (for me) comes sexually.
That said, I couldn't act out such fantasies in full with someone from here. The sheer level of trust and respect required to enable me to let someone else 'take' me and take over my body & mind (because effectively that's what it is/ what I need ) , imo, is not something I'll find within the swinging scene. But I have dabbled round the edges and loved it wink
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biggrin duly added
cant have a Munch without Dammy with the wobble on wink
and you'd best go to the shop for fruit pastilles mate :scared:
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would you like tea or coffee with that, or perhaps just a glass of fruit juice?
lol
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:thumbup:
good luck you two biggrin
oh, and I'm sending you a pic you might like :twisted:
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Quote by Lilmiss
My partner is "vanilla".....
And that's the way i love him

ditto Lilmiss wink
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edited, cos these posts & your post history make absolutely no sense. You're not a newbie, so I'm confused :doh:
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Happy Birthday to you
You come from a zoo
You look like a monkey
And ya smell like one too :smug: rotflmao rotflmao
Have a good one Stormy (in a tea cup) :kick:
Dark x
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if you're typing and it takes a while, highlight and press copy before hitting send. We time out at 24 minutes wink
also useful if you're connection is dodgy, mine plays up all the time but you simply log back on, hit the reply button & then paste your previously written post! and Bobs ya Uncle (aka Dammy, who'll probably be along later lol forum joke, dont worry if you didnt get it , you will wink)
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Quote by Silverblu
Forum addiction - any chance of a support group for that? I keep telling myself "just 10 more mins" but it doesn't seem to be working lol

the support group is right here, cos we're all in the same boat hun! wink
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Quote by Tania
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer'

I think, and remember this is only my oppinion, that many people, gals and guys, on arrival here do the whole 'kid in a sweetshop' thing.
Its all so exciting, your confidence goes through the roof because you're getting offers in your pm box every 5 minutes and you're on a high from both the attention and the hormone levels - especially the fems. Physical pleasure is good, feels good, therefore you want more, and there's plenty on offer. You can get, if you want it, practically anything at the drop of a pm, and you know it.
But I also think kid-in-a-sweetshop syndrome is one of the most unappealing and unattractive aspects of this lifestyle. It can give others a 'bad' impression - each to their own , and what's ok for one might not be ok for another etc, but me personally, I'm not interested in playing with someone who's shagged half the site before they get to me, in being another 'conquest', 'feather in someones cap' or some insignificant shag that he/she forgets about the following day when he's/ she's out shagging the next one on the 'to do' list. Frankly, that whole attitude of legs spread faster than margerine kinda disgusts me - but hey, there's plenty of folk out there who dont have a problem with it dunno
Me, I'm up my own ass and think I'm special, but hey, you can just call me picky wink
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Quote by earthchild
I just cant do it, i feel stupid when i try, just doesnt feel natural to me
Earthy xx

I can do it, but only if its reciprocated or I get a reaction from it, the more reaction I get, the dirtier my smutty mouth gets, I sit giggling like a girl afterwards at some of the stuff I'll actually come out with ...when i start getting all 'omg i cant beleive i just said that' lol
but if I dont get that 'omg look what you're doing to me' or the 'you'd best stop that now or you're in big trouble' look, or the cock/pussy twitch thing, it just makes me feel silly redface so only do it with someone I know i'll get it back from lol
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Quote by Suze43
Ummm surely its not the quantity but the quality???

:thumbup:
that said, i do have days where my body says I need it, and I need it NOW and that feeling doesnt go away til I've .. ahem, sorted it lol
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I've found Meaty's clone :shock:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/members/show-member.html?m=456299
:shock: :shock: god help us all bolt
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Quote by celestria
now I nearly choked on my coffee at that one... RWL andhonourable? Not things you see in the same sentence too often

my attempts at side swipes with claws out are very subtle wink
>> i'm leaving now lol lol
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then shut up, ffs rolleyes lol
>>>promptly leaves the pink fluff thread and makes mental note not to attempt that again lol
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Quote by celestria
ffs you two... take it to pm... this is my pink and fluffy thread and you're hijacking it rolleyes wink flipa
Normal service is to be resume shortly lol
:inlove: :rose:

i was doing pink and fluffy ( :shock: ) til my honourable friend decided to stick his oar in!
i'm much better in rottweiler mode anyway, it suits flipa
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maybe it would, but I'll be the judge of that, if I feel it needs enhancing, thankyou
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I dont do frocks in public :shock:
in fact, i dont do frocks, full stop. pmsl lol
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me & my bloke dont really do the physical enhancing stuff like sit together cuddled up and all that mush, we never have done... but, as daft as it sounds, every so often he'll come in the bathroom and wash my hair for me, and I feckin love that :inlove:
and sometimes while i'm sat on here, he'll massage my back & shoulders and we;ll read the threads before he goes to bed and leaves me to it, thats just how we are dunno
Sometimes I really embarrass him at work, cos most mornings I'll slap some sandwiches together, stick em in a food bag and he gets whatever our daughter's having for convenience - then every so often I'll make him something really flash (as sandwiches go) or his favorite, pack them in a tub with garnish & napkin and a little 'love you' note stuck in there somewhere and all the lads take the piss but he goes all pink and fluffy on me for days after rotflmao
some nigts on way back from work I'll nip to Tesco's and pick up something, a t shirt, box of cakes, a cd, whatever - then go overboard with gift ribbon and leave it on the kitchen side for him when he wakes up redface , and last week when it was hot weather, i took him and the lads 80 ice pops out the freezer to work without phoning first, I am now Mrs Ice Pop Goddess pmsl lol redface lol
but like i say, we dont really do the handy-holdy- cuddly fluffy stuff, but what we do do works, for us! wink
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