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Darkfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Greater London

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Quote by osker99
scars defiantley add character, especially if they come attached with a story. Like the Faint say if somethings worth doing its worth getting hurt for.

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Quote by Sassy-Seren
Bullet wounds/ knife marks are my particular fave :shock: :twisted:

Sassy nails up the knife drawer
I'm a sucker for flat-noses (boxers) funny ears (rugby players) wethered skin ( outdoor types) rough working -man's hands (farmers, builders, dry-stone wallers etc ) 52 inch chests and two rolls of carpet underarm (bouncers) war wounds (forces and people involved in stuff they shouldnt be) and anythiing that moves in a black suit or Rigger boots & flurescent yellow vests lol
and to that... battle scars, tattoos, 'man smell' and finished off with either mud or car oil and I'm a very happy bunny biggrin
Quote by Mewantsalot
Got a nice scar on my back where i got stuck with a stanley blade.

ahhhh, but ya see, it aint the scar that intruiges me, it's what you were doing/ did to get stuck with a stanley blade in the back in the first place biggrin
now, either its sommat daft like you fell over at work (in which case the scars dont count) or you have a bit of a past and someone decided to slice you = interesting character wink
Ok, so i'm just plain wierd, but who cares dunno :twisted:
if they're on someone who looks like you - yes! lol
but it's not the scars themselves, and not a turn on as such - its the psychological guesswork of 'what you had to go through to get em' idea, and they're often very symbolic of a person's past. Bullet wounds/ knife marks are my particular fave :shock: :twisted:
Quote by
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Regrets? I've a had a few, but then again, too few to mention lol

That sounds like a song to me, just can not place it.
My Way - Sinatra or Sid Vicious, take your pick biggrin
cant help you with this one hun, but am watching with interest lol
where's NN when ya need her??? rolleyes lol
Damn me too :cry:
next time, shout me, but preferably when stormy's gone to bed lol
what Dave said!
if anyone is causing you a problem - personally and through to the extent of gatecrashing socials ( :shock: evil ) report it and let's get it sorted.
as an aside, venue locations should be kept secret until literally a couple of days before the event, and the rules are that no one passes on that info but the organiser (you) so its unlikley that this person would know about your social in terms of actually being able to turn up......
If the social is in a private room or seperate area to vanillas, you would have a 'door team' and believe me, if someones name aint on your guestlist, they aint coming in! lol
see what I mean about the way things are done? Oh , and PM a mod, with evidence if you've got it wink
quite possibly Spengler lol
wish it was someone else bar the sun stroking me though :shock: :giggle:
ok ok, i'm sorry, that was cheesy, I'll get my coat bolt
:confused: eh? what? how? :crazy:
bloody hell I must have passed out, I remember the 'warm sun, lush grass and entwined bodies' bit and next thing I know its :shock:
wink
Quote by firelizard
Who has a bad back and needs lots of sympathy…… :therethere:

tea and sympathy is not my forte sweetie, sorry lol
today I am feeling the need for a secluded little woodland area....warm sunshine and cool breeze ......trees.....chilled wine (the bottle is important :twisted: ).....soft fruit picnic.......rope..........blindfolds......probing fingers........ :twisted:
and a cold shower, again rolleyes
Quote by dambuster
Eeeeeeuwww
I've tried recently the sharing of the pre-cum, but I don't think I could do the full snowballing thing
bolt

Dammy you're just so nesh rolleyes lol
(nesh being on the wrong side of camp rotflmao )
it's not just the weather though now is it - all those hormones and horny comments pinging around the forum are simply adding to the atmosphere. It's snowballing :twisted:
god help us all come the weekend biggrin
Quote by Kiss_Me
OOOoooh
different ones for different occasions.
Can't beat hard and furious doggie, him with one hand holding my hip and one hand pushing down between my shoulders so I can hardly breath. *I like to be the 'him' with my strapon when assuming this position! - I do get so carried away when doing this lol!*

Bedfordshire, ffs. :cry:
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Quote by madchick
Many apologies to all those who expressed an interest but due to unforeseen circumstances I will not be able to organise this social.
Once again, my apologies.
Madchick

hun, no need to cancel this if you really want to organise something - but please, ask for help with it.
Aside from all the petty issues we nasty regulars have pointed out , myprimary concern is that as the organiser of this social you are in effect taking on the responsibility of ensuring everyone who attend's safety & security.
Swinging, and the social side of this lifestyle is not exclusive to age etc, and you will find that the best socials are the one's that do have that mix of older/ younger and everything in between age groups. People who value the social aspect will travel - and they do. From Edinburgh to Cornwall, people will travel if they wish to.
I'm sorry if you've been 'put off', but IMO there are ways that these things are done, if they are to be done 'properly'. No one wants to see you cancel this - and if you want it, people will be happy to help you out.
Madchick, you havent been to a social before have you?
perhaps you should, before attempting one of your own because you are way off the mark so far. Credit where its due for attempting it, but I'd say leave the chatroom- thinking behind if you wanna get this off the ground. There are 'socials' and there are socials wink
hmmm, define 'nice' = nonpushy & sensitive, rampant and hair-pulling.
oh, and does not post crap digs about fly fishing wink
rolls over and goes to sleep = not nice, but also needs to be in my pm box so I can bitchslap for fun lol lol
Quote by meat2pleaseu
yep! lol anyway, you only ever send me a one line reply, you don't have a pic in your profile and you keep coming onto the site for a moan. you sure you're not a bloke :giggle:

Dont flatter yourself with classing them as one whole liners luv, fuck off and bollox mate dont count as anything flipa
Quote by Phoenix
Anyway, your hypothesis is wrong... genuine nice blokes may be too embarrased to approach directly . :!:

would they?
or would they take an opportunity when its opened to themwith both hands ?
wheat from the chaff and all that wink
laziness is not a good thing Mr Meaty. It is a trait which suggests you/ they wont follow up pm's, wont be there when they say they will, and are crap in bed = not a nice genuine single bloke lol
still sitting on your ass? dunno
Tomorrow is but another day, so......
Quote by duncster
hi all you horny females if you need satisfaction hard sex pussy licking etc i am your man come and get me ladies

Hiya Duncster biggrin
I never do the running, but should you feel that way inclined, please pop by and grace my pm box with your presence.
It's dinnertime :twisted:
biggrin :idea:
I have a proposal.
Would all of those who claim to be nice single guys please report to my pm box.
Hypothesis: Any genuine nice bloke will take the risk.
Those who arnt, wont.
lol I'm waiting. :twisted:
Quote by firelizard
Hey! Darkfire…get you arse over here and let me give you a right good .hey! mmumph gak!!! Mummfugh… get off me ya silly twa…gnuffik…….

Note I am :gagged:
i am being a good girl today biggrin
Quote by neilinleeds
sheddy, one of the masquerade balls completely opened my eyes.
i registered as well_busty_baby, and before i'd even made a post, within 5 minutes of activating and showing in the who's-logged-in list, i had 3 pms from blokes who i certainly didn't know from adam, and i guarantee you they didn't know me, cos they might have been a bit more reticent with the come one's if they'd known i was, in fact, a bloke! lol

hence why many of us are in 'stealth mode' when here in the Cafe. A couple of people have previously had a dig at me for lurking/ stealth moding/ posts come out of no-where because you cant see me in the 'who's online' list - and now you all know why!!
I'll often see someone I know in the list and send an on-spec 'hiya' just cos I know they're there - I tend not to recieve them, which is sad, but a small price to pay if it means I dont get random 'wanna shag' pm's wink
Quote by dambuster
How's that for tact and diplomacy ?????

spoon, own and medicine spring to mind lol
Quote by sexkittenhfx
and not only could i not hear anyone but they were all too busy dancing to chat! which is great for everyone that knows eachother but for new people, people on their own, shy kittens..... redface
cue kitten sat alone planning on getting a date for the next one!

what !!!!!!!! :shock: :cry: :shock: :cry:
This will never do. My pm box, right now young lady. Sat on own at a munch indeed - shame on us all :cry: